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Brother: I still think forget it, why?
Because today's women, thinking about reality, they are not looking for a lifelong partner, but looking for a house.
Advice for you:
1.If it is feasible, you can tell her that everyone will raise money with her to buy a house together, so that the expenses will be enough for your daily life.
2.Start by finding a good house, preferably in the city.
This will narrow the distance between you.
3.That's what I'm thinking; Because you are far apart, if she really loves you, she will not ask you for a house, it should be what her parents wanted, this is really disgusting, if you still have a chance to communicate, you should ask, after all, getting married together is not using a house to tie you two together.
If it really doesn't work, forget it, there is no grass at the end of the world Hehe.
In the new year, I wish you all the best and every day!
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Do you want this kind of person too? I'll just forget it!
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How to get your girlfriend back quickly? Redeem your girlfriend and you should redeem it like this.
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Say more nice things and praise her.
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Why redeem it? She doesn't love you. For love or marriage, my opinion has always been that if you break up or divorce, don't try to redeem it, most of it is useless
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If you want to win her back, you must first know her own thoughts.
Many people below said that the other party was very realistic and broke up because of the house. Maybe one of the root causes of your breakup was her family's opposition and repeated persuasion. The first thing you need to do now is to communicate with her and find out if she is still willing to get back together with you.
I think you've been in a relationship for three years, and you definitely have a relationship foundation. It's just that for practical reasons, she bowed her head to life.
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I don't think you need to redeem it, she is dead to you now that she has a boyfriend, she has her own values and wants to pursue the life she wants. You have fundamental differences in values, and you won't be happy together. By the way, the world is very realistic, and sometimes money can really solve everything.
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If you break up because of a small problem, there may be a chance to make amends. However, now that the big problem of the house is involved, the odds are very small. Have you ever seen a snail house?
A house is important to a woman, and there is no place to live without a house. Women nowadays are very realistic, since you don't have the money to buy a house, don't try to win her heart back. Your house is only more than 400,000 yuan, why can't you take out a loan?
A house like ours costs more than 800,000 yuan, and my boyfriend can't afford it, but I'm still waiting for him, your girlfriend gives up on you so easily, and it's not worth it for you to die for her like this.
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Since she's that kind of person, why do you want to keep her?
Don't you think it's worth bothering to keep it?
If you care about money, you don't care about feelings, and even if you keep her person, you can't keep his heart.
Sooner or later, the same mistakes will be repeated.
Why bother!
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Now it's the world of money, what you should know. What about her attitude, if you really don't have any ability, and the money you earn is too little to maintain her vanity, then you go and earn money, if it's because she's a girl who only cares about money, then you give up.
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irretrievable ...
The economic base determines the superstructure, and you live in society, not in film and television dramas.
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I've seen a lot of visitors who are easy to get excited when they are redeemed, and they can't control their emotions, and they will coax him to hope that he will turn back, and then threaten him that if he doesn't reconcile, you will make him regret it, but it's a pity that men won't pay for your emotions at this time, and all your negative emotions are only fuss and annoyance in his eyes.
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Don't pray, don't entangle, accept the fact of breaking up, many people will repeatedly promise each other that I will change, I will change, I will change, give me another chance, okay? And these words are often said n times before the breakup, and repeating them again will only cause the other party to resent them.
Or if you feel hopeless after trying to redeem yourself, you are angry and say that you should never contact each other again, and then you can't help but contact the other party, these repeated actions are not conducive to recovery, and your image in the other party's heart will be greatly reduced.
And when a man proposes to break up, it is generally a deliberate decision, and he doesn't want to continue, for what reason? If you have the opportunity, you must ask the reason why the other party wants to leave, but many times they will not tell you the real reason, you can only think and understand it yourself.
Or you have some shortcomings that he can't bear or there are some realistic external resistances that make him have to give up, or more rationally say that it is easier to give up than to continue, and you can find the answer from what he has said.
After breaking up, give yourself some time to think about the real reason why the other party wants to break up, only when you find the real reason why he wants to break up, you can be targeted when you recover.
Breaking up gives yourself a period of calm, and another advantage is to let the other party accept the fact that the breakup is that the two people who used to have the most information every day suddenly cut off contact, and it is not only you who are uncomfortable, but also him, but it is this pain that will prompt him to miss the good you used to be, and think about whether the decision to break up is right.
3. Breaking off contact and finding back to your former self is difficult for people who want to redeem their love, you may very much want to know if he still loves you, whether it is worth retrieving, and what he is doing during the breakup.
But I tell you, don't rush to contact, even if you are still in love with the other person, don't keep looking at his space and following his Weibo, because once you are overly involved, it will only increase your sense of need and make the other party more and more disgusted with you.
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Churchill once said that "there are two things in this world that you can't undo, one is the wall that falls to you, and the other is the woman who falls to someone else", if she loves someone else, don't redeem it, even if it is redeemed, it will still be divided, if not, just look at what she likes, coax her more, if it is a misunderstanding, explain it clearly.