The question of career or girlfriend, which is more important, girlfriend or career?

It doesn't matter if you're in Nanjing, or you're back to your hometown. The first thing you should do is to develop your own career, if a man does not have a stable income, then what if you can make your beloved happy? A year is not a long time, but it is not a short time.

In another year, give yourself a chance to develop, and also give your girlfriend a good learning space (how much room can two people learn together). A year may not necessarily be a big development for you, but at least you can have a stable foundation, and when your girlfriend graduates, you are coming together, and you have the ability to support her, isn't it great?

Men put their careers first, and they can only be better for their girlfriends if they stabilize themselves, and it would be better if they could work together. It is recommended to go home first, and a year is not long. It's a big deal to go to see her often, and I don't care if I can have a good development this year. Let's go find it first.

If there is a good women's exhibition in my hometown, of course, I will go home and develop. Girlfriend: If she loves you, I think she'll support your decision. Absolutely. It's up to you to see if you want to go back to your hometown a little more or not. If your girlfriend doesn't support it, the reason is light or heavy.

Isn't it just a year, if you really love your girlfriend, just wait a year. So young, everything is possible. There are also many opportunities to find a good job throughout the year. If you go home, you will only regret it.

Develop your career first, besides, your girlfriend hasn't graduated yet!

She graduates, and you think about the future!

Don't interfere with her studies and your career!

Develop your career in Nanjing first! Wait until your girlfriend graduates!

First ask yourself if you like her very, very much, love her, you can't live without her, if so, don't leave Nanjing...

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But'If I were that girl, I would definitely be very sad, but it is also very important to support a family's moral economy.

It depends on how you deal with it.

You can also fall in love when you are separated.

Does separation mean breaking up? You won't develop first! When and won't ....

I think it's equally important for women to have careers, and women should have their own careers. In the past, women may have given up the pursuit and development of their careers due to various reasons such as social traditions and family environment, but now the social atmosphere and concepts have changed greatly, and women have the right to pursue their career dreams, and should be able to get enough support and help.

Therefore, when women are faced with work and love, they should prioritize their career development instead of giving up better job opportunities for the sake of their boyfriends. Although a boyfriend is very important for women, a career is a woman's own career and has nothing to do with her boyfriend. Women should always understand that they must prioritize their own development and not make unnecessary sacrifices in love and career.

In addition, I believe that women should pursue their careers and future in the same way as men. Today's women are no longer limited to the traditional role positioning of the family, but are playing an increasingly important role in all areas of society. Women also need to have their own careers and developments, so that they can be recognized and respected by others, and they can also make more contributions to the whole society with their excellent performance.

In addition, in the choice of work and love, women should also choose according to their actual situation. You can't give up your career because of love, and you can't sacrifice your happiness and feelings in love because of your career. The right career and the right partner are equally important, and both should be balanced and coordinated in order to make one's life more complete and happy.

In the end, I believe that the choice between career and love is not the most important thing, the key is how to make the right choice. In the process of choosing, women should not only look at the present, but also look further and consider their long-term development and future path. Choosing a career or choosing love is not only right and wrong, but according to your personal situation and actual needs, to make the choice that best meets your needs.

To sum up, I think women can't give up better job opportunities for their boyfriends, because career and love are things that women need to pursue and develop, and there is no question of order between the two, women should make choices that meet their interests and expectations according to their actual situation and needs. I believe that as long as we always adhere to our beliefs and principles, we will be able to achieve more achievements and gains on the road of career and love, and make ourselves more outstanding and wonderful.

Career is far more important than love. If career can't be eternal, then can love only be a flash in the pan? 5[

Love, Career, Important].

A 20-year-old person, do you put your career first, or do you put love first?

Is it worth waiting for love? I've been thinking about it for a long time, when love favors you, your career may have a side impact!

I've always wanted to be personal, although she is also a friend of others, but her heart is unwilling, although there are people who throw her arms away, but she can't shake me, I can only silently pray in my heart that she can live a better life! Do I give up waiting? Whenever I see couples walking in front of me, I can't help but feel lost.

I admit my cowardice, but the people I like can't be by my side! Waking up in the middle of the night, often wandering the streets, enjoying the coolness of the night alone, never telling friends and relatives about it, and still forcing laughter, wanting to give up? How half?

Career, now I am just starting, I don't know what tomorrow will be, nothing more than success and failure! I also want to do what I should do now, but I always hate myself in my heart, and I can't even convince myself, how to overcome the difficulties of the world!

I was going to have something to achieve in starting a family, but

There was a time when I was going to give up waiting and focus on my career! But I picked it up, but I couldn't put it down, I was a person in temperament, without the slightest bit of the wind of a man, how to be good!

What's the point of living like this? How to get the best of both worlds!

When it comes to choosing between a girlfriend and a career, I think career is more important. To be a successful man, first of all, the career must be successful. If you don't have a successful career, your girlfriend will follow.

Modern society is a realistic society, and when a girl falls in love with a boy, she may not care about anything, and thinks that as long as the boy is good to her wholeheartedly, she will identify with the boy. Once married, the boy has no ambition and his career will be nothing. In the face of all kinds of pressures in life, those good things when you are in love are just a dream, and you are far less secure than a man who has a successful career.

Will the girl's original persistence continue? I think that in the face of real life, the girl should not insist anymore.

A friend of mine had a girlfriend when he was in college. He was very nice to the girl, and the girl was very fond of him. After graduating from university, the two of them worked together.

After a year of work, the two are ready to get married, but the girl's parents are very dissatisfied with the boy, feeling that the boy is too content with the status quo, satisfied with ordinary work, has no ideals and no ambitions, and if he marries his daughter, he will not bring her a happy life.

Under the persuasion of the girl's parents, the boy also deeply understands that if his career is not successful, his girlfriend will also leave him. Since then, the boy has not looked for a girlfriend, he is busy with his work, and through his own efforts, he has risen to the leadership level in the company. For a young boy, it can be regarded as a little achievement, and there are many girls chasing him at this time, and later, he chose a girl from the company to get married.

They live very well and have a good relationship.

Therefore, when choosing between a career and a girlfriend, most people will choose a career, and if they have a career, they will have a girlfriend, and if they don't have a career, even if they have a girlfriend, there will be a time to leave.

Actually, everyone thinks that there is a focus in this, but in my opinion, girlfriend and career are just as important. During the period of your youthful struggle, you can pull your girlfriend to fight with you. If the two start a business together, it will make more sense, and it will be better for the future.

Depressed, isn't it often said that good love makes people progress, and bad love makes people regress? Only love that shares joys and sorrows can last forever and grow old.

Sometimes everyone thinks that this thing is not the same as the bear's paw, I believe everyone has watched it, Ode to Joy is a TV series, in which Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei, their love story is a good example. Wang Baichuan because of the love between the two of them. In order to find a place in Shanghai, buy a house as soon as possible, build a safe home, and in order for his girlfriend to get rid of such a predicament as soon as possible, he always works so hard, in this way, in fact, their love is the driving force for him to succeed.

Therefore, career and girlfriend are not in conflict, on the contrary, they can promote each other, and this girlfriend and career are not in a relationship of fish and bear's paw. As long as you get along, you can talk about your girlfriend and struggle with you, and then become a partner at work and a partner in life. In this way, the two of them will have a common topic, and they will not be bored if they have endless work to talk about.

Only when two people are self-motivated, then life will change, and love will develop faster and smoother.

I believe that girls in this world will hope that their boyfriend will have a motivated heart, and hope that he can make a breakthrough in his career and become a successful person to enter the last society.

In this case, in a few years, you will have a car, a house, and a girlfriend, so why not? Why do you have to choose between a girlfriend and a career? In fact, we don't need to give up things that don't conflict, a mature and rational man will know what should be given up and what should not be given up, or what can coexist.

Of course, it's a career, and a man can only be regarded as the realization of self-worth when he has a career!

The highest need of people is the embodiment of self-worth, and a man should not affect your career because of women. If you don't have a career, there will be no woman willing to follow you, this society is such a reality, you have to succeed first and develop first, so that you can be more successful in the future, and see what is the most important thing now. Because everyone is very realistic, that woman doesn't like to be successful, which means that men should pay more attention to their careers so that they can live a better life in the future.

The ancients said: A good man has ambitions in all directions, if he stays by his girlfriend's side every day, what will he do? In ancient times, men were the pillars of the family, but also machismo, career is everyone's pursuit, Li Bai is like this, a talent, for his career, he went south and north, traveled all over the country, has been running for his career, he is a rich son, in today's words is a rich second generation, originally he didn't have to go to anything, stay at home and have endless money, he can follow his wife to live a stable life, but then he will have such an achievement.

Although his career path is not smooth, if he doesn't have this heart, can he write those quatrains that have been passed down through the ages?

After all, career is the most important thing for a man, and women are always behind. A man's value is also reflected in his career, and realizing self-worth is everyone's highest goal. Only those who have realized their own value are the most fulfilling!

This question also varies from person to person.

College students on college campuses should focus on their studies and exercising themselves to improve their abilities, although some people will fall in love, but it is very pure, maybe they are involuntarily attracted to each other, but they should still be reliable and heartfelt in their communication without a purpose.

When the man is still fresh out of school or his career is not particularly stableSo men at this stage should first put aside their children's affections, concentrate on their work and career, and only when they make some achievements in their careers can they have extra energy and time to do other things.

When this man has done a good job in all aspectsI have been working for 7-8 years, and the relationship with colleagues, bosses and customers is also very harmonious, and everything is already at a very stable stage, so I can spend time on love.

Then the problem comes, it is common to see some couples who neglect each other because of their other half's work and entrepreneurship, although two people cannot get tired of being together every day, but after work and in their spare time, couples are eager for the other half to be by their side.

Although I am not a man, I think that on the one hand, men should be encouraged and supported because of their careers, so girls should be more considerate in this regard. At this time, the girl can also do what she wants.

As long as men are not making excuses, they can be forgiven for doing other things for overtime and creative reasons.

If a man goes to play games on the grounds that he has no time for overtime and entrepreneurship, to mess with other men, then it is not okay, and playing games itself is not a good entertainment, drinking with other brothers, this is often seen, and men at this time should only want men to accompany them.

At this time, as a girlfriend, I can't help but have a good relationship with that brother, enter their circle, and really get to know this man, so I can see if it is worth entrusting for life.

In fact, when watching Ode to Joy, that scene was Qu Xiaoxiao walking on the way to meet the client, and suddenly received ** when Yao Bin and Dr. Zhao were fighting, and immediately returned.

I really think it's not a very big deal, there are not many people next to the two men, they will dissuade them, and Dr. Zhao is an orthopedic doctor, and he has his own measure, and she can't save the fire from Qu Xiaoxiao, but she can call ** to calm down the emotions, there is no need to offend the customer.

From this point of view, I still think that the customer should be solved, and then the matter of these two big men should be solved, after all, they are not children, should know the proportion.

In short, a man can deal with what kind of things at what stage, and he can't delay his work because of falling in love, and he can't delay his life's major events because of work.