I always feel that what he likes is what I don t have

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't change yourself for other people's preferences, if he really loves you, he won't be nitpicky at all, even 160,47kg, shouting ** all day long, but even boyfriends don't allow it, say that as long as it's healthy, why pursue these, the person who really loves you will think about your real health instead of ignoring your health for his preferences, if that's the case, you should leave him early, because every woman will be old, when his attention is focused on your face, he will feel that your face is not beautiful enough and ask you for plastic surgery, Your figure is not good enough to ask you for breast augmentation, this requirement will change according to his preferences, do you want to blindly accommodate him? If he says that next time, you can say: Go find the girl you like, I'm not going to do it!

    You could fire him, can't you find a better boy? As a girl, you have to have your own opinions, don't let him have a sense of superiority, so he won't be grateful.

    You still say you're in charge of his food and clothing? Hehe, beauty, I think you really can't figure out the boundaries between love and marriage, you are too good to him, what you said he can't do without you is because you are responsible for taking care of him? You're wrong, it means that he has found the next one to replace you, and once he finds someone who can take care of him and has a good figure, you don't know if he will change his mind.

    The foundation of love is not based on the situation of one person paying, so the giver will feel very tired, unless you yourself like it very much.

    I think the first question you have to figure out is whether he loves you or is dependent on your care. Don't be so nice to him, men like to be in a state of being in a state of not getting it, only then will he be nervous hehe

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I understand the confusion of the landlord, in fact, when I was young, everyone would have such a problem, always hoping to ask for perfection, always hoping to have what I didn't have, but I didn't know to care about it seriously, to cherish, in fact, everyone has heard a lot, but in real life, when it is real to use, I can't realize the role of these truths.

    I think you should learn to tell him what you need, everyone will need to rely on, whether it is a man or a woman, there will be one or another dependence, since two people live together, you have to tell him what you need, what kind of life you think is happy, two people together to change the status quo, find common ground together.

    Fate brings you together, then you must have a lot of commonality that can touch each other's hearts, don't be discouraged, the peace and fulfillment of life are also created by each other's thoughtfulness, happiness is earned, hehe. So first of all, we should also understand him with our hearts, and tell him what kind of life you want, and we must be willing to change for each other. I wish you all happiness and happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that after being together for a long time, I will know each other's shortcomings.

    It doesn't matter, no one is perfect.

    Picking out your flaws is a sign that your relationship is really close.

    Of course, the shortcomings that can be changed are good, and the shortcomings that cannot be changed are just good to make them their own natural beauty.

    For example, if you have a big skeleton, that's a kind of backbone beauty, isn't it?

    A strong woman, he should also be proud.

    Other people's girlfriends are so fragile, and their own girlfriends will be stronger than others, and it shows that they are outstanding, and they should be very proud.

    But you still have to pay attention to him as a person, to see if he really loves you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since no one can do without anyone, let him say it. Don't worry. I'm also fat, and I never cared when he said me. Would you like to? Don't want to break up? That's my attitude.

    Being able to be with you is not for your appearance!! So ignore him, you're certainly not suddenly fat. He was mentally prepared before making friends, and that was an excuse for him to count you down.

    In short, ignore him. Eat when you should, and feel like you're fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Few girls are well fed now

    About** this question Oh no, now I changed to a vest called** Moderate is OK mm You will die if you don't eat.

    I was responsible for food, clothing, housing and transportation, but I found out that he didn't care at all.

    In addition, I personally think that this kind of boy is not suitable for being difficult friends, love is to help each other, care for each other, he can't do this.

    If you think I'm not right, or upset! It's okay to ignore me

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you love someone and don't care anything about her, your boyfriend doesn't love you very much.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If only he cares about your appearance. So what's the point of life later on? Wait until you're old. I'm afraid I won't be able to keep him!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're not fat at all Loving someone is not about appearance, it's about all-inclusiveness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I were you, I would dump him immediately, and grandma's will eat mine and pick and choose!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Maybe he's caring about you in disguise?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He clearly doesn't really love you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Eat yours. Use yours. Also pick and choose...

    Damn it. It's simply not human.

    Kick him out ...

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Re-examine whether you have really paid for it?

    When you encounter a problem, you should first find the cause from yourself, and whether you are willing to pay enough by analyzing your past? If you're not that serious, it's time for you to make adjustments! If you think you're okay, then it's time to talk to him!

    2. Re-examine whether your boyfriend is serious about paying?

    You can think back to whether your boyfriend has changed in essence during the whole process from acquaintance to love? If he was cold to you from the beginning, then he didn't fall in love with you at all. If he gradually loses interest in you later, it means that he may have changed his mind, or that he has nothing new to you.

    That's when you need to make a new choice!

    3. Is this relationship what you want?

    You also need to examine whether this relationship is your ideal love? The reason for judging is simple, does this relationship make you relaxed and happy and have infinite hopes for the future of both of you? If that's not the case at all, then do you need me to say it? Make a decision!

    4. Is there any involvement of a third party between the two of you?

    If the negligence of other parties can be ignored, then please leave him if there is a problem of principle in this relationship! Loyalty is the most basic guarantee of love, and if even this point is broken, then your love will break ......

    Conclusion: A woman's intuition is very keen, if a woman can get enough love in a relationship, she will be very satisfied, if a woman in a relationship does not have strong feelings for questioning a man, then this relationship needs to be valued by both parties!

    I feel that my boyfriend doesn't like me so much, although as a boy I have to let girls everywhere, but girls will have their own reasons somewhat, so first find out the reasons from themselves, such as whether they didn't give him face on some occasions, whether they were too willful and brought pressure to him, whether they always took care of you and you didn't understand him. In short, as long as there are no major issues of principle or incompatible personalities, then it is generally fine, mutual understanding and mutual trust.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you fall in love with a person, the other party must be able to feel it, although you don't say it, but your eyes have told him, falling in love with a person will pay special attention to him every day, see him will smile, see him will have a good mood, may also be more concerned about him at this time, he can be completely from your words, from your eyes, from your actions to see, feel.

    Whether it is a man or a woman, you can feel it when facing someone who likes you, because there is love in your eyes, and there is concern in your bright words. If the other party behaves lightly, then it is not because she can't feel it, but because she is pretending not to understand. If you fall in love with someone, you will be very naïve and sensitive.

    Your eyes, your words, your demeanor will sell this information to the person you love. And the other party can feel that you love her through these messages.

    Does he like me or not? When there is a person in their hearts, everyone always likes to ask a question, that is, in the other party's heart, what kind of position is they in, whether the other party likes themselves, and whether they are sincere to themselves. Because we are uncertain, we always like to confirm with each other over and over again, and we always like to constantly look for clues to allow ourselves to give ourselves an answer.

    We always want to come up with a definite answer, but even if sometimes the other person says they like us, and we come to the conclusion that the other person likes us, we still have a hard time feeling at ease. Let's not be steady, it may be that we think too much, and more likely, the other party really doesn't like it that much, after all, the other party's words may not be true, and when we like someone, we will always temporarily lose our judgment.

    If you don't feel it, you just don't like it. If in getting along with a person, the other party basically doesn't look for you much, and his attitude towards you is no different from that towards others, but it's just ordinary, then you really don't have to think that he likes you because he smiles at you and occasionally does you a favor.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, you can feel it, whether a person likes you or not, how can you not feel it? For example, if you like him, you will take the initiative to pick up Chang Mo and get close to him, if he doesn't like you, Naichang, he will avoid you, or he will be indifferent to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In relationships, we can often perceive the other person's feelings and attitudes towards us. However, this perception is often based only on our personal feelings and experiences, and does not represent 100% of the other person's segment or true thoughts and feelings.

    If you want to know more exactly if he likes you, the best way to do this is to get to know the other person's thoughts and feelings through direct communication. You can try to communicate openly with him, ask him about his thoughts and feelings, and listen to his responses. This avoids misunderstandings and guesswork, and it builds a healthier and honest relationship.

    Also, don't be overly concerned about what others think and feel about you, learn to accept your own weaknesses and strengths, and build self-confidence and a healthy self-image.

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