Anyone who has experienced real loneliness, come in and tell me how you feel, help me

I'm alone

I don't love the one who loves me, and I don't love the one I love. I was forever immersed in his eyes, and I could help myself.

My infinite giving to him seemed to have become something he wanted to escape.

Friend, can you have me alone?

Let's be honest, if you're really lonely.

It's hard to look for.

Go and listen to Xu Wei's "That Year" in its entirety

and Time. Walk

And if that's not enough, add "Every Moment is New".

There is courage, perseverance and comfort.

More useful than all words.

I know it's useless for anyone to advise you at this point.

For you, it's good to spend a quiet time in that atmosphere.

After a long time, it would be nice to feel a little subsided.

Smoke a cigarette Well, that's how men relieve stress.

It's just a necessary part of life, and everyone will have it, and some people are even more unfortunate than you!

There are some experiences in life that are necessary. Enjoy it.

There are more and more people in this society who feel lonely.

Since this is true, accept it.

Then let's go to be monks together.

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe it, you will be a little better, and you will understand that the happiness of self-sufficiency is rotten.

The biggest knot in people's hearts is that they only see the fault of others, and identify themselves as victims, but the unfortunate poor people can't see through them, and the victims are often self-harmful, using the existence of others to harm themselves, and thinking about living a bad relationship, I don't know what to do. Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more?

A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice. It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self.

When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you. When you are not afraid of loneliness, there is no need to divide between one person and two people, women and men, gentleness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate. The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down.

Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless. When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall. When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, and we help our eyes to lose our negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless.

You must remind yourself that this feeling is just an inertial loop of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, so don't identify with it. When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't be attached to loneliness.

Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you. Don't care whether this reliance point is real or not, people are people, and you have to rely on emotional pillars that are stronger than yourself to live. Don't mind relying on it, don't care about saving face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and clinging.

Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, and if you can improve, you can experience the meaning of life.

Have you experienced that loneliness to the extreme?

When you look up at the lights of thousands of homes, there is not a single Zen limb lit for me.

Maybe at this moment, you will expect someone to share your happiness and sorrow with, but you can't find someone among hundreds of friends who can speak your heart.

Loneliness in adults is intertwined with stress. I don't dare to complain in front of my family, I won't shout pain in front of my friends, and I'm careful even when I post a circle of friends.

When you find that your world has long been empty but yourself. Life is like opening a blind box, one level after another. One difficulty after another.

The more I experience, the more I agree with the saying: "When I was a child, no one hurts a strong child, and when I grow up, I find that a child who doesn't hurt anyone should be strong."

In Spirited Away, the white dragon said to the great commander Chihiro, "Even if you are lonely and lonely, you have to keep going, and you can't turn back if you don't stop."

Yes, we've all been through so many heart-wrenching lonely moments, and we've survived the tough years alone, don't be afraid, now you can live alone to be a thousand troops.

I've always loved these warm words:

When you feel lonely and helpless, think about the tens of trillions of cells that live for you alone.

People always have to go through a period of barrenness in life before they can reach the spring blossoms in their hearts.

The best way to face loneliness is not to be afraid of loneliness, not to refuse loneliness. Be still and nibble on loneliness on your own, rather than letting loneliness eat at you.

We must learn to accept ourselves calmly and comfortably in a person's world, and learn to maintain a calm and calm heart in the time machine alone.