Should I continue to have a girlfriend like this?

Just now you also said, find a girl who works hard with each other, if you just pursue material needs, then her feelings are second, that is to say, you are not the main position in his mind, I personally think that life needs two people to work together, that kind of life will be cherished, only for their own consideration of the selfish understanding, so although you can get along, but no one can guarantee what to do when you can't meet it one day in the future, so I think you should tell her what you think, The life and conditions you yearn for, men shoulder the burden of the family, and it is also the responsibility of men, but men also hope that their efforts can be truly understood by others, that is the most worthwhile, it is a kind of happiness to pay for a woman who is worth paying for themselves, and it is a pain to pay for a woman who is not worth paying, bless you.

Without an economic base, where is the superstructure.

How do you think you would live without these things?

Since you yourself say you can do it, why not do it? Maybe you used to waste and spend money indiscriminately, but isn't a real marriage and a real life that needs money everywhere?

Money is not important, it is still people who are important, and do you think she is too much?

Just do your best, if you really can't achieve your goal, you won't regret it, explain the reason to your girlfriend, I think she will be considerate of you.

Nowadays, women value money quite seriously. So did the one in my family.

If that's the case, it's up to you. If you think she's going too far. If you can't answer the request, 2 people will have a bad time in the future. Then it's too early.

There is also the possibility that it is trying to motivate youIf so, then all is well ...

The two of you should know each other. If you're not sure which one she is. Learn more about her.

In fact, don't worry too much about this, you are under pressure, he chooses you is also under pressure, she and her friends eat together, chat, etc., they will naturally discuss their other half, she definitely doesn't want to be inferior to other friends, so it is normal to ask you to do this, you don't give up on her first. In fact, you can tell her what you think he loves money, and see what she is, the main thing is that you have to understand her psychological thoughts first, talk more, and you will know whether she loves money or not, and then you will decide whether to be with her or not!

When I was in school, my girlfriend never talked about money, and when I got to society, I talked about money. It's understandable that everyone wants to be comfortable, but if you don't think about the other person's ability to bear it at all, you shouldn't. If she mentions it, you can do it, that's fine, if she mentions it but can't do it, you can say it directly to the other party, if the other party wants you to do it, then break up.

Fear of failure will only make her less courageous to face the reality, what she wants is what she must have, if you can't do it after working hard, it proves that you can't do it, so you have to continue to work hard, if you do it, you will do better in the future, so don't think so much, fight for your love and happiness!