How to love your wife and children!

Shh Pay more attention to your wife and children, even if you ask the same question every day. No matter how angry you are outside, you can't be angry with your wife and children when you go home.

On days off, I do housework at home with my wife. Help your child with homework, tell him a story, or go out to play as a family to bond with him. On holidays and birthdays, you can give small gifts to your wife and children.

As long as you make the promise you make to them, even if it is a promise to go out with the children once, promise to buy a dress for the child's wife, promise to go home tonight and eat together, a small thing can show that you love them.

1. Get along honestly Love is a kind of force that makes people work hard, and the husband and wife are first of all a kind of harmony between the thoughts and feelings of both parties, and a kind of mutual compensation in psychological activities, so that both parties can produce a warm and coordinated healthy psychology. Therefore, it is more pleasing for husbands and wives to be honest with each other, to respect and love each other, and to take care of each other than to give gifts.

2. Communicate frequently Husbands and wives should often sit down to exchange opinions, communicate ideas, and pour out the joys and hardships in their hearts. Especially in times of adversity, what you need most is the comfort of your loved ones. A word of sympathy and an encouraging look will reduce the psychological pressure of the other party, enhance the confidence and strength to overcome difficulties, and truly see the truth in the midst of adversity.

3. Respect each other's personality traits A couple, even if they are childhood sweethearts, still have their own personality traits. Some husbands are active and have been wandering outside for many years, and they can't stay at home. And the wife is quiet and has a narrow social surface, and hopes that her husband will be at home with her all day long.

Every time the husband returns, the wife is unhappy, and sometimes she is a little petty, and if the husband can't stand it, there may be a quarrel. An empathetic wife or husband should respect the personality of the other person, do not impose her will on the other person, and reserve a certain amount of freedom for the other person to allow the other person to have their own social circle. In this way, marriage is not a kind of confinement, but not only to give full play to their individual characteristics, but also to be a warm home for mutual attachment.

4. Learn to be patient Husbands and wives must learn to be patient, Chekov said: "The most important thing in married life is patience." "When the other person loses his temper or sends a provocative signal, it is best to take a patient and avoid way, or put yourself in the position of understanding the cause to help relief, rather than being influenced by the other person's emotions and putting yourself in a bad emotional state.

5. Take the initiative to undertake housework After getting married, there are major matters that need to be negotiated together, but more often are the daily chores of firewood, rice, oil and salt. The equal interaction between husband and wife is manifested in the joint sharing of housework, and taking the initiative to undertake a part of the housework is a concrete manifestation of the husband's love for his wife and the wife's consideration for her husband. If you need the other person's help, it's best to replace the commanding "you do it" with a friendly "help".

6. Influence the other party Use your own warmth to make the other party get probation. For example, on a rainy day, the husband takes the initiative to take an umbrella to meet his wife at the station; The husband reads or writes at night under the lamp, and the wife quietly brings a cup of hot tea and hot milk. This kind of practice of enhancing feelings often makes the other party resentful.

Always be attentive to my wife, always make my wife happy, often help my wife with housework, often communicate with my wife, maintain mutual understanding, mutual trust and understanding. As long as you keep doing this, you love your wife.

It may be false to say that you love you for a lifetime! As long as you love every day, cherish every day is true!!

Have you been kicked in the head by a cow? The mouth says that there is a fart, and it is used in action.

Three from four virtues.

The wife must follow the "follow" when she goes out, the wife orders to obey the "follow", and the wife must blindly "obey" when she makes mistakes. The wife has to wait for the "get" of makeup, the wife has to give up the "get" of spending money, the wife has to endure the "get" when she is angry, and the wife has to remember the "get" of the wife's birthday.

It's a joke, do something that should be done, and take into account your wife's feelings.