Because of my resolute refusal to forgive, my girlfriend wants to commit suicide, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-25
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Dizzy, it's going to kill someone, what else can I do, go and stabilize the person first, don't let the scene get out of control, try to promise her first, after all, life is much more important than a lie.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Handsome guy, she took the initiative to confess to you.

    What else do you want to say that she loves you very much?

    If you break up with her like this.

    She must not vomit to death.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not a question of forgiveness or not, it's whether you love her or not. If you don't love, then forget it! If you love, then you should forgive.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's too extreme to tell her parents to let them enlighten her.

    This kind of thing is good to divide early.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I will use this trick in the future, so it's good to divide it early.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe,Why is this woman so unambitious.。。 、It's up to you if you don't forgive.。 If,You feel that she hurts you deeply,Then forget it.。。

    However, I think you still love her very much, to be realistic, if you can find a better woman than her, then give up her, of course, the premise is that you have that kind of capital.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Talk to her well.

    Let's get together and disperse.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, talk to your parents to let them know the importance of your girlfriend to you, and ease the attitude between your parents and her parents, in fact, your parents hate her, parents don't hate her... Your girlfriend dragged it there first, persuading her to solve the problem with you, and it would be irresponsible to escape from death [I think your father-in-law and mother-in-law are very difficult,,, get them done first].

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Uh....This is indeed a headache, your girlfriend's approach is indeed a bit excessive, but the truth is that she really did nothing wrong. It makes sense for you to listen to your parents, after all, what parents do is for the good of their children, and it's best if you can persuade your girlfriend well, that's the best, but it may be a little difficult...This thing really broke LZ's nerves, and I can only bless you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Listen to your parents, what your parents said is right, it's all for your good, saying that your girlfriend's family still asks your family for money when you are in trouble, which is inhumane, and another point is that your girlfriend is too anxious to do things (she will even think of suicide and coerce you), so that your life together will be more difficult in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love her, you will be with her, provided that you don't let the family know for the time being, although this is not right, but I feel that you don't choose now, which can also give you some time to think about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your girlfriend is good, a person who doesn't dislike you and is willing to die for you should be cherished.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A delaying tactic.

    It doesn't matter if it is used on the family.

    Or on your girlfriend.

    When the turmoil is over, think about it in the long run.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Brother, I have a suggestion for you. If you really don't care about her. If you really want to hate, if you want to gamble. Take a look below.

    First of all, she has repeatedly made unreasonable demands and even committed suicide to force you to stay or fulfill her demands. Right. And it's exactly what you do every time.

    She must have a feeling in her mind now, that is, when she wants to ask you to do something unreasonably, she will think of suicide, because she knows that this trick is the best, and she is already quite proficient, her face does not change color, her heart does not beat, and her heart is determined that you will do it.

    About a gamble.

    According to my analysis, she is not a person of courage, she can't face herself and live alone, she wants to rely on you, she doesn't work, she doesn't have the courage. And it is precisely the possibility that someone like her dares to commit suicide is very small, don't look at the horror she sent in the text message, when she picks up the knife, maybe she can't do it. But I can't rule out the possibility of real suicide, because judging from her state, I think she has lost her mind, and maybe one day her brain will be hot.

    It's really possible.

    On the proposed solution.

    Tell her that she is really tired now, that she still has a lot to do, and that she still has her dreams to achieve. So each should go his own way. Don't threaten me with suicide by jumping into the sea now, I've checked the law, and I'm not going to be responsible for what you're doing.

    Even if the law is changed one day and I am responsible, I would rather break up and be entangled like this again. (Knock her out half from the heart).And your parents have begged me many times for your affairs, can you bear them like this, their hearts are broken, don't you want to cheer up, make them happy, and live a happy life with them, after all, they are the closest people to you.

    At this point, you might ask her what she thinks. If you figure it out, reconcile.

    If you can't figure it out, you just leave, and she does whatever she wants. But leave a way out for yourself in everything, and if something really happens, report it in time.

    If she doesn't talk calmly and goes crazy, there's no need to stop him. Go away directly, and report the accident immediately. Or go to the police first, take this conversation, and then ** will strangle her suicidal thoughts in the cradle.

    In this way, no one is killed, and there is liberation. At this moment, go away and fly away (a bit exaggerated) anyway, stay away from him, and change these messes.

    Finally, this advice is only for men, so don't say I'm attacking women.

    So friends, this program offensive reference, I hope you get your life back on track as soon as possible.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Have a good talk with her, it's too naïve to be so aggressive. If it's really not good, it's better to break up, how can such a person live, it's impossible to be happy. The breakup also had to prevent her from committing suicide.

    It's embarrassing, how can there be such a woman, lose her temper, and drop things, it's okay, it's still like this. Either you have a bad temper and lack love, or you just care too much about you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The reason why she is angry is because she cares about you, but there are two possibilities for her to always commit suicide, one is to scare people, and the other is true, if you scare people, you can leave her alone, if it is true, if you still love her, I hope you can give her more care and confidence, which shows that her psychological quality is not good, and this can be changed the day after tomorrow.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is an extreme manifestation of your girlfriend's love for you, no way, love can make people terminally ill, if you want to solve it, there are two ways:

    1.break up, let the other party's heart be like ashes, and regret it for life;

    2.Stick to it, let the steel become a finger twist, treat her as your own daughter, use your life to tolerate her, care for her, and spoil her unconditionally for a lifetime.

    Normal people will choose 1

    Choose 2The heart is benevolent enough to become a Buddha.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then you also committed suicide to show her, of course, by pretending. Otherwise, if you continue like this, you will really be blackmailed with this forever.

    And then the most important thing is communication.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let's break up.

    This is a mental illness.

    Hurry away from you.

    Later, she didn't die herself. It's going to hurt you and your family.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Break up. You and her are not suitable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The people who are most afraid of dying are better separated.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, if the boy really loves the girl, he should not tell his parents about the girl's threat to suicide, because the parents, as parents, will think that the girl is very extreme, uneducated, and a person who does not even love and protect himself, what can he do to love his son and maintain the relationship between them.

    Of course, you must first understand why this girl is threatening to commit suicide? It's because of a moment of anger with a boy, or because of a girl's personality. In the case of assuring that the girl is only a threat, and not a real action, the boy should take care of these things on his own, after all, it is also you who caused him to commit suicide, whether it is a threat or a real play.

    A man's sense of responsibility and responsibility is to protect, love and make his beloved woman happy.

    Let's see who the problem is. If the girl is vexatious, it is advisable to break up, because such a girl is unacceptable. Even if he loves you again, he can't joke with his life. If he is really hit, it is recommended that the boy be induced from the side and stop having suicidal thoughts.

    In short, love depends on two people to maintain, one slap does not make a sound, and the fault is also on both sides.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My fiancé and I also broke up, and he got out of the marriage, and I can't think about it. In the past four years of getting along, we have had happiness and noise, and we have come to this point. We were in a relationship when he graduated from college, and I was a sophomore at the time.

    He waited for me for two years, and when I was in graduate school, his grandfather asked him to break up with me because his grandfather had always wanted to hold his grandson (the mood of the elderly is completely understandable). But he was reluctant to let me go, and finally agreed to let me go to graduate school, I am now in my second year of graduate school, his grandfather passed away in mid-April this year, and before he died, he complained that my boyfriend did not fulfill his wishes. My boyfriend blamed himself for a mess.

    I also blame me, I promised him before that I would have a child when I was in graduate school, but as soon as I arrived at school, although there were many examples of graduate students around me, I still felt embarrassed, so I didn't dare to think about it, and everything was as fate would have it. Now he hates me and thinks I cheated on him, and he's sorry for Grandpa. It's only been a few days since we broke up, and I learned some time ago that he had a conversation with a female teacher at my school, and I was very distressed.

    I went to his house, but he never came home, and the neighbors around me knew that he was divorced from me, pointing fingers at me and whispering. I really love him, and I know that if I love someone, I will give him a baby, but it's not a forced thing. First of all, I will give birth and kill one of his children (undergraduate graduation is imminent, and the school will check the body).

    But now he hates me, hates me to death. When his grandfather died, he didn't let me go, saying that I was not qualified to go. I was so uncomfortable that he wouldn't give me a chance to meet and talk.

    One of the reasons I love him is that he is very single-minded, and although we are far away, I never worry about him betraying me. Usually I am busy, and I am very negligent about him. Now I know it's wrong, but it's too late, he doesn't want me anymore, he doesn't want me anymore.

    I don't want to live anymore. I don't want to say anything worthy of my parents, sorry. I used to think I was a savior, I could save my family, I could save his family, but I found that I couldn't even save myself.

    can make the choice of death, in addition to deep feelings, there is also a point that life is hopeless. Suicide is not worth advocating, and in the case of all hopes, it is better to take risks. I committed suicide within half a month, and I finished explaining what happened on my side, and if I didn't die before June 1st, I would come back and tell everyone.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What can you think, it doesn't matter if she is a countryman, this shows that the relationship between them has been too close, this girl can abandon her family and abandon the grief of her friends to commit suicide, which fully proves how much she cares about this boy in her heart, why not protect her well, and tell her family to commit suicide, not because you are sorry for her, she committed suicide, don't reflect on it, there is such a person who cares about you, you should hurry up, don't hesitate anymore, treat him well in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Friend! Parents shouldn't be involved in this! If the affairs of two people continue to develop, they will become the affairs of two families, and the more complicated they become!

    Girls need to be coaxed, and they care about you to be so extreme! I don't know who chased whom? I don't know why I broke up!

    I don't know where to start!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At the same time, the end of the world has fallen into people! No matter what, men should be gentle! His parents didn't feel good at all!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's complicated.,It seems that there is a very simple problem.,I still make a rational decision between families.,Love this girl and slowly do the best mental work of your parents!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If she dies directly, does she only have love in her life Despise this kind of person.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Her parents would be sad and sad!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It shows that she cares about you and doesn't want to lose you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    So you're not living together and you're getting married? Now there are many, many unmarried boyfriends and girlfriends living together, and it is also an unavoidable thing, I think you all talked about the fact that this kind of thing is not very good, if she told you earlier, it can be solved early. But things still have to be settled by you, if you like to really love her, you have to tolerate her past, (that is just an episode that proves that she once had a relationship), everyone has more or less a relationship experience, and the experience has become more and more mature, and don't talk about this thing, find a balanced fulcrum psychologically, don't mess around and think about useless things, now and in the future, you must do it.

    The past is the past, and the most important thing in the present is your future.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think she loves you and tells you the truth. If you love her, remember her past.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First answer yourself a question, do you love her as a person, or do you love a membrane, if you can't figure out this question, don't get married. A manly husband, I can't get over this little hurdle, what will I do in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    To truly love her, to understand her, to respect her, to do what you can to be good to her, not to ask for it. Even if she does leave you one day, don't go against your true love. As for now, trust her.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What age is it? Still think about this, if she really loves you, she will follow you with all her heart, and the most important thing is that you have to give her a sense of security, she has failed once, as long as you are good to her, she will follow you with all her heart. Forget about her previous injuries, you know?

    You don't have to talk about her past, you have to learn to forget the past. I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart.

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