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Hey, how can you be the same as me! I really want to try to change my withdrawn character, because I want friends, I want to be happy, I want to be cheerful, so every weekend I think about where to go and who to go on the weekend, hey, in the end I stay at home, there is no one to choose, there are few friends, I suggest you still be cheerful so that you will be happier, if you have some friends, go to play on the weekend, it's no problem to smile or fake smile, Qianti is to cultivate a cheerful character, and when you are really cheerful, you can express your true self with your own personality, If you want to change your withdrawn personality, it is not a matter of one or two days, it takes long-term exercise, I hope you will persevere! Be happy, life is still good, I'm working hard, it's hard to ,,, I'm still confident.
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Why did you ask me for help? Is it because of this?
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Yes, if you can live at home.
If you don't approve of loneliness, then say: people are not born to be defeated.
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How old are you? Minors should belong to the rebellious period of adolescence, which is normal. Think about it, get some sleep, go on an outing, take a break, and you'll figure it out.
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Withdrawn personality without any psychological problems, this kind of person is very good later, they spend a lot of time a day, they can learn fitness, cooking, flower arrangement, reading, improve skills and education, and the more they improve, the more withdrawn (in some people's opinion).
Withdrawn people are generally introverted, mainly manifested in reluctance to contact with others, indifference to others, and often boredom, contempt or wariness of those around them. There are not many congenital factors in the withdrawn character, mainly due to the negative impact of various subjective and objective environments, resulting in psychological distortion after being in a depressed state for a long time.
Whether it is introverted or extroverted, it is just a choice of a person's personality, not a person's shortcomings, and both personalities have their own advantages and disadvantages. Just like some people like to eat cabbage, some people like to eat turnips, some people like to be lively, and some people prefer to be quiet.
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has its own life system, there are fixed lovers and mobile lovers, the life process is very exciting, and the clothes and leisure elegance are also higher than ordinary people.
In fact, people who are withdrawn in the real sense are not completely isolated from the world, but specialize in doing what they like and socialize with people they are used to.
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1.Create a good family atmosphere.
If the parents are at odds and quarrel a lot, the child is likely to become sullen, reticent, and withdrawn. Therefore, how important it is to create a harmonious, loving family for children.
2.Enhance your child's sense of participation.
Children with withdrawn personalities are more willing to play with toys and watch cartoons by themselves, ignore the things around them, and have little interest in participating in group activities and social interactions. Parents can communicate more with their children, encourage them to cook, and help others, such as helping the neighbor's grandmother to fetch milk, etc., so that the child can socialize more with others and cultivate his character of helping others.
3.Encourage your child appropriately.
Children who are withdrawn often need the encouragement of adults in order to take the first step, we encourage more and suppress less, even if it is just a little progress, we must give children praise, increase children's self-confidence, do not say to children that you can't, negative words, then this will suppress children's self-confidence.
4.Enrich your child's life.
Don't always confine your child at home, take your child out of the house more often, take your child out on weekends or holidays, let your child have more contact with the outside world, so that your child's eyes will be opened and he will become very confident.
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You can take her out to travel more, sometimes a change of environment, people can change a state of mind, when the mood is good, her heart will become easier to open, and it will be easier to accept other people.
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