Couples with increasingly incompatible personalities, do they continue to run in or choose to give u

Updated on society 2024-04-10
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think we should communicate and then choose whether to give up or again. Frequent quarrels are all normal conditions, because there are three periods between lovers, and they have to wait until these three periods have passed, before they can go down, and this is because of frequent quarrels and domestic cold violence, the fundamental reason is that when two people just understand, there is no doubt that each other is full of feelings of love, at this moment they will love each other very much, because they just understand, each other is not very mastered, there will be many topics to discuss.

    They look forward to being together every day, they want to talk about endless topics every day, and they will talk about taking care of each other for the rest of their lives, and they are very happy every day. But when the warm period has passed, each other will enter a period of indifference, and at this time it is necessary to pay attention, because at this time, if you don't talk, you will argue, and usually no one is easy to admit defeat, even if the girl wants to say an apology, it is not easy for a boy to say.

    Because at the moment boys are very face-loving. So no matter what, it's not easy for them to apologize for their girlfriends, and at this moment they will make their girlfriends feel that he is not treating them well, and then they just started cold violence, but cold violence is not the way to do it, so sometimes boys will lower their heads, but if they enter the peak period of quarrels, the two will keep quarreling and not letting each other go.

    This is the realization of the peak period of quarrels, but if this period passes, the two people will talk for a lifetime。However, there are many lovers who will choose to give up during this period, and during this period, there are many manic boys who will use violence, and it is very likely that they will break up at this moment, which means that they cannot accommodate each other, and there is no very good communication.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The growing discord means that it has been a while, and if two people are aware of this problem but can't improve the situation, then it's better to divide it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think to what extent, if you can bear it, you can run in, but if it's really the kind that reaches the limit, let's separate, so it's very tiring for both of you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it involves the most basic three views, then give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think we should choose to give up, just don't torture each other, it's good for everyone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it's better to give up as soon as possible, if two people have different personalities, why should they be miserable together?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it should be given up, because personality incompatibility will make the relationship between two people very compatible, and it won't last long.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's time to give up this relationship, because if the personalities are not compatible, there will really be a lot of conflicts between two people together, and in the end, there will be more and more problems in this relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be abandoned. Because of the incompatibility of personalities, it will be more difficult to live together, and there will be a lot of contradictions, which will gradually wear out the feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should not give up, there are many couples in life who have a lively personality and a cold personality, so that they can get a good match. It's enough to like it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think I should give up on this relationship, because not every couple of lovers is very compatible. Everyone is for the sake of this relationship to run in with each other and change each other to become better.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It should be, because if you feel that your personality is not suitable, you don't really like it, and you don't really attract it, and it will only consume the feelings of two people after a long time

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The personalities of the husband and wife are not suitable and cannot be run in well. Therefore, two people should pay attention to whether their personalities can be run in before they get married. Because it is difficult to change the personality, if the two personalities do not match after marriage, then many families will have various conflicts.

    When men and women are in love, they must establish correct love ideas and values, communicate with each other sincerely, do not hide it, and fool each other and deceive each other, these are all undesirable love behaviors. As the saying goes, "lies will eventually be exposed one day", everyone must pay attention, especially in the early stages of a relationship, and be honest with each other to introduce their true situation. In order not to say that you cheated on him (her) in the future, you will also break up because of this, even if the other party thinks that your conditions are not good or so on, it doesn't matter, at least it won't waste time and energy.

    The most important thing during the love period between men and women is not to be half-hearted, and to have the idea of going forward and twilight, which is a big taboo for men and women to fall in love. At the same time, after determining the relationship between men and women, they must know how to keep some distance from colleagues of the opposite sex or ordinary friends of the opposite sex, because feelings are selfish, and it is easy to be jealous and quarrel, which affects everyone's emotional development. I hope you will pay attention to this important point.

    The third most important point of love is to know how to care and be considerate of the love object, especially in life, to care about each other, to use practical actions to help each other, such as when the girlfriend is inconvenient, but also to care for each other, make some delicious nutritious meals for each other, love breakfast and so on. As a boy, you must understand that girls often need to be cared for and cared for, and boys should take the initiative to put themselves in the shoes of girls to do more practical things. Especially when it is inconvenient for girls, they really want their boyfriends to be by their side.

    Everyone must pay attention to and don't ignore these key details.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the husband and wife have different personalities, there are also things that can be run in well, but they must be based on each other's deep feelings, that is, they can be willing to make changes for each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    All of the following situations are for couples who treat each other sincerely, excluding "crazy men and women" who have a playful mentality and fake relationships.

    The quarrel is a run-in between two people, and it is not inappropriate.

    First of all, why do you quarrel, two people from different living environments, different educations, and different experiences, with different personalities and different ways of doing things, there are too many differences, so in the process of getting along, each has its own ideas. But as long as you have the same values, even if you have different hobbies and different ways of dealing with problems, these are not big problems. As long as the two love each other.

    If there is love, there will be tolerance, and there will be concessions. Life can go on happily.

    Secondly, typing and chatting on WeChat is considered a quarrel? It's not swearing, it's just a quarrel, it's an exchange at most. So, don't chat and quarrel in WeChat and break up. Unless, of course, you've already decided, tell me your decision in a WeChat message.

    Third, between couples, you can quarrel and shout to stop, but you still have to face the problem. The problem is always there and it won't go away just because you run away.

    PS: For me and my boyfriend, I don't think we've had a big fight. Every time I communicate, it's not a fight.

    However, he felt that it was a quarrel and refused to communicate. Because of this issue, I'm not sure if we can continue, it's not about the house car ticket.

    I wish all couples in the world can communicate well, and don't miss out on their loved ones because of impulsiveness or misunderstanding.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In reality, there are many people who love each other obviously, but after being together, they find that there are many inappropriate things about each other. What should you do when you find that you and your partner are not suitable in multiple ways? For example, after being together, if you find that your personality is not suitable, is it still necessary to be together?

    It is said that personality can be slowly run-in, but is this really the case?

    Sometimes when two people are together, it is not enough to love each other, but they also need to get along in all aspects, because a truly beautiful relationship is like a gear that can be put together, and only such a relationship will last forever. Two people who can't get along, even if they love each other very much at the beginning, they will feel tired and not in love after getting along for a long time.

    Therefore, when many people are looking for a partner, they will want to find a person who can match their personality, and some people will take the compatibility of personality as a prerequisite for two people to love each other.

    Of course, there are people with complementary personalities who can be very happy together. For example, some people are more introverted, and some people are more cheerful, maybe introverts will be exposed to cheerful people after spending time with cheerful people, and they will become cheerful?

    Unless one party is willing to change his personality for the love of two people, grind off his edges and corners, and make himself mellow in front of each other, otherwise such two people will only have endless conflicts and quarrels when they are together. No matter how much love you have at the beginning, it will gradually be wiped out in the subsequent quarrels.

    Therefore, two people with inappropriate personalities are not suitable for being together, don't feel that your personality is inappropriate and you can slowly run in, some people's personalities are innate, and it is really difficult to change. When your partner suddenly tells you that he doesn't feel right with you and wants to break up with you, you should stop trying to keep him, because even if you continue to keep him, it will only bring more pain to each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As long as the three views of the two of you are basically the same and your personalities are different, you can adapt to each other through the run-in period.

    The three views refer to the world view, outlook on life, and values.

    There is also a part of the character formed due to the third crown, but your three views are basically the correct rotten country, and if the three views are correct, these habits and characters can be tolerated and honed by each other.

    The so-called run-in period is a deeper understanding of both parties, when there are some characters that have formed a certain habit, but he is harmless, then one party needs to tolerate or tolerate its existence, and the other party should also know that the other party is tolerating, this is a virtuous circle, some do not conform to their own living habits, so that two people can tolerate each other in life, and it is okay to change.

    In fact, the life of husband and wife is constantly knowing each other, adapting to each other, tolerating and tolerating each other's process of accumulation, tolerating and tolerating each other is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, so tolerating and tolerating each other is the improvement of their own emotional intelligence, you tolerate and tolerate each other, you also need to let the other party understand that you are tolerating and tolerating, this is effective tolerance and tolerance, so that the process of continuous tolerance and tolerance, and informing each other is the run-in period.

    Some couples can spend a very short run-in period, and some couples need to run in for a lifetime, but these run-ins and unhappiness are in the practice of the overall goal value of your life, and you can live peacefully and happily together.

    Therefore, the so-called run-in is tolerance and tolerance, and let the other party know that you are tolerating and forbearing, so that he can gradually change and change to the extent that both parties can tolerate and accommodate, which is running-in, that is, effective running-in.

    Because of the process that each person goes through before the two of you get married, the mutual influence between academic qualifications and social people, everyone has a different background, and two people with different backgrounds walk together, they will have different living habits, and the character of habit formation will re-establish a relatively close interpersonal relationship after the two of you become a family, and this relationship will eventually rise to a family relationship, and the family relationship is the most inclusive.

    In fact, there are still most couples who are able to transition to a smooth life relatively safely and smoothly through different personality run-in periods, and eventually they can spend life together and create a happy family atmosphere.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the personality of the husband and wife is incompatible, it is necessary to have a generous person, with a kind heart and tolerant heart, so that the marriage can be happy and the family is harmonious, if the weight is small, then it will get worse and worse, and finally they will part ways, so if the couples with incompatible personalities want to have a long marriage, then they should think like this, most of them can successfully pass the entire run-in period, so that their relationship between husband and wife will get better and better.

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