I have a psychological question I want to ask!

Friends need to interact with each other, and always silently self-reliance cannot solve the problem, and dodging does not allow you to get out of difficulties, but receives questions from colleagues, and there will be negative doubts.

We need to build self-confidence that we can help the team and that we can be part of the team. There is a first step in everything, take it bravely, you will find the sunny side of yourself (in fact, everyone has it, it's just whether you find it or not), and you are a newcomer, in a new environment, this is a great opportunity to re-establish yourself, and it should not be too late.

If things go well, it should work out like this:

1. Eyesight, take the initiative to reach out to help or learn modestly, this is a good example of a dead cat and a dream chaser, improve the sense of existence, I know that this is difficult, it is always the first step, as long as it can be done, it is the transformation and promotion of the image. Done like a scout, sharp-eyed and timely.

2. Pay attention to investment, investment is the beginning of integration. It's best if you offer more or more than the person being helped expects. In addition to further improving your image, it also makes people think that you are reliable. Do it like a guard, safe and intimate, and reliable.

3. Formally establish an image, so that even if someone reveals your origin, it doesn't matter, because the image is there, you are already a hero, and the hero doesn't ask where it comes from. This stage will come much later, depending on how well you do the first two steps. Don't rush for quick success.

There is still a lot to be done on the long road, and you may not see the results for a long time, but you must persevere and don't give up halfway. It's like the characters in the game are constantly leveling up, and we can see our results through the number of upgrades in the game, while in reality, "upgrades" cannot be evaluated by numbers, but it is often the recognition of others that makes us feel "upgraded".

In the game, our upgrade is just virtual, it is a specific program that controls the character, and what attracts us in the game is only our satisfaction with honor, but in reality, "upgrading" can not see the result, but after the impression is formed, what is obtained is far from honor.

We'll try to give up because we don't see results for a long time, but we have to keep going. It still takes time to upgrade, not to mention self-cultivation? Don't let the fog obscure your eyes on your target.

Make a self-improvement plan, don't you have a lot of colleagues to help you? You might as well "get an inch", ask them for help in the name of learning, once you get help, actively observe what they want to help, and if you can help, you can show them "wrap it up with you", so that the distance will be shortened.

Make yourself stronger, as long as you are strong enough to need others to look up to see then you will naturally have a height, and do more work in the office, such as wiping the table, sweeping the floor, etc., and at the same time be sunny, give others more bright smiles.

The entry depends on the nobles, continue to rely on themselves, friends and good popularity need to be attentive, starting from interests, maybe you can find like-minded friends.

Friends are more to accompany you....You don't have to deliberately close yourself off because you are looking for a relationship at work....It's good to have more trouble with your colleagues and have dinner together...Games are always virtual... …Try to get out of here....