I m distressed, and I feel like it s hard to be a human being

You'd better break up with your boyfriend! This is the best way, can He give you happiness? A man who has no sense of responsibility and is not self-motivated, and lets a girl raise him!

He never thought about you! Such a person is not worth your love, see what you wrote, you are a good girl! There will be better people to love you!

I think you're tired! You've had two tires twice, don't have any more dealings with him, I hope you won't be upset about what I said! You will be happy, away from him!

I hope you will seriously consider breaking up! He doesn't deserve your love! I feel like he doesn't love you!

A man who loves you won't let his own woman get hurt! I hope you think about it for your mom and dad, you have had two abortions for him, don't do anything wrong, if you want, add me I hope I can think of a way for you! I'd like to be your loyal listener!

Your first question: Every parent will cherish their children, so no matter what the child does wrong, the first person they scold must be the friends around the child, don't have a psychological burden for this, my family also treats me like this.

Second, there are a lot of boys like him, and you are stupid enough, you have already done this for him at the age of 18, have you really not thought about your future life? No wonder it is said that it is difficult to educate the children of the post-90s generation now, and the breakup is certain, do you want to raise him for the rest of your life? There's nothing you can't worry about, he is irresponsible to you like this, child, what do you know, it must be you who regrets it when you grow up, and you think that he will get better because of this?

Kill me, the most important self-love for girls, you are obviously abusing yourself like this, break up now, you are still young, there is no need to pay so much for him, it's not worth it.

If you really feel that you can't share it, then wait until you eat your own bitter fruits, and then it will be more painful than now, so you can bear it yourself.

Take the rest of your life without dividing it.

Life is too tiring, there are too many burdens on the body's shoulders that make people too tired, there are also inner desires that exhaust the mind that make people too tired, and too much pressure from the outside world makes people live very tired.

How to live an easy life? Only by prescribing the right medicine, finding the crux of the problem, tracing back to the source, and relieving the load of being too tired, can we relax and enjoy the world.

For the burden of the family, bear it first and wait for the ship to dock.

Everyone, born in a family, shoulders the burden of the family, is an inescapable responsibility. If you want to live an easy life, you can only carefully plan the path and method to make your family prosperous, find the way to get rich, find a way to make the family live in harmony, find a way to cultivate your children's success, and then manage the family with your heart, spend a lot of hard work, and make great efforts to make the family run into a well-off. Only when the family is rich and happy, the natural life at home will be easy and happy.

Many people are in the first half of their lives immersed in struggle, hard work, so that the family into the well-off fast lane, only to enjoy the leisure life, just like the first bitter and then sweet, there is no birth has been living a very easy truth, unless the nobles, the rich second generation, the second generation of officials, the second generation of demolition, etc.

For the burden of the heart, clean it first, so that the heart is clear.

People live in the world, on the one hand, they rely on desire to generate ideals and dreams, create motivation and support progress; On the other hand, too many desires will make the heart pursue too many goals, leading to disordered direction and confused future; At the same time, having too many desires will allow you to scatter your energy too much, the pain of not getting it will be more, and the fear of losing will become more worrying, and the result will be too much mental stress and loss of soul.

Subtraction is a good medicine, clean up the clutter in the heart, cut the complexity and simplify, see which ones are not necessary, which ones should be discarded, remove the depression of the soul, let the mind not bear too many burdensome things, and it will naturally be very easy.

For the pressure of society, learn to regulate, learn to reduce pressure.

Nowadays, life in society is becoming more and more stressful, and everyone's life is not easy. Learn to cultivate some hobbies, singing, reading, listening, dancing, fitness, playing chess, playing the piano, painting, traveling, picnics, etc., to find a leisure way that suits you, give stress a cathartic channel, release external pressure, etc., is also a good choice.

Hello, if you feel too tired from hard work and feel too much psychological pressure, you have to find a way to release the pressure.

You can run a few laps, sweat, and then take a hot shower, relax and relax, you can drink something hot and sweet, eat something sweet, it will make the mood a little better, if you have a lot to say, find a notebook, or on your phone, write it out, and express it is also a way to relieve psychological pressure. Come on, come on, come on.

Face life and try to live. Life is not easy, not just being a human being. Escaping does not solve the toil.

Life is like this, otherwise people wouldn't cry when they were born, ha

What's more, the society is so complex now, you have to adapt to this society, adapt to your surrounding environment, you can only learn all kinds of skills, taste all kinds of tastes, so it's really hard to be a man, but I still hope to maintain a happy mood, and the so-called crying is also a day, laughing is also a day, so we might as well laugh every day in life!

Let's improve our knowledge of the world.

In fact, being a human being is really hard.

After all, it doesn't matter if you're in the world or something.

It's not easy to be able to be tactful without offending people.

Being a man is really difficult, there are hardships, sometimes you have to hide, there are injuries, you have to wipe them off by yourself, you are tired, you have to think about yourself, you hide too many grievances, you have tormented too many years, whether you dream or lose, it's just a period of time.

People live a lifetime, always have their own rules, also have their own old age, is the bumps in the fate, but also the message of life, when a person, depressed to see themselves, lost to see the situation, the tree fell and scattered.

One counts, more than 40 years have passed, and the second count, life is like a play, the tears taken away, and the sweat lost are just the accumulation of life and their own efforts.

Waiting for a miracle, or thinking about a future, can't say more, can't be too busy, see too much upset, think too much, people are tired, bitter and sad, later, learn to endure, learn to be polite, learn to be a man, only to know that it is not easy to live.

A scene, a self, an embarrassing right and wrong, how much is true, hidden ruthless, how much fake, hidden helplessness, life is so hard, no money is so difficult, is it that you pay less, or your strength is too weak.

There is no money to provoke gossip, there is money waiting for others to gossip, right and wrong, right and wrong, it is not easy to live, and it is really difficult to cherish.

Live alone, or wait silently, one person asks, one person says, back and forth, what is lost is youth, what is seen is oneself, and what is not clear is the future, this is a world of great disparity, how much is true, and it has become a lie later.

A period of right and wrong, a period of indifference, is it a cherished look, or the touching of life, how many roads, just missing no fate, how much love, just a message of fate, in the end, a person looks up, a person is lost.

Tomorrow, an invisible self, today, a life that does not understand the sophistication of human feelings, how much waste and delay, how much time to miss the forgiveness of life.

Fate! You are the only one, but also the mood and soul! You are a concern, but also a companion of life, how much hurt, become a person's suffering, how much embarrassment, become a person's passivity, hide bitter tears, hide helpless feelings.

Wake up from a big dream, an embarrassed self, a disappointed self, time flies, peach blossoms fall, just a door, close the heart, cut off the past, just wrong future, lost the yesterday of life.

Spring is blooming, who is who's who? Owe the fate of this life, life and death are destined, and life is impermanent, just a colorful memory, erasing the perception of life, and missing the original self.

People, people! Heart, heart! People are others, and their hearts are themselves, because of others, they have lost their hearts, things, things! Yes, yes! Because of others, delaying their own affairs, waking up from a big dream, just the soul lost tears.

What no regrets? What regrets? It's simple to say, if not, then how boring is life, what to cherish? What to miss? If you understand it early, why worry about it, for a lifetime, you will always remember so many unhappy.

In life, there are difficulties, sufferings, and tiredness; There is affection, heart, and helplessness, and the later peace with the encounter, just for a clear conscience.

This is everyone, everyone will have troubles and confusion at your age, it is normal for the old man to say well, every family has a difficult scripture, every family has its own difficulties and troubles, and you are not alone.

There was a time when I had a hard time, none of my friends who felt that they could speak had the trouble of not understanding going to school, and my mother was still muttering in my ear every day how good everyone is, how you can't compare to others.

During that time, I thought almost every day that I wouldn't have to be so bothered if I just died, and in fact, after I got through this low period, I now think, ah, life is so beautiful, although everything is not very good.

Come on, don't always think about these troublesome things, think more about opening up some family disagreements, you don't always get into this dead end, don't listen to what they say to friends when you don't want to listen, the main thing is your heart, wait until you deal with these problems, and then look at the friendship between you.

You think it's good to have these friends.

Now you go back to your troubles, but don't do what you will regret in the future.

"Home and everything is prosperous", find a suitable atmosphere to talk openly with your family, there is no insurmountable gap. There is only an endless road, but there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. Only when a person has self-confidence will he have the eyes to find beauty.

Although you can't change the things around you, you can adjust your mentality, look at the problems and be optimistic, there are certainly troubles in the days of growing up, but eventually they will become a thing of the past, and everything will slowly get better.

I have a suggestion, I don't know if you can do it, that is, whether your family has money or not, you will understand what you have to do after only a year when you go out to work.

Selfish people, all kinds of unsatisfactory. Help all those who suffer the most.

Born to suffer, ......Dear .........It is only after the pain that you will feel that what you can get is the sweetest, and if it is all dull, until the moment of the end of the journey of life, the memories will be blank .........The ups and downs of life are where the fun ...... be

Be content and tolerant, and you will find that the world before you will be a different picture

Try to be a bystander or better yet

Allah: Ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, it will pass, and I will always be by your side to support you

Maybe I don't have a problem, but when a loyal listener complains about your troubles, I can still do it, don't worry too much

There is a mirror in the human heart, but when you are excited, you are shrouded in fog, and you will understand after all

So to have as much fun as possible in a painful life, don't you think it's very meaningful?

Hehe, don't take the facts too seriously

That's peace of mind

Allah Smile and the world will be a better place

Love your boss forever

Amitabha, the highest enjoyment of life.

After reading your text, I think you are a little pessimistic!

Do you know, many times, how you look at others in your heart, others will have a perception, and others will show that they treat you like this from their hearts.

Think about it from a different perspective, empty the glass of water in your head - "I'm troubled, I hate the people I live with, I can't get used to these things, these people". Sometimes the same thing happens to your roommate, and if it happens to someone you like, maybe you'll laugh at it.

Natural selection, survival of the fittest, optimistic about everything that happens, such as "stealing my hanger to use", this shows that you have a vision, the hanger you buy is still liked by others, just pay attention to pack up your own things in the future, don't let more people like it and borrow it.

Don't be happy with everything, cry for a day, laugh for a day, and tell yourself when you're unhappy, "What exists is reasonable, and this thing doesn't affect me, hehe".

Wishing you a happy day!!

If God were right now in front of you and said, "Give you another chance to choose," you would still choose to be a human being!

Life is like this, you can't change most of them, so you can only change your own mode of existence.

Be a man! Be lenient, don't bother with those "abandoned washing machines", just ignore it! It's yourself who stings you when you root in your eyes!

Learn to be strong and small! Society is black, so you excel!

How? Who do you ask? This question should be asked to yourself, not all kinds of problems annoying you, but you don't want to throw it away, in fact, this matter is very simple, whoever mixes in society will encounter this problem, tell you Ge You's words:

I used to tell the truth, I didn't have many friends, now I'm 80 percent a lie, I have a lot of friends!!

I'm not asking you to lie to people, but I'm telling you that you should do this, friends have hearts, but keep a hand in everything!!

Be happy and look away, everyone will experience it, and let yourself be the first to come out @!!