The difficult process, alone or together?

Everyone has their own set of truths, and there are still truths in the truths, and there are many things to be experienced by themselves. If I say that you have to learn to live with others, but try to do your own things independently, or find a balance between independence and coexistence. Maybe many people will agree, or maybe they won't think about it.

In the coexistence of people, you see a lot of shortcomings in others, you can learn to be considerate, no one is stupid, everyone has their own way of life, learning to be considerate of others is beneficial to yourself, which is the so-called magnanimity. Or you can also choose to make suggestions to the other party, if you just say forbearance, you will involuntarily become dissatisfied with the other party, and over time it will produce serious sloppiness.

If you want to be friends with others, you should be considerate of each other, help each other, and be honest with each other. But in theory, it is one thing, and it is another set in practice. You have your set of friends, he has his set of friends, you have your set of life principles, he has his set of life principles.

Your honesty, your help, and even your understanding can hurt the other person. Are you willing to change your way of principle for the sake of the other person? Or is your way of changing yourself?

If you inadvertently hurt the other person and make the other person lose their favor with you, although the other party may know how to understand your unintentionality, maybe the other party does not think to understand at all. So would you be willing to make a friend who is occasionally inconsiderate?

I believe that people can never change, there is love at first sight, love can be rotten, but sorry I haven't seen it. People around me are changing, and I'm changing if I want to stay the same. I'm sure when I'm old I'll be as rambling as I hate those old people, or swearing like a mad dog.

I think the only thing that remains constant is always looking back at the road we've traveled, and maybe that's going to change eventually.

It is impossible for a person to live on his own for the rest of his life, and it is also impossible for him to live with other people for the rest of his life. When you spend time with others, you also maintain your own independence, and when you are alone, you will think of the people next to your body and naturally you will not feel lonely. Come on, in fact, you don't have to think about it so complicated.

Actually, like you, I like to do things on my own, I don't like to rely on others and work with others, because they do make me uncomfortable to look at, and I don't trust them very much, so most of the time I do my own things by myself.

But after all, the power of one person is not as strong as the strength of two people, so I have made a friend who is capable and trusting, and she will help me when I encounter difficulties, even if I am not often together.

So as long as you have a friend like my friend, at least he will become your lifelong treasure ( - Try to find it, in fact, I quite support your spirit of doing the work independently, but it is more secure to have a reliable friend at a critical moment.

The nature of your work will determine your work environment. People have to adapt to the environment, not the environment to adapt to us.

If you haven't stepped into the society and just stay in the laboratory research, then as long as you can do a good job, it's the same in **.

Don't waste your time.

When you are alone, it is the best time to talk to your heart. You can say to yourself: What kind of person am I?

What kind of life am I going through? What kind of life do I want to live? Knowing yourself is not just a philosopher's lesson.

Psychologists suggest: Try to change if you listen to the truest voice of the moment and accept the most complete self at the moment, and you will face the people and things of this world with a more tolerant and peaceful state of mind. Cindy in the above is obviously used to getting along with people, but ignoring her own heart.

Being alone helps clear your mind and sweep away negative emotions.

The rapid changes in the world have consumed too many of our psychological resources, and the complex and troublesome human feelings often make people emotionally irritable. At this time, we are like a high-speed computer, with too many applications launched, the processing speed plummets, and the frequency of crashes (deterioration of thinking skills, such as unresponsiveness, difficulty concentrating, memory loss) and crashes (the outbreak of psychological crises, such as depression, anxiety, stress, etc.) soars.

Being alone, like the mental junk mechanism activated by the brain when it is overwhelmed, helps to clean up redundant information (negative emotions, confused thoughts) and free up more memory, so that the brain can function more easily and efficiently.

Cultivating positive mobility in solitude.

When the brain is easy to play, it is often easier to stimulate the creativity of locust lifting. Like a woman's wardrobe, when the clothes are arranged in a clear way, the owner can give full play to his aesthetic nature and easily match various combinations. As the so-called tranquility leads to far-reaching, the "quietness" of solitude helps the mind to move, so as to find a better course of action, so that women can enter the role more quickly and devote themselves to career or family.

It's the same as me.

I'm the only woman in my office.

Luckily, I have a good personality.

Good with guys.

In fact, there are two personalities that can be displayed.

One is very shy, let them think that you are not much talkative, and the other is very chic, make them think that you are easy to get along with, I just do the second one.

In fact, it also depends on the individual's personality.

In short, it's better to live in a stress-free environment than with a group of women.

It's an insult to associate with a man who doesn't respect you!

Why should the girl go to great lengths to find ways to maintain the insult.

Just say it.

Don't you feel happy? The blessing of the flag man.

I think you should make this clear to him, and the two of them communicate well.

Then you have to control your emotions! It's up to you to be in control!

I think if he really likes you and you refuse, then he won't insist on you.

If you find that the situation is not right, don't talk and kill him in seconds with cold and merciless eyes.

Men are most afraid of this trick.

At the same time, show your nobility and let him bow down under your pomegranate skirt.

Never turn over.

Haha I wish you happiness.

Find topics that interest both him and you.

It's not easy, it's okay to be a little loose when you're alone, men like this.

It may be because the family sometimes cares too much about nagging, which is all good for themselves, and treating family as friends is the best way, because in the most difficult times, only family members are the most reliable

Maybe you care too much about your family's attitude towards you, try to face your family with a normal heart, because they sometimes ignore your existence because they are busy with work or something.

That's not good, what's upset?

Maybe there's a reason, you didn't notice it, right?

Loneliness, and loneliness is different, to be a lonely person, not to be a lonely person, loneliness is a realm, can give people quiet power, the feeling of loneliness is very good, but this does not mean that it is not social. When you are alone, you can reflect on many things, and there are many good things that bring you to the mountains.

Nothing.

That's how I do sometimes.

Maybe it's because we think it's a little quieter for us.

People are different.

It doesn't have to be like this person, everyone has to be like him.

But if you do this often, you may be autistic or depressed.

It's easy to try it out. After all, people. If you always worry about this and that, you will soon get old.

It doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman.

One word. You must remember that there are people around you who love you. Care about you.

And. Stress is artificial.

Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Naturally, I was much happier.

Try to do exercise. Listen to the song.

The work pressure is high, and the psychology tends to be autistic, so it is recommended to listen to it more, do sports, or go for a walk. Try to talk to people you trust.

It's too stressful to work.

I've had that too.

Get out and walk more. It's best to get some exercise.

It's going to get better slowly.

Yes, the above is very true, yes I will be like this, after work, I am very bored and frenetic, no one is too lazy to care, and I am too lazy to do the planned things. This is because the pressure is too great, listen to some cheerful **, funny ringtones, dance, and immediately stir up emotions, happy and happy,.

I hope you can do the same, and make your complicated feelings simpler. Look up at the sky often!

Like you, I think it's a sign of mild depression, sometimes I feel restless, and I must not have slept well.