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Whether the roommate is on the college campus or the high school campus, they are all good brothers, and they will spend a lot of time staying with them, and the feelings between them are actually difficult to give up, but no matter how good the relationship is, there will be some small contradictions, small quarrels, even if there is a fight with the roommate, in fact, I still don't want the other party to have any losses, and I don't want the other party to be punished by the school. The fight between boys is actually just an emotional vent, and being able to reconcile the next day is also a unique friendship between boys' roommates.
I used to have a fight with my roommate, in fact, the problem is very small, it is simply some behavioral faults, or a little too much of a joke, etc., which led to a physical conflict between the two parties, and it seems to be a violent fight, but after both parties calm down, you will find how naïve your behavior was just now, and the relationship was so good before, you can't break off the relationship because of such a trivial matter, so there will always be a soft-hearted party to apologize, And the other roommate would never want to see such an embarrassed expression on his face, and would definitely say: Is such a trivial matter still used to apologize? Who made us brothers?
The seemingly simple words, coupled with the fact that this happened, made the two people cherish their friendship with each other even more, and there will never be any quarrels for a long time afterward.
Fighting with roommates will definitely not be very comfortable in the heart, not like a person who helped a good friend beat up other troubled people, and the other party is a good friend under the same roof as himself, it can be accurate to say that he is his brother, chagrin, regret This feeling will quickly climb into his heart, restlessness is also the norm for many people, and the heart will always think about how to save this friendship.
If everyone can control themselves, there will be no fight with roommates, and it is already a great fate for two people to live in the same dormitory, so what reason is there to fight?
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If you're a boy, it's easier to do. As the saying goes, if you don't fight, you don't know each other, and you can get closer if you fight. In fact, there was a little friction between boys, and it was normal for one to lose control of one's emotions and get into a fight.
In my opinion, most of the boys are very generous, and there is actually no big problem with fighting, and I won't say that I hold a grudge because of a fight, after all, they are all roommates, and the nose of the machine is not seen when I look up. It's embarrassing to see your face and speak, isn't it? If you want to repair the relationship with your roommate as soon as possible, there are the following:
The first is to buy something he likes more and apologize in the past, and be sincere. To err is human? Who isn't wrong?
What's more, this time it was your fault that you were in a bad mood to fight, don't you say? Since it's your fault, then admit it, it's no big deal, be sincere, and it's good! The sage also said that if you can change it, it is very good.
I'm sure your roommate will forgive you! The second is to find your squad leader or dormitory leader and ask him to sit in the middle and help you match. After all, sometimes you can't wipe your face, so find a middleman to make peace.
When a peacemaker is old, as soon as the two people talk about it, the middleman will reconcile it again, and the contradiction between the two people will be over. In this way, your wish to reconcile will come true, and you are still good brothers! Therefore, fighting is not a big problem, just afraid that if you fight and make a difference, then there will be no way.
Men do things cleanly and neatly, and a fight is not a big deal, nor is it a big hurdle, and it will be fine in the end.
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Summary. Having a good mood can help us deal with problems correctly, and when facing problems, it is best to treat them rationally, in the case of anger, we are often more impulsive, so it is easier to regret it. You must know that fighting is not a good solution to the problem, sometimes we must control our emotions, fighting is an irrational behavior, although you can let your emotions vent, but you will find that in the end everyone blames you the most in short, it is not rational to do it, now it is a civilized society, we should treat the problem rationally, deal with our emotions, and have a more harmonious relationship with classmates.
Having a good mood can help us deal with problems correctly, and when facing the question of asking questions and dust, it is best to treat them rationally, and we are often more impulsive when we sell shirts in a violent situation, so it is easier to regret it. You must know that playing a model Zen frame can not solve the problem very well, sometimes we must control our emotions, fighting is an irrational behavior, although you can let your emotions vent, but you will find that in the end everyone blames you the most in short, hands are not rational, now it is a civilized society, we should treat the problem rationally, deal with their emotions, only have a more harmonious relationship with classmates.
I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?
First of all, you will easily lose your mind and not be able to deal with problems properly in a violent situation. In short, when you feel that you are in a very angry state and feel that you can't control your emotions well, you can calm down by yelling or other ways that can make you vent your emotions in an environment, or talk to a friend or teacher, so that you can better solve the problem.
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Summary. It is inevitable that relatives often bump and bump together, first of all, we must know whose fault it is, and solve the problem according to the problem.
It is inevitable that relatives often bump and bump together, first of all, we must know whose fault it is, and solve the problem according to the problem.
Dear, is it so serious? Can you tell the teacher about your condition?
Did you do something to her?
Don't be in a hurry, don't be afraid first, tell the teacher about your situation, and the teacher will solve it with you.
First of all, you have to let my teacher know about your situation, so that I can help you solve the problem.
If it is only insulting, it can only be reported to the police, and it cannot be filed, it is a civil dispute that cannot be filed, and only if a criminal offense is committed, the public security organs will file a case for investigation, but they can take turns to file a lawsuit with the court.
Because of the quarrel caused by a cat on the stool, he first q I told me to take it out, I didn't listen to him, I said that I was good with the cat every day, I said that the thick oak he could give it meat to eat, and then he said with a hideous face I still pointed at me, I pointed back, he directly distorted my words and wanted to quarrel, he said me, I was disgusted, I scolded him, he took ** and patted me and said that I threatened his personal safety, he was going to file a case, I also patted it back and told him that he said directly that this place was his, I said that I was talking about the cat now, and he said that I just wanted to shoot and I also asked me to apologize, I apologized, he didn't accept it, and then he bent the wheel, and the self-righteous quarrel was disgusting in the afternoon.
Is the pro-cat yours?
It's no longer noisy! I see that he is closed and seems to be in a bad mood today, dear, since I have apologized to him, don't go to the state Liang to take care of him, what he said to go to file a case can be sent to Xi Neng is just to scare you, after all, a dormitory should not be too embarrassing, just endure it.
Dear, are your roommates afraid of cats? How could he say that it threatened his personal safety?
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1 All men should use wine to relieve their sorrows, buy two bottles of wine, and come back with a few side dishes, and tell him that if you pour a few more glasses of wine, and feel dizzy, you can use the strength of wine to say something apologetic. Then, maybe buddy just got it.
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Call 3,,5 people to drink, it's each other's good friends or the same dormitory, a little liquor is OK, plus beer, and other people say good, if it's stiff, it's a little longer, and the people next to it are round; If the relationship is good, leave one person behind, and you will drink God and talk again.
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A word of caution, don't be impulsive! It's normal to fight, and some people will hold grudges after the fight, and see if you are the kind who don't hold grudges. After a while, two people can talk, or team up to play basketball, and go mountain climbing together, which can resolve some unpleasantness! Hope it helps!
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I'm in the same situation as you, but not to the point of fighting! In those months in the dormitory, I didn't look up with him when I looked down, and he ignored me and I ignored her, which was really uncomfortable! So I asked my roommate for help, he invited guests to dinner, and we all went, and after a few bottles of wine, it was good to go!
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Okay, it's fine. The people in a dormitory are all brothers, everyone laughs and grudges, and the men don't care about these, so it's good to go out and drink together.
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Hehe, there are a lot of things like this in school! If the two of you don't fight because of too unprincipled issues, and you think that the other person is not much bad! Communicate!
Defuse is the best! What boys learn is generosity! You can find a friend you know and he knows, and this person has a relationship similar to both of you, so be sure to choose the right person, and then ask him to send the two of you out for dinner, boy, drink!
Not much to say, it's all in the wine!
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It's okay to fight at school, I've also fought, find an excuse in a few days, and it'll be fine to talk about it, but if you meet a brain-dead person, don't pay attention to him in the future.
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There is always a person who gives in first, takes a step back and broadens the sky, and takes the initiative, the broadest is not the sea, but the heart.
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The two of them had a good chat. Put down your face, after all, there are still two years, and you won't see you when you look down.
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1. Between classmates, it's nothing, it's over when the fight is over, it's not a big deal! It's okay to quarrel with classmates, or to fight! Don't touch it, be reserved! When you are young, it's normal to argue and do things.
Second, under normal circumstances, let's communicate! Don't talk on purpose and don't talk on purpose, everything is in nature. After a long time, everyone understands. We're all brothers!
3. Between classmates, you can't talk about right and wrong, you can't talk about right and wrong, but you have to talk about love! Students have different opinions, they can speak out, but they do not seek common ground. Zi said:
The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious. Confucius said: Those who observe etiquette have corresponding situations with different people, but they are not to be the same as them, and those who do not understand etiquette are not corresponding (gentlemen) in the same situation
Fourth, in fact, he thinks the same as you, try to find your own problems more. The gentleman asks for himself, and the villain asks for others. A gentleman often finds his own reasons, and villains find other people's reasons.
5. If you have opinions or suggestions, you can talk about them, but if you don't listen, there is no need to force them. Everyone has their own way to go.
Agree with the other brothers!
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Since it's roommates, it shouldn't be too much of a problem. Get angry for a few days, and you will be reconciled in a few days. Give way to each and nothing. It's still a good sister who sleeps together.
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Answer: classmates or classmates, friendship should still exist, don't be embarrassed, it seems a little embarrassing. But if you don't want to be generous, what should you say, and how to say it, men dare to take responsibility, this is nothing, don't quarrel, don't fight, don't make friends, it's over, friends are still friends, and they hold hands and move forward. Hold up the cup and have everything, and in the near future, the classmates will talk and laugh all over the world. ”
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Fights are normal, there is no conflict, who wants to fight. No big deal.
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I guess it's not a big deal, it's good to say it's open, it's still a good sister.
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They think I'm just wrong, no matter what the reason, I can use my mouth, but I can't use my hands, and I don't have any quality at all.
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It's not about him, and he won't be nosy.,Aren't people now more concerned about themselves.,What do you care about others.。。
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My roommate admired me for fighting, he thought I had a kind of Tricky Boy smell about me, and he wanted to call him next time I got into a fight.
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My roommates didn't think much of me about fighting, and they would definitely help me when necessary, and wouldn't let me be bullied.
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I think I'm impulsive and don't solve the problem with others, and I do it, which is a very bad thing.
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My roommates didn't like me fighting and killing all day, they were all alienating me, and I became persona non grata in the dorm room.
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My roommate and I didn't know each other well either, so when she heard me fighting, she just talked a few words.
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My roommates were very tolerant of my fights, and they felt that I must have my own reasons for fighting with others.
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My roommate thought I was naïve, he thought that fighting was the lowest way to deal with problems, and he had to be calm when he was in trouble.
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She was afraid of me fighting, she thought I was a very dangerous person, she was afraid of getting bad people because I was fighting with people.
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My roommates didn't have a big idea of how I got into fights, they thought everyone had their own temper.
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If they really knew me, I don't think they would have any idea of me, after all, who likes to fight.
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I don't think roommates have anything to do with me, I don't think they're bad, and I don't praise them.
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