Have you ever felt particularly poor?

Of course, when everyone else is eating all the meals they have ordered in advance, while I am eating a bucket of instant noodles, I feel very poor.

That was the first time I went out to work. At that time, I didn't have much to do at home during the summer vacation, so I thought about finding a job. I happened to see that there was a company recruiting workers, and it was still a weekly salary, including accommodation, and then I happily went to sign up and prepared to start my part-time career.

Before leaving, my mother gave four or five hundred yuan, and said that it was not enough to ask her again. I thought to myself that this is too much, and it is not more than enough to last a week. But it turned out that I was naïve, and I was really overthinking.

When I got there, I found that it was completely different from what I had imagined. I think this should be a relatively large company, otherwise it would not have been said to provide accommodation, but when I actually went there, the company was not large, and there was not even a canteen, and I had to order food from the outside, and then let people send it to the company.

And when I got to the arranged room, I was even more disappointed, I found that the whole room was empty, only a hard bed board. Later, the person who invited me explained to me that the large, well-decorated room was full, and asked me to settle for a moment and let me move in when there were available beds. This kind of statement really makes me feel congested, but if it comes, it will be safe, and I can only do it first.

After that, I spent a few more oceans, bought new mats, bed sheets, bedding and so on, and then added an electric fan in the summer. I spent a lot of money in total, and in order to survive that week, I had to save money.

When ordering food at noon, everyone took out their mobile phones to see what good dishes were available in nearby restaurants, but I could only take out the instant noodles or buns I had prepared. Every time I experience this kind of scene, I inevitably have a kind of poor sour feeling in my heart that everyone is rich, and I am so poor that I can't even afford to eat. <>

But I can't help it, my mother gave me so much money before leaving, and I'm already embarrassed to ask her for it again, and my family is not very wealthy, and asking for more money is to add a burden to the family. So I spent a week frugally, on a budget, and I felt that I had never been so aggrieved.

Although I actually resigned from that company a long time ago and stopped doing that job, I always want to pinch a handful of bitter tears for myself when I think back to the first week of my work. I really want to give myself 999 likes at that time and admire myself.

At this time, as we grow older, there will be more and more, because we are growing up, and the people around us are gradually gaping with us, and you will suddenly find that the original person who was once so inconspicuous is now an existence that you can't catch up with, at this time, you will suddenly find that you are so poor and sour, so small.

There is a story, although it is not mine, but I think it is very revealing, saying that these people are in a dormitory, at the beginning of Xiao A had a boyfriend, that is they are very envious, because people have umbrellas when it rains, someone accompanies them when they eat, and someone comes to comfort them when they catch a cold, it feels so good at that time, this is what it feels like to have a boyfriend, we have the ignorance of love when we are small, and it feels very beautiful at that time.

As we grow up, we gradually enter the society, at this time we gradually become young and beautiful, really, people in their twenties are really the most beautiful stage of life, and, as we step into the society, Xiao A officially became a woman, she got married, and at this time, the excitement came, Xiao B made a boyfriend, this boyfriend is amazing, he is a rich second generation, so, when we are still struggling for next month's room and meal expenses, people are under the nourishment of the little rich second generation boyfriend, I really want to come as I want, and in the end, I really can't stand the boss and quit, but can we? Of course not, so, when is the poorest sour, this is the poorest sour.

Finally, think about it, I am the poorest and sour person, because up to now, Xiao A has a happy family, and people don't have to care about it, because they have a husband to earn money, Xiao B, it is a life of eating and drinking, and when he is the poorest, he is a famous brand and a famous brand, so only he has nothing, and when he thinks of this, it is the poorest and sour time.

There must be, for example, when I go to the mall, I don't have any money in my bag, I feel really down, I don't hesitate to see what people want to buy, but it's always too expensive to buy something by myself.

Yes, even in the years I have been at home with my children, I feel that I am very poor, I have not bought a few clothes and makeup, and I rarely go out to parties with friends.

When the dormitory began to empty the shopping cart and prepare the collective ** thing, I kept grinding and chirping to refuse.

Frugality is a virtue, and poverty is a bad habit. The difference between them is that they are poor all the time, and they are poor and sour to others, and poor people generally treat themselves very generously, but when they treat others, they wish they would not give anything, as long as they reciprocate.

And thrift is to be more unextravagant and unnecessary to buy things that don't matter, and don't buy things that don't matter, and pay attention to practicality and cost performance. However, in the interaction with friends, etc., you will be very generous with others, and you will only spend more money when you should do it.

A thrifty person, when you get along with him, you will feel that he wears and eats generally, as if he is poor and picky, but when you really get along with him, you will find that this guy seems to be pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger, and he doesn't say that you don't know if he has money in his pocket. Poor and sour people, it's different, look good and eat well, but if you really go to play with him, you will be disgusted to death, you can always avoid the place to pay, there are always various reasons, such as forgetting to bring a wallet, these can only be hehe, because he didn't think about paying at all, and not bringing a wallet is deliberate.

Thrift is not buying things that have no practical meaning, even if you have money. For example, if you buy a cup of mocha for more than 30 yuan, ordinary thrifty people will not buy it, preferring to buy an instant mocha and drink it slowly by yourself.

But if the mocha is really good, he will taste it once in a while, or if the situation at the time is that he has to buy this mocha, he will buy it.

The point is not to be poor, but to be sour. People are poor, at most they can't afford to buy it, they are poor, they just can't afford it and want to buy it, and then they have to try their best to say that the goods are not worth the money, and they have to find out how to let others subsidize him, and in the end they not only eat and drink, but also get more freebies. I have to tell people not to take it for nothing.

Thrift is: a gentleman loves money, takes it in a proper way, and uses it in moderation. Poor acid is:

Poor and sour love money, take it without a way, and use it excessively. Thrifty is: something that can be enjoyed but not wasted.

For example, when you eat at a restaurant, the rest of the dishes will be packed, whether it is a high-end restaurant or a roadside stall. Poor acid is: you don't know how to enjoy it, but you will waste it at will.

For example, when you go to a high-end restaurant, you don't want to enjoy the food but to satisfy your inner vanity, and the rest of the dishes will not be packed for fear of falling in price).

Thrifty is: Spending money is because of real needs, such as donkey brand bags, which are really easy to use, light and wear-resistant. Poor acid is:

Spending money is because of the need for show, such as the donkey brand bag, to the logo looks the most obvious, as for whether it is good or not, it doesn't matter how the texture is inconvenient to do, anyway, everyone can recognize it as LV when taking pictures.

Thrift is: knowing how to cherish the value of goods, but not being held hostage by this value. Wear a lot of clothes, know how to match decent words and deeds, know how to use demeanor to match clothes, but will not be cautious everywhere, let alone angry because the waiter accidentally spilled red wine on his body:

You're blind, aren't you? Do you know how much Lao Tzu's clothes are worth? Do you know that you can't afford to lose a year's salary?

Thrift is not spending money indiscriminately, and being poor is obviously not able to consume and shouting.

Thrift is not to spend money indiscriminately, not to buy useless things, and to be poor is to pick the door to the extreme.

Thrift is a way of living within your means, and being poor is a kind of picking.

Thrift is a good character, while poverty is a description of a person who is picky and poor.

Thrift is something that is reluctant, and poverty is something that is not available in the first place.

Thrift refers to planning one's own lifestyle in a regulated and restrained manner, without extravagance and waste; Poor refers to people who live in poverty.

Thrift is a virtue, and poor refers to a class of people, the poor.

Saving is to save money if you can, and being poor is afraid that people will not know that he has no money and buy it indiscriminately.

Thrift can earn money, but poverty can't earn money.

The biggest difference is whether you're just doing this to yourself or to others.

1. I feel that both of you are a bit extreme, we have to learn to manage money, remove the money after the monthly living expenses, and then save it, don't live too luxuriously, but also learn to save.

2. Saving money is a good thing, but if you only save money, your life is very poor, which will be bad for our health, so I don't recommend it. While ensuring your health, and then saving money, you are neither poor nor public, isn't it the best of both worlds.

Young people should develop good financial habits. Don't become a moonshine clan as soon as you pay your salary to the end of the month. Don't look at other people's spending money very chic, buy a lot of new clothes every month, not to say that you don't buy clothes, use them when you should use them, don't waste money where you shouldn't waste it.

Save it up and use it when you need it.

Can you not be so extreme? You can save part of the money and spend part of it. Neither looks poor and sour, nor moonshine. Spend your money with a plan. Be in line with your own consumption. The money that must be spent must be spent.

I think it's good to save money, but I also want to ensure my quality of life, don't know how to save money, and ignore the details of my image life. 2. 1 Yueyue looks very comfortable on the surface, but she can't save money, and when she uses the money, she can't take it out, so she still saves money.

It doesn't matter what others think, what matters is your feelings and intentions.

Whether it's moonshine or saving money, there is no right or wrong, as long as it fits your own plan and mood.

I don't think either of these people are good.

Because: although the former type of people are rich, they look poor and sour, and they are easy to be looked down upon, and now people judge people by their appearance, and most of them are snobbish.

The second type of person, although he looks glamorous and looks rich, actually has no money, and when necessary, he cannot come up with it.

Therefore, it is good to have a plan for spending money and live within your means.

No matter how much money each of us makes, we must learn to manage our finances and arrange our finances reasonably.

Don't feel that you are earning less and not enough, so you don't save money and don't invest. On the contrary, even if you eat less and wear less food and clothing every month, you must take out the money you have saved and invested. In this way, you may be more and more relaxed, otherwise, once you encounter something, or need to recharge and study, etc., you will be overwhelmed.

Reasonable financial management has nothing to do with the surface seen by outsiders, only if you really live well, your wealth has doubled, and you have the inside, and you have the confidence to save face!

It is more reasonable to have a part for savings, a part for consumption, and a part for financial management.

You can't say that, you have to have money, if you don't have money. You can't do anything when you encounter something. It's not that you've saved money, you're like a poor sour, but you can also have some money for your expenses.

If you live a dashing day and spend lavishly. But when you encounter something and you don't have any money in your hand, what do you do? People should be realistic, not that people look at you like poor and sour, but I have money in my hands, and you don't have to tell him if you are right.

It looks smooth on the outside, gorgeous and rich, but you don't have a penny in your hand, so what's the use?

I feel that according to my actual income, according to the arrangement of monthly expenses, it is best to save the money that can be kept, accumulate points for backup when needed, look poor or rich on the outside are made for others to see, moonlight is to look at it!

It's better to save some money. If you are sick one day, or you don't have a job, at least you still have food. Plan ahead. You have to understand. When you're hungry, you're thinking about earning money. There's no rush anymore.

It's better to have money, and I feel unconfident if I don't have money.

Looking at others as rich and noble is because of their own poor mentality. Hong Kong people have temperament because of the early economic development, and all local economic development to a certain extent will pay attention to appearance.

Save a little money and don't spend it every month! Girls, the clothes that should be bought are still bought, don't treat yourself badly, spend what should be spent, save some if you shouldn't spend, as a person who has come over, I understand it this way, after all, in this era, you are too shabby to be looked down upon, so you have to grasp the proportions!