Is it true that love first, lose first ?

Actually, I don't think this sentence is necessarily true. Many people will also say that the person who loves after always loses.

In fact, I don't think anyone is right or wrong in love, and there is no one who wins or loses.

What is winning or losing, do you feel very happy when you win in love, it's not like that?

The reason why many people say such things is because when many people love first, they don't have enough security in their hearts, so they have always been in a relatively inferior position.

Because he is not sure whether the other party loves him, so he is in a state of worrying about whether others love him every day, when something happens, such as quarrels and contradictions, he may feel that he loves first and cherishes the other party more, so he may admit defeat first, and may admit mistakes first.

So many people feel that they admit defeat first, but in fact, such people are the smartest people, and I have always thought that people who bow their heads first and work hard first in love are smart people.

Because in the end, you will find that they are often the ones who turn around and leave first, and when they leave, they take away all their care for you and their love for you, leaving no regrets or regrets.

For people who have always been cared for and relied upon, this is the greatest sorrow. In fact, I think that in most cases, it may be the person who loves later who loses the most.

When the person you love approaches you step by step, when she trusts you more and more, trusts you, and relies on you, you will find that the person who loves you may be leaving you step by step, so how do you accept this fact for you.

So in my opinion, in fact, love is a matter of two people, you have to take it to heart, just use your heart.

In fact, this is not necessarily, there is no such thing as love first and lose first in love, because there are many, and love can't go on because of many reasons. The one who loves first doesn't necessarily lose in the end.

I remember that when I was with my ex, I may not have liked her very much at first, but later, because of his pursuit, I felt that this boy was okay and agreed to be with him. So the time together is also relatively long. In the process of falling in love, I gradually fell in love with him.

But in the end, she had a mistress and abandoned me. When faced with this, I really sometimes say that it was you who made a promise to hold the hand of my son and carry the old with my son. But it was you who once again ruthlessly abandoned me and left me alone to survive in this life.

In the face of such a time, I never thought that I would love first and lose first, because in this love it was really me who lost and not him. Because he really left when I was really in love with him. Once again, I couldn't believe in love, and I couldn't believe the men around me.

I wonder if I had really been in the last man, would he have abandoned me in the middle of the process.

Therefore, there is no absolute equality in feelings, and there is no order. In the end, the failure of the relationship comes down to the fact that both people are responsible. Because you can't break up because of one person.

More or less both of them will have problems, so look at a relationship objectively. Because there are always a lot of disappointments in life, there will always be times when we have to face a breakup. Therefore, our hearts must be calm about these things, in fact, there is nothing in front of love.

If unfortunately your love breaks up, then bless each other to find a suitable person. Because blessings are sometimes the most important.

It's not about loving first and losing first. It's who lets go and who loses. Because when two people love each other, no one wins or loses.

You dare to love her, and if she loves you, how can she let you lose. But if you don't love anymore. The one who loses must be the one who is unwilling to let go.

Even if you like it, you don't dare to take the initiative to chase it. Because people who feel that they take the initiative to pursue will lose in love.

But that's not the case. How can two people who love each other have who loses and who wins. When together.

Both are winners. Only when they are not together, will one side lose badly. So it's not about loving first and losing first.

The first love is not necessarily the deep love. Therefore, it should be that after separation, the one who loves deeply loses.

And I think that if the person who loves first gets it, then he wins. Because of his bravery, he won his love. So I encourage everyone to pursue the person they like.

And don't be afraid of losing and hide your love in your heart. Because those who hide in their hearts certainly do not fail. But they already lost at the beginning.

Of course, there are some situations where there is a love-first-lose. That's when you can't love it. You love, but the other person doesn't love you.

You pursue it with all your might. The other party is indifferent to treat you as a joke. That's when you lose.

And lost completely. Because you loved first.

But even so, I think you should still love. Because although it is possible to lose. But there will be no regrets.

Those who hide in their hearts are already doomed to lose before they start. And at least you've struggled for this relationship. So you won't regret it.

If you dare to love, half of them may win, and if you don't dare, you are doomed to lose.

Generally, the person who loves first may pay a little more, because the person who loves first will be more afraid of losing each other, and will pay more attention to everything about the other party, and then tolerate the other party as much as possible, and may lose the initiative at the beginning and follow the footsteps of the other party, but I have always felt that there is no winning or losing in love, and the so-called winning or losing is just that you did not meet the right person. <>

In the past, my friends always liked to persuade others to say, don't be too serious in love, if you are serious, you will lose, I feel as if you will win if you are not serious! It's the same thing, it's not that if you love first, you lose, and if you fall in love later, you win! I can only say that you are not suitable, breaking up never means failure, but rehearsing how love can come better!

It doesn't have to be love first and lose first.

I love you, so I am willing to pay for you and work hard for you, I can only say that I care more about your love, and I can only say that I am slightly better in the matter of paying.

The person who loves first can understand his heart earlier, and understand that love is a sacrifice, I love you a little more, and I love you a little deeper.

On the issue of love, we can't go beyond our hearts, when I understand the heart of the other party, I know how to care more about you, care more about you, feel more sorry for you, and love you more. Your smile touches your lover's heart.

On this long road of life, I am willing to love you a little earlier. Love has nothing to do with winning or losing, and love has nothing to do with right or wrong, it's just about caring a little more, just about loving a little more. Love will always have a first-come, first-served order, and when I found you, I understood that the person I want to love is you.

The more I want to be nice to you sooner.

My personal experience tells me that this is not true. However, the person who loves first is indeed a little tired.

Many times it is said that people who fall in love first will be scarred in love, but this is only part of the story, and my experience is not like this, although it is also uncomfortable. <>

My first love and I met in junior high school, and at that time he should have been all the class flowers in our class, a very innocent girl. At that time, many boys in my class liked her very much, so much so that I was the only one who made it clear to her. At that time, I was young, and I was thinking about how to have a good relationship with her and how to win her heart every day.

Finally, after my efforts, I finally caught up. At first, the two of us got along very well, but I was very tired every day as a suitor of him, listening to her in everything, caring about her feelings in everything, and rarely interacting with even female friends. Time is slowly developing, and I really feel very tired after giving so much every day, but my tiredness has also paid off.

My girlfriend was very nice to me, and we both had a great relationship, and until now, we are still together. In this relationship, I, as the one who loves first, did suffer some injustice in love, but if love is fair, is it still called love?

Therefore, love first does not necessarily mean losing, the relationship between the two of them is handled well, and if you cherish this relationship, you will not lose.