How to express literary style when chatting with girls?

Literary atmosphere is a feeling, emotionally sensitive girls can basically vaguely feel your way of dealing with the world when they see your first face, and if you want to leave a literary impression in front of girls, then the first meeting is very important.

The first is the details, if you want to not make girls feel that they are literary, rather than sad or overly pretentious, then it is especially important for some small details (believe me, girls will definitely have a definition before you open your mouth). Therefore, it is particularly important to shape your own detailed image.

Because boys always don't pay much attention to their quality of life, thick branches and leaves are definitely very different from literary and artistic models, neat dress, and clean hands are their own requirements, remember, those popular patterns nowadays are best not to appear on your clothes, and solid colors are often more in line with the standards of literary and artistic models. Some people think that the literary fan should understand classical Chinese or some Japanese, but in fact, it is not necessary, as long as your movements are not flustered, you often hold books in your hands, and you should also involve more beautiful and romantic topics in your conversation, then, the literary atmosphere will be created.

In essence, literature and art are literature and art, and if you want to improve your literary and artistic style, it is also essential to read more books on literature and art. Literary books will make you look more level, while art books will at least make you more and more adept at dressing yourself up and cultivating your sentiments.

Of course, in front of girls, gentlemanly demeanor is also an important embodiment of literary and artistic atmosphere, because a gentleman's style is literary and artistic, and cultivating one's etiquette and demeanor in a timely manner can also relatively improve one's first impression score. Therefore, if you want to embody the literary and artistic model in front of girls, you need to master a lot of homework, and you can't just take some simple things to supplement temporarily.

In fact, literary and artistic fan is a kind of temperament and a kind of personal personality. If you want to express your literary and artistic style, the most important thing is to enrich your inner self and make yourself a literary person.

First of all, if you want to express your literary style, you must pay attention not to overdo it, if you go too far, it will make people think that you are pretending to be forced. Therefore, I have a poetic and bookish atmosphere, and use more idioms in chatting, comparing literary idioms. Express your inner thoughts.

For example, if you share your life with her, if you are really literary, you can see from your life that the heart of literature and art is an attitude, but it is not natural to show it.

As far as the answer is concerned, there are a few boys on QQ, first of all, the avatar is very literary, such as the avatar of the wandering atmosphere holding the guitar, or the avatar of the literary atmosphere of the sea and so on, so that the girl has a literary atmosphere in the process of chatting with you. The second is to manage your own language. Pay attention to the language must not be exploding, after exploding foul language, it seems that it has nothing to do with the sense of literature and art.

Secondly, pay attention to the content of the chat. You can piggyback on it, for example, when the other party is expressing some ideas, you say: I happened to see a sentence in the book yesterday...

This not only expresses the side that you read the book, but it is not obvious, quoting scriptures is always an excellent standard to show a person's taste.

Of course, literature and art do not just represent an act. From the dress, there is also a circle of friends, space, a sign, and something can be reflected. From some relatively niche literary books, I can read some very philosophical and aesthetic words.

Often send some scenic **. Be careful not to be too frequent. In fact, people who play ** and play folk songs can easily give people a wandering literary atmosphere.

So. Go deep into yourself. In this way, the literary and artistic atmosphere is naturally revealed.

It is recommended to read more books by Shen Congwen, as well as Qian Zhongshu, and of course Feng Tang's books.

Starbucks' recent Christmas series of coffee is quite delicious, don't you girls like that kind of grandma taste?

It looks like she doesn't like you very much.

Don't chase after it, because it won't work, and it's easy to get annoying.

Talking about hobbies ** MV is generally liked by women.

Polite: Hello! I'm ......Add you as a friend.

I watched it recently, have you watched it, the protagonist in it is very touching (if you watch it, then there is a common topic).

If you are a girl, you like TV series and movies, especially those with handsome guys.

It's not bad to be a little literary.,In case the other party is a bit of a literary fan.。

Humorous words are a must, and everyone likes humor to bring happiness.

Hope it helps.

Open the topic and ask her what she likes.

Be sure to find common ground of interest.

First of all, the relationship you want to maintain is:

Let's simulate: z represents yourself. o represents the woman;

Z: Hello.

0；Thank you. However, we don't seem to know each other very well.

z；We're acquainted, (I've seen her information beforehand and I'm from somewhere,) I'm also from a certain place.

o；Well, that's my hometown.

z；It's beautiful there.

Play to the best of your ability. Ed

It would be nice to ask for warmth and care about her family.

Generally like** or MV and then the Internet** or Korean celebrity** Otherwise, it depends on what game she plays.

So first of all, you should meet this girl, if you really want to pursue this girl, then you have to meet after all.

Meet each other first, so that both parties have a bottom in their hearts. And then it depends on the situation. If you both feel that way, then you can take the initiative to confess to that girl.

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It is recommended that you learn some jokes, which is a conciliator for two people to fall in love, and you can tell one when the atmosphere is bad or when you are cold. But there must be real jokes, bad jokes and the like, only your girlfriend has a sense of humor, this method is good.

Or find a place to talk. Have you tried this, I'm not talking about places like KTV, such as outings, watching movies, participating in some activities, etc. The effect of changing places and environments is very good, and it is recommended that you try it, especially for outings and participating in some mass activities, which are not abrupt and meaningful, and at this time as a man has the opportunity to show his thoughtfulness and mood.

Don't think about the topic before you chat, it's like an endorsement, which will only make you more embarrassed, and you need to find out more about what she is interested in, and then do your homework to find out what you have in common.

Hope my answer can help you!

I wish you lovers a happy marriage!

Start with 1 joke and respond randomly based on her reaction.

There are many words of praise, humorous jokes and expressions, and they will appreciate it even if they can't understand it.

Ask her often, help her if she has any problems, don't bother her if she is upset, and ask her what happened until she is in a good mood. That's all I know, sorry.

It's like teasing other girls, joking or something, thinking of her as another girl, teasing more, and if you can amuse him often, he'll always chat with you, buddy, then your chance has come.

Be sincere, don't tell lies, talk about jokes, talk about daily life, talk about work, talk about study, talk about feelings, be generous, but don't brag.

You don't have to send anything out of your way! If she likes you, she'll be happy to talk to you!

Talk about things around you, and then ask about her.

Talk about your goals, talk about his preferences, talk about your social situation, family situation, her family friends, shortcomings, strengths.

Chat casually! Talk about everything! Talk about whatever comes to mind!

Ask her about her hobbies, and if you find a hobby you share, you can talk about it.

Find a topic that interests her. Otherwise, unless she likes you too.

When you're embarrassed, you can make a statement, ** or something.

Anyway, it's good not to be too numb. You can send anything else.

Directly say that you have a good impression of her, see how she responds!

Like me, I also want to talk to her, I don't know what to talk about.