How often do long distance couples generally connect?

Updated on healthy 2024-05-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you have said that it is a long-distance relationship, of course, you can't make a long time to contact, for us living in modern Chinese society, the traffic information is so developed, the distance is not a big problem, long-distance relationships can be connected to each other anytime and anywhere, and long-distance relationships are the best daily contact, otherwise the feelings of two people will slowly cool down, especially the girl's part, it is easy to have a lot of ideas, how to say that the girl's mind is more detailed than the boy's mind, so it is easy to break up.

    What two people in a long-distance relationship are most afraid of is not feeling the love from each other, feeling that the other party is so far away from them, and they can't think like a normal couple, they can meet all the time, they can say anything clearly, and give each other enough warmth and touch. Long-distance relationships can't be done, all they can do is play ** and chat QQ. Chat on WeChat, let each other feel their presence in the chat, if this can't be done, there is no difference between breaking up with two people.

    The best thing about a long-distance relationship is to contact every day, not to say that you have to contact all the time, nor does it mean that you have to contact each other when you are in contact, even if you are in the same city, you may not be able to do it, after all, two people have their own things, their own work and study. The daily contact I am talking about is irregular every day, and when I have time, I can talk to each other, so that each other's hearts can feel a trace of warmth, and let the other party know that they care about her and think about each other. You don't have to talk about a lot of things every day, it's good to shush each other, and it's enough for both parties to analyze each other's fun things these days, tell jokes, and let each other have a comfort in their hearts.

    If two people are busy with their own work, and there is no way to contact each other every day because of work, it is acceptable to contact once every two or three days, especially for couples whose relationship between two people is good enough, the frequency of this contact is still acceptable, after all, both people are full of trust in each other. This situation is very common, for example, two people have their own jobs, and it happens to be a day shift and a night shift, so it is more troublesome to connect, and if you have to contact every day, you don't have enough energy and time, so it's acceptable to contact each other once every two or three days. But when you can't get in touch, it's nothing, just complaining that you're tired, so it's not good for each other's feelings, it's better not to contact.

    The contact should be more positive, so that each other can feel better, after all, it is already very bad for two people to be separated from each other.

    I think that if two people are in a long-distance relationship, once a week is already the limit, and they can't exceed this time. After all, it is not the last century, the transportation is inconvenient, there is no ***, there is no popularization of the Internet, if it is really the last century, it is understandable that two people contact once every few months, or even meet once a year, but now this kind of condition is not possible, and it is impossible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Shouldn't you be in contact every day?

    No matter how busy the other person is, there is always a time to send good morning and good night to the other person every day, right? There is no such thing as being busy or not in love, if you really care about a person, it is impossible to be willing not to contact him. If you really do it, it's good not to get in touch, except that the relationship is very, very stable, that is, the relationship is very, very unstable.

    I'm also in a long-distance relationship now, and we talk every day, saying good morning in the morning and good night in the evening. We all confide in each other about what happened to us that day, or what we had fun with, or what didn't go our way. We will all say what opinions we have about each other, and we will never doubt each other.

    It is said that the state of a long-distance relationship is that sweet words are discounted, and angry words are doubled. Most of the conflicts stem from not communicating well. Communication is so important that he says "I'm tired", and you're on the other side of the screen, and it feels like he's going to break up.

    But you didn't ask him what happened, and you couldn't understand it or understand it. You amplified that sentence from him. Gradually, you feel that he has changed, he no longer greets you with affection and tenderness, seems to have lost patience with you, and no longer spoils you and coaxes you.

    You're starting to get bored with him too, and it's been a long time since you message him back. Your communication seems to have become a task rather than a joy from the heart.

    Chatting for an hour a week is far less effective than the ten minutes of chatting every day for a week. Communicate more, communicate more, in order to say what is in your heart, to let the other party into your life, let him understand you better, and make the shelf life of this relationship longer. Even a "dear", even a naughty meme, can make him understand that you love him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Long-distance couples, if you don't have contact for a day. Then today he may be in touch with someone else. If you haven't been in touch for a month, maybe he won't want to contact you anymore. No contact for three months. You'll never need to be in touch again.

    A long-distance relationship is itself an insecure way of falling in love. And the only way you can communicate your feelings is **. And if you even let go of this only way. So did you meet in a dream? It's still in God's hand.

    Maybe you think you can dream of him. But you don't know who he's hugging. Maybe you miss him even if you don't get in touch. But you don't know who he's dating at the moment.

    Although the remote area is free, it does have the highest breakup rate. If you want to keep this love fresh. That's to be in touch every day.

    You need to know what the other person is doing at all times. Of course, the premise is mutual trust and honesty. If it's full of deception, it's useless to contact every hour.

    I've always been a supporter of long-distance relationships. And my heart is not optimistic about what the long-distance relationship can do. I really believe that distance is not beauty, but the little three. Long-distance relationships are too bitter, and few people can stick to them.

    And you have this question. I think different people will have different answers. Some people will tell you to contact every day. And some people will tell you that they haven't counted how often they have been contacted. But there is no doubt that the former's relationship is more stable once.

    If couples are not in contact every day, but on a regular basis, then what's the difference with friends? My friends occasionally send me a **call**. Wouldn't the subject not think if they didn't contact each other for a day?

    If you don't want to, don't get in touch. Or do you think about it once a month? Therefore, normal long-distance couples should contact each other every day.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel like I should be in touch every day.

    It's a long-distance relationship, and if you don't keep in touch often, I don't think it's good for the relationship. No matter how busy you are, there is always time to play every day, not to mention a few hours, just a few words of cordial greetings and words of concern should always have time.

    I am an extremely insecure girl, I keep in touch with my boyfriend every day, probably because I keep in touch every day, so I get used to this kind of life, so as long as I don't talk for a day, don't contact and don't fight, I feel uncomfortable, I panic, although my heart and clear we love each other very much, but I will still be sad. Yesterday there was one such thing, he ignored me for a day, but I knew he had a reason, so I got angry with him, and then I felt a little vexatious. So I don't want to dwell on this anymore, so let it go like this.

    In addition to relying on the heart-to-heart connection and mobile phone is the most important thing in a long-distance relationship, without a mobile phone, I think it is difficult for your relationship to maintain, because this is a very realistic society. Two people are not together every day, they can't see each other's joys, sorrows, sorrows, and sorrows with their own eyes, they can't eat together, they can't sit together, they can't talk together, and they can't hug each other. Therefore, it is very important to contact each other every day, share your inner emotions and thoughts in a timely manner, give each other a sense of security, don't ignore each other inexplicably, even if you go to do something, you must say hello in advance, so as not to find someone in a hurry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Long-distance couples seem to be in contact all the time, because you are not like couples in the same city, you can meet anytime and anywhere, you can know what she is doing now...Mobile phone contact has become your only communication channel, <>

    Only by relying on the bond in your heart and your feelings to maintain, I think the mobile phone was invented for long-distance couples, in ancient times I wanted to receive a letter from my wife at home how rare it was, so in such a good communication tool don't let her feel lonely, and contact her more! No matter how big a business you are doing outside, there is always a ** who will be waiting for you to tell her your safety, she is always waiting for you to contact her! Men should learn to take the initiative, there is no need to wait for her to contact you, if you miss him, you will call her **, no matter when and where she will be willing to take this**, she will think that you are thinking about her, no one is active or passive in a long-distance relationship, only if they understand each other and everyone is active, so that they will not be washed away by the long river of time, if you are all passive, then the relationship will disappear if you are weak, so if you really like her, you will call her **, no need for a reason, a sentence:

    I miss you, that's enough.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Long-distance military love, together for 6 years, if you contact you once a week, you may not have any news for a month when you meet a training camp.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think I still have to keep in touch every day, and I don't see each other often. We see each other once a week and talk basically every day. Suddenly he didn't contact me for a few days, and I thought it was a breakup.

    The two of them are not together, who knows what he is doing over there, he said he was busy, I didn't believe it, he didn't even have time to send me messages for days. I'm sick here, and I can't find anyone if I want him to care. That's why I don't think he has me in his heart.

    He still thinks I'm inexplicable. Long-distance relationships are very tiring, and there are few people who really feel like they stick to it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to ask how often you can understand when you meet, ** text message or communication through the Internet is not considered contact? I feel like it's not too much to contact every day...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's rarely contacted, and I don't like it as much as I used to, and it's probably going to crack.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can endure it if you don't see each other, you can't bear it if you don't contact or chat for a day, and you can't bear it anymore.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    According to the situation, if the distance is relatively far away and the cherry blossoms are not in place across provinces, generally speaking, if there are conditions, it is more appropriate to be able to meet once in two or three months. Of course, if there is a condition, of course, the more people we meet, the better. But for most long-distance relationships, it's very good to be able to see each other once every two or three months.

    If the long-distance relationship is in a province, not in a city, in this case, I feel that I basically see each other once a month, and sometimes those festivals, such as Qixi Festival or Spring Festival or Christmas, will meet each other, so the relationship between them will get along better, and it will not be because the ridge has not seen two people indifferent to each other for too long, and it will not cause many problems because they always meet, I think it is better to keep the long-distance relationship at such a frequency, because it will make it impossible to have too many contradictions between two people. But it will also maintain the mystery of the two people to each other because of the meeting of the two people.

    Although the two of them are in a long-distance relationship, they should be contacted at least once a day. After all, two people can't see each other, and if they don't contact each other once a day, the relationship between the two people will fade after a long time. I think it's natural to be as frequent as possible, but that's to ask yourself to take the initiative to accommodate!

    Because you keep asking each other, maybe others will alienate you because of work, but if you can't work too often, then don't exceed three months, because you are just in love, not married, and not reliable!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Generally, contact once every three to seven days.

    Now many people are scattered and joined the army of long-distance relationships, because of various fates, the army has chosen long-distance relationships. Some people are in a local relationship themselves, but because of the relationship between work and life, they end up in a long-distance relationship. Some people develop long-distance relationships after being introduced by friends or meeting online.

    No matter what way it leads to a long-distance relationship, long-distance relationships have one characteristic, which is more difficult and more difficult.

    In fact, the contact for a long time mainly depends on the personality and relationship of the two. Some people are naturally very good at talking, and they can have endless things to say every day. Some people are not naturally good at chatting, and even if the other person is their lover, they often talk less.

    Therefore, this depends on the situation, if you can talk every day, then try to talk every day, if you don't feel that there are too many topics, contact once a day or two, it's nothing. As long as both parties agree, as long as the hearts of both parties are in everything, these are nothing, depending on the degree of discussion and tacit understanding between the two.

    Of course, you can't go uncontacted for too long, and if you don't contact once a week, it's easy for the relationship to go wrong.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Long-distance relationships are very difficult, and it is relatively difficult to maintain relationships. In a short period of time, there is not much feeling. However, if it takes a long time, you will obviously feel the difficulty of a long-distance relationship.

    Many people, after a long-distance relationship for a period of time, will not be able to persevere, and finally have to choose to separate, ending with a breakup. In fact, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship in a long-distance relationship because it is inconvenient to meet, communication is prone to obstacles, estrangement and suspicion are easy to appear, and it is easy to be taken advantage of by others. If you can meet often through laughter, the success rate of long-distance relationships is still relatively high.

    So, how often is it most appropriate for long-distance relationships to meet? In fact, it is most suitable for a long-distance relationship to be able to meet once every 1-3 months. If you don't see each other for too long, such as once every six months or even once a year, it is easy for the relationship to have problems.

    It will make people not feel the beauty of talking about feelings, but they will feel very tired, more tired than when they were single. When in a long-distance relationship, no matter how far away you are, you should insist on seeing each other more often, preferably not more than once every 3 months. Otherwise, feelings are easily affected.

    If it's too busy, too far away, you should try to find a way to work in the same city. If you don't have the opportunity to meet once a year, this kind of love is sometimes better than not talking about it. All year round, they are lovers on mobile phones, and it is very difficult to be emotionally intimate.

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