What does it mean for the man to be rejected and pretend not to understand? 30

It's harder to refuse to be friends, maybe it's good to say it, but there are some scars in my heart.

If you don't want to lose his friend, it means that you still have a good impression of him in your heart, but it is not good to that point, maybe he can't meet your mate selection standards in some aspects, maybe you haven't dug it out, you already have the answer in your heart, and you don't want to lose this friend, then continue to develop.

He didn't want to give up the slightest hope. If you don't reject him directly, he doesn't want to admit that you rejected him, he will think that there is still a chance, and you should recognize what you want.

I just don't want to think about it, I'm like this too, reluctantly.

I don't want to face failure.

One: the personality of the boys.

In fact, boys do not reject girls who actively pursue themselves, and it has a certain relationship with personality. There are some boys who are soft-hearted, even if he doesn't like this girl, he will never refuse silently. Some boys are more introverted and are usually at a loss when they suddenly receive active pursuit from a girl.

was caught off guard by being loved, so he didn't know how to reply for a while.

This kind of guy generally doesn't reject a girl, even if he doesn't feel good about it. Just as boys pursue girls, there are some sensible children and girls who usually do not ruthlessly reject boys. Either refuse tactfully, or simply reply, until the boy understands that it is cool, and then slowly withdraw.

When we are in love, we have to learn to win and lose. The other party also has feelings for you, even if you challenge you repeatedly, they will still accept you after all.

Two: Feeling unworthy.

Many boys are usually less confident. Occasionally, I encounter a more good-looking, more durable girl who pursues herself, and generally feels that she is not worthy of the other party. If you really like this guy, please give the girl a little space from the premise of your pursuit, so that the other party can find confidence, so that he will slowly accept you.

And boys who are generally not confident are generally not such sweet boys. Most of the boys of this type are still more attentive and single-minded. Maybe they've been hurt, maybe they've seen their feelings clearly, but if you really fall in love with someone, not everyone can't be changed.

Three: The girl cannot meet his requirements in some aspects.

Maybe the girl's body shape is not good enough, maybe the girl is not beautiful enough, or maybe the girl's temperament is not the type that the other party likes. But regardless of the factors, this hard condition is very real life. If a girl with an ordinary appearance must pursue a more handsome boy, under normal circumstances, it is unlikely to succeed.

Unless this girl has more advantages in some aspects, it is difficult to be together. Therefore, under the premise of comprehensiveness, a sensible child boy is not very likely to reject a girl. There are no absolutes in the world, if a girl with an ordinary appearance likes a handsome boy very much, we pay attention to 'the door is not right', but if this girl mainly improves her own advantages, I firmly believe that it is not impossible.

Four: the character and literacy of girls.

Sometimes a girl's personality may not be what the boy likes, but it is also the type that the boy prefers in all aspects. Therefore, boys will still be entangled, and they can't pay attention to it for a while, whether they should refuse girls. The literacy of girls is usually the largest part of the image share of boys.

If a girl's literacy is not high, the boy will definitely value it. Positivity is not a hard condition, but should look at its comprehensive ability and its quality improvement, if you can meet the expectations of boys, I firmly believe that they will accept you as soon as possible.

It may be that they don't want to refuse.

When a boy says he doesn't know, it doesn't necessarily mean a rejection, and the specific meaning depends on the boy's tone and attitude.

If a boy shows an uninteresting or perfunctory attitude when he says "I don't know" lightly, then he may want to refuse. But if the guy is hesitant or confused, and he also expresses a favorable opinion of the girl, then he may just be seeking more information and time to make a decision, rather than refusing. It is important to observe the guy's words and deeds to understand his true intentions.

Boys' refusals:

1. Be polite to you Tanchun:

Although husband and wife should be respectful of each other, if he is polite to you before you fall in love, then it is very likely that he is rejecting you. A man is usually very aggressive and doesn't pay much attention to detail, but if he is careful with you, it means that he doesn't want to have too much to do with you.

2. Do not accept your invitation:

Generally speaking, a man is not passive, if he likes you, he will take the initiative and invite you to watch a movie, eat, or go shopping. But if he doesn't like you, he won't invite you, but he will reject you. I like someone, I want to stay with her all the time, even if I stand and don't speak, it's very beautiful.

3. Deliberately avoid your eyes:

A person's eyes can tell his heart, you look at him affectionately, express your love for him, and when he looks at you, if he also responds to you with true feelings, then he also has a good impression of you; But if he immediately avoids your gaze, then you should be able to understand his heart. <>

Refuse, the words are so straightforward and you don't dare to say it, you don't dare to listen to it, you don't want to listen, you don't want to admit it.

Did you tell him? If you say it, he still doesn't accept you, then give up, go find another forest, there is always a tree that belongs to you, if he doesn't dislike you, then continue to chase, he has someone else in his heart, this is normal, you still have a chance, you have to work hard to chase, let him feel that you are good to him, maybe the person in his heart does not necessarily like him, you have been chasing him, the opportunity is still great, don't give up, maybe the person in his heart already has an object, this possibility is very big, if you boldly say it, even if you are rejected, it doesn't matter, You at least don't have the regrets of missing out, is that reasonable? You haven't determined the relationship with him, he has someone else in his heart, this is normal, if the relationship between lovers has been determined, his psychology and others are not good, you are very troublesome with the person who is careful, or give up well, you can afford to put it down, the kind of person you like must still have.

Did you tell him? If you say it, he still doesn't accept you, then give up, go find another forest, there is always a tree that belongs to you, if he doesn't dislike you, then continue to chase, he has someone else in his heart, this is normal, you still have a chance, you have to work hard to chase, let him feel that you are good to him, maybe the person in his heart does not necessarily like him, you have been chasing him, the opportunity is still great, don't give up, maybe the person in his heart already has an object, this possibility is very big, if you boldly say it, even if you are rejected, it doesn't matter, You at least don't have the regrets of missing out, is that reasonable? You haven't determined the relationship with him, he has someone else in his heart, this is normal, if the relationship between lovers has been determined, his psychology and others are not good, you are very troublesome with the person who is careful, or give up well, you can afford to put it down, the kind of person you like must still have.

Yes, he doesn't like you, there are a lot of good boys in the world, why should you bother with him, break up.

I feel very tired to guess this, if I would choose you, a boy who boldly confessed to me, I don't like such a personal opinion, you should think about it and set yourself a place.

There is no explicit refusal, no direct expression, in a haze. Analysis: 1 may not like you, but he is afraid of hurting you, so he is politely declining 2 may like you, but people are more introverted or something, and they are embarrassed to say it directly.

3. The boy himself doesn't know whether he likes it or not, so he wants to keep a friend relationship with you, and the distance can be closer. 4. The boy himself wants to maintain an ambiguous relationship with you, and he is ambiguous rather than an object.

Conclusion and method: 1 First of all, you have to clarify your position, whether you like this boy or not, and secondly, you need to know the character of this boy, if you like him, and he is introverted, this requires you to take the initiative to be bold. An introverted boy will be in vain even if you give him more tips, except that he will be forced to a certain extent.

2. You speak more directly, maybe boys are not direct, you need to take a bend when you speak, don't go straight. For example, if you are not feeling well, your stomach hurts, and you don't care about you. Or go to the movies together, go shopping, etc., and only in actual contact can you see whether you like it or not.

He treats you as a good friend, at least for the moment he doesn't like you, or he doesn't realize he likes you. Life is so long, maybe the future is possible, but it's not a play at the moment.

If you want to know if he really likes you, then you can ask some other words in disguise, such as what kind of person you like, whether she is particularly good, what class she is in, if he is very perfunctory to answer you, then this boy will not like you, but if he answers very seriously, it means that you still have a chance. Then you need to work harder, ask your friend to ask him some questions, play games, and talk to him. However, those who like you will like you after all.

Some men don't speak very well and understand her in these conversations, maybe he likes you, maybe he is embarrassed to confess, but most boys are definitely not rejecting you when they say this kind of thing, but maybe he has something in his heart that he hasn't let go, he hasn't said, so he may not reject you, he has a knot in his heart, or he has a relationship that he hasn't let go.

Think about it too much, the boy doesn't feel for you at all, it's not interesting at all, don't force each other, you can see from your chat history that your age is below high school, and the general discussion of this kind of problem is young.

You're as cold as ice in his heart, forget it!

Just friends, forever urban friends.

He doesn't like you, so give up.

It's hard to say this, and we have to analyze the specific problems on a case-by-case basis.