Is it not love that there are fewer topics between couples?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-21
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, this depends on the situation, and if there is a situation, it means that you may have before. Time is getting tighter and tighter, and the work is bigger than yours, so the time will be a little busier, and then there will be fewer topics. That is to say, this is because of various environmental factors, not that they don't love anymore, but that it is a situation that may really mean that the other party may not care.

    I don't want to be together anymore, so I draw less, and I may face a breakup after a long time, so I think it's better to talk about it no matter how late and tired it is, and how stressful it is.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, there are two situations, the first is that he no longer likes you, because the communication and communication between you has become meaningless, because he no longer puts his mind on you, so this means that he no longer likes to be bland. Secondly, there is another situation, he regards you as his own relative, in fact, there are relatively few opportunities to communicate with his relatives.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This can't be said, it's just that you don't love it, two people have been together for a long time, and the relationship will slowly fade, and it is impossible to be so excited all your life, and they are so good in the eyes of each other, because you are used to being together, it has become a daily life, just like a husband and wife, it is a plain life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Less and less talk between couples means that the two are gradually moving away from each other! The relationship between couples is not as stable as the relationship between husband and wife for many years, and it is easy to have a sense of distance due to lack of communication, and eventually gradually evolve into the most familiar strangers!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not that you don't love each other, it's just that the freshness between the two parties has decreased, and the curiosity about each other has also decreased, as long as the hearts of the two of you are still close, then you love each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not that you don't love it, it's probably more familiar, so you don't know what to say, so you have to take the initiative at this time and tell each other what you think.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, it just so happens to show that the two of you are going from lovers to family.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as the other party wants to, there will always be a topic, as long as the other party doesn't want to, there has been no topic, look at the person, as if they were relatively unfamiliar with each other when they first met, and there was no topic at this time, but the other party had a heart, so they would always find a way, spend their thoughts, find the topic, and when you are familiar with it, it has been a long time, but there is no topic, then it means that you may be tired of each other, the relationship has become weaker, and you are too lazy to maintain, so the other party is silent and doesn't want to talk, So it gives you the feeling that there is slowly no topic to talk about.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's too familiar to stay together for too long, and it's comfortable not to chat for a long time.

    You don't need to chat all the time to get closer and maintain relationships.

    At first, I mostly relied on chatting, and I almost finished talking from a distance.

    People who are close to each other, except for daily life, can't talk about the times when they didn't know each other.

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  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, in fact, as long as you two want to chat, you have a topic, then my parents have been married for more than 20 years, almost 30 years, and they also have a topic to talk about. It's not that there is no topic, but the other party thinks you annoy him and doesn't want to talk to you. In other words, you also think that the topic of the other party is boring and has been heard many times?

    In fact, the object of life is that you can stand the endless nonsense he tells you. Because two people are together every day, how can there be so many new things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, it's just very familiar, even if there is no topic, it won't be embarrassing, and they are very tacit with each other, which is also what most couples will have.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's like a cup of tea, the first cup is very strong, and when you brew it more often, the color will become lighter and lighter. It's not that there is no topic, but after a long time, there is not much to say like the beginning of the relationship. Realistically speaking, whether it is a couple who have been together for a long time or a couple who have entered marriage, it is inevitable and normal to enter the stage of "no topic", after all, any relationship has a dull period.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is that possibility, but although there are few topics, they will become very tacit, and some will also have fewer topics because they are familiar with each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is not absolute, but it is a common problem. How many couples have endless words at the beginning, and they don't want to separate for a moment, but slowly they will become from nothing to nothing to say, as if the previous topics have been exhausted, there is nothing to say, and they don't even bother to talk back, which may be how many feelings and how many couples have lost to time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No, two lovers who are heart-to-heart and truly in love will have something to say regardless of the length of time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think it won't, that is to say, when the couples got together, the topic that could not be talked about for a day, after this topic was finished, another topic was said, that is, the news or anything that was seen every day could be talked about by two people together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, under normal circumstances, the more time passes, the more topics there are, and I really help you look forward to it

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That can only show that this couple is not true love, because a couple who truly love each other will never lack topics.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is inevitable that there will be fewer topics after a long time, but love will only increase.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The correct posture for love is: you have your world, I have mine. I take you into my world, you take me into your world. We share each other's worlds and build ours together.

    The premise of keeping it fresh is that your world is big enough and colorful enough.

    You've been together for a long time, but there's still no progress in that little circle.

    PS: It's best not to be in a relationship for more than two years, because if you don't get married again, it's time to break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Love will become family affection after a long time, and over time, the relationship will also be sublimated.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's normal, find a topic in life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Is there no topic for couples after a long time? No.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't think so, it's just that the freshness of two people has passed, and at this time, we need to create more space for each other, create some romantic surprises, and strengthen communication between each other, so that we can go further.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, two people are not suitable, two people are unwilling, and they are unwilling to pay for each other's changes, this kind of relationship will not last long.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's not like that, after two people have been together for a long time, they have become like relatives, they already know each other very well, and they don't need to communicate to know each other's thoughts very well.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think yes, there is something wrong with this state of getting along, which also shows that the two are not suitable for being together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In a relationship, if there is no topic between lovers, then they should know how to find a topic, because there will definitely be some contradictions between two people who have been together for a long time, and two people will definitely become unfamiliar with each other, that is, because they are too familiar and have no freshness, so that the relationship is dull, at this time we should know how to manage our own love, and only in this way can our love become long-lasting.

    If the two sides do not have a common topic, at this time we have to create some common topics, everyone has their own interests and hobbies, at this time we can cultivate our own interests according to each other's interests and hobbies, so that we have some common topics with each other.

    Don't play with your phone when you get home from work, sometimes we accompany each other, and it will make each other feel very warm, at this time we will have more topics, and the relationship between two people will become stable, so hobbies are very important.

    In today's society, people's pressure is very great, they are working overtime or overtime, and they are very tired when they get home, they want to rest early, so they ignore the other half, in fact, even if we are tired, we must know how to care for each other.

    Sometimes a simple care from you will make the other party excited for a long time, especially girls, what they need most is care, even if the boy is tired, he must also care for his girlfriend, so that your relationship will become very stable.

    It is a normal phenomenon that two people will have no common topic after getting along for a long time, at this time, we must not think about giving up this relationship, but thinking about how to do it, so that the relationship can become long-lasting.

    Sometimes we come home from work, watch a movie, go out for a romantic time, this will also make both parties become affectionate, if you don't do anything, let this situation continue to develop, then the relationship will definitely break down after that, so if you encounter problems, you must solve them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Many couples will become speechless after being together for a long time, because after a long time, two people who are familiar with each other can not be familiar, and some things are not said by the other party. But this situation must be noted, if it is allowed to develop, there may be contradictions between the two people, and we must find a way to alleviate it in order to continue to maintain the relationship. So how to change the situation where there is no topic of conversation between couples?

    1. Effective communication.

    If your mind is flexible, you will find the content of your circle of friends, and you can expand more content. In this way, there will be a lot of topics to talk about between couples. There are endless conversations every day.

    Second, the details of life.

    In fact, the daily necessities of clothing, food, housing and transportation are. These are things that have to happen every day. You can talk about what you think about these things.

    Some are in different places. In fact, it is very practical to exchange ideas through entertainment programs and TV dramas. Because of the collision of your minds, you will find that you can get to know each other better, and that's good.

    So the way to generate topics in life is also very good.

    3. Exchange of views.

    In fact, after being in love for a long time, sometimes I feel speechless. However, chicken soup for the soul is everywhere, and you can use it to talk about topics and make you fantasize about the days ahead, especially girls, who are sensitive, and sometimes girls are sensitive because of these contents, so that your topic can slowly come out.

    Of course, it is also possible to develop common hobbies, so that two people will have something to say. In fact, many times there is nothing to say, not that there is nothing to say, but you don't want to use your brain. If you're willing to talk to the other person, you'll come up with hundreds of thousands of ways, but it's normal if you don't want to talk, or if you're already dulled by that feeling.

    Therefore, couples have nothing to say, so they have to create a topic that will improve the problem.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If there is no topic between couples in a relationship, then find a topic, and if there is no language between couples, then do something else and care more about each other, such as making food for him, or buying him gifts, etc.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you have just started a relationship and have no topics, then you can find problems from yourself, pay more attention to some of your partner's interests and hobbies, and strive to have more topics to talk about with your other half...In this way, the relationship can slowly warm up and your relationship can be more intimate...

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If there is no topic, then two people do more things that they have not done before, so that they can maintain a sense of freshness, and two people can also have a common topic and play games together, which will also increase feelings and topics.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Do not worry. No matter how good the relationship is, if you have been together for a long time, there will be no topic, what couples need is companionship, you can share some daily interesting things with her, and slowly accompany her to go on.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You should look for topics, you can go out for a while for two people, so that after seeing the scenery outside, there will be a lot of common topics.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The topic is the content of the chat between the two of you, and when the two of you have no topic, you can talk about anything, such as the life and study of the two of you or some interesting things when you were a child, you can share them with each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's because you don't know enough. You may think that you have known him for a long time, how can you not understand it, but the understanding you refer to is not to share your own opinions with each other after experiencing things together, and you can get a very harmonious summary.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Then recall the topics you used to talk about when you were in love. Once you've found a topic, there's no end to what to talk about. The main thing is to evoke the memories of both parties, so that they both think that the other party is quite good, so as to ignore the shortcomings of the other party.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Hello, if there is no common topic between the two, you can watch a movie together, and after watching it, you can discuss the feelings of the two of you. Or talk about work and life.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Two people can hang out together and develop hobbies together, so that there will be some common topics that will make the lives of two people more fulfilling.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Two people can create topics, they can find common topics, and two people can find each other's strengths to chat, so that topics can be found.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If there is no topic of conversation between couples, you can try to find some small things in life to share with each other, and ask each other for their opinions.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It is necessary to communicate properly, to understand the state of the other party, and to change this situation slowly, otherwise it will make the two people drift apart.

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