Life is painful, and you have to think about everything you do

First of all, I would like to make a few points to you.

First, learn to look at yourself from a new perspective and with a correct attitude.

Instead of relying on someone else's point of view to ** your own now!

You say that life is not as good as everybody else, and I can boldly tell you that if I were to follow this conclusion with my friends every day, as you say, I think one thing is for sure, and that is that I can't live happier than I am now!

And secondly, computers can't be eaten -- have you ever seen that guy play with a computer and gnaw on computer plastic?

You have to learn a trick.

In October last year, a guy in Hunan created a world record that I don't know if it counts!

He left his family at the age of 18 and lived alone outside the private room of the Internet café where he has been living Judging from the screenshots, it has become his nest.

Why did you interview him because he amazingly relies on online games, and his average daily income is as high as nearly w!

Playing with the computer is not enough to support yourself!

But it's okay to rely on the web to make money!

But when he was interviewed and asked what he thought he would do if he had to start anew.

He didn't think much of it, he just told the man, "I want to go back in time and spend time with my parents." Ordinary life".

I don't know how you're doing right now.

In the 21st century now.

There are no people who have died of freezing in the past, and very few have starved to death, but in recent years.

People who are oppressed to death by the pressure of life, jumping off buildings, committing suicide, taking medicine, and are not murderous.

It seems to me that these reasons for them are not whole life oppression.

Because you don't know yourself well and less!

Find yourself, find the meaning of your life, live your own life, and life is at your feet.

Bless you! That's it!

Unfortunately, I just relied on online games to support my expenses for a year! That was last year, and you don't need to know how I did it. But I was opposed by my family and despised by the whole world, not only did I have no savings, but I was under a lot of pressure, and even if I had the ability, I couldn't change my fate, yes, I'm back to work now.

People have their own ambitions, it's useless to compare, and besides, nothing is taken for granted! The higher the expectation, the greater the suffering. Although I am still working, I myself ignore everyone's income.

Because I hate part-time jobs! No matter how much money you earn at work, I won't look down on you, I like money, but the hard life of those migrant workers is what I am most tired of.

Hot dumplings have chopsticks and you grab them with your hands, simple is simple.

But who has a sore hand who knows.

Use your brain to solve your troubles.

Can you do it if someone else uses their brains? Wouldn't it become a stepping stone for others, would you? It's not that you are scheming, but you need to adapt to society and the world.

If you don't use your brain, you'll do the wrong thing

Robots don't have brains, you say that's good.

Yes. Very complicated thoughts will disturb those who want to be optimistic.

Who doesn't want to, it's the real society now.

I think it's important to deal with people, and living in society is not about dealing with people everywhere? As the saying goes, it is a blessing to suffer losses, get along with people, and don't play tricks.

The most important thing is to deal with people, and things in society are not something you can do alone, you need to cooperate.

It is more important to deal with people, which is the foundation of survival.

The advantage of thinking more, thinking more, listening more, watching more, speaking carefully, and acting cautiously is to make yourself regret less. We must think about the consequences before doing something, and we must think about it from a distance, be cautious and cautious, so as to avoid harm to others and reduce our own regrets later. It is very important to use your brain when you speak and consider the consequences when you do things.

The two are directly proportional, the mind is smart, and they naturally understand the sophistication of human feelings. As the saying goes, old and calculating.

It's all very important, if you can't do things for others, others will say that you are uneducated, and if you can't have a good mind, they will say that you are stupid.

A flexible mind and a good way to do things are all important, and it is not good to do things without a mind

Mind and way of doing things are important, and they are indispensable.

A smart mind will naturally behave in the world, and a combination of both is the best.

Being a person is the foundation, and the mind is the condition that allows you to go far.

Being a human being is important. Your character is appreciated. It's going to be smooth. At the same time, the mind is not so tired.

Of course, no matter how big it is, it's the top priority. The importance of the mind can be seen.

In China, it is more important to deal with people, and China pays the most attention to relationships and unspoken rules, but it will not work when it is taken abroad, especially in the West.

To be a person is to be a brain, think about it, I suggest you read a book "The Scheming of Being a Man".

are all important, but a person's mind can be seen from how he behaves and behaves.

The mind is very smart, but it is not good to deal with people and things, it is not good, it is not to say that people with high emotional intelligence are often more promising than people with high knowledge quotient, and they can generally become big people!

These two do not conflict, your mind is good, and you will not be bad at dealing with people.

Depending on the situation, if you are a leader, you need a subordinate who can first be obedient and can do things, but if this is me, both are important.

These two are not contradictory. People who can generally be human will not have bad brains.

People with smart minds are better at dealing with people.

Because modern people are smart, it is impossible for them to be Boyi Shuqi, so they have to ask for the second.

The more knowledgeable people now, the more unable they can do it.

Zeng Guofan's family letter is very famous, and it means that he is very good at dealing with people.

Hu Xueyan is a businessman, very intelligent, and means to be flexible and thoughtful.

Zeng Guofan was born in a landlord family in the Qing Dynasty, although he was stupid since childhood, he was diligent and studious, and entered the school at the age of 6. At the age of 8, he could read Bagu Wen and recite the Five Classics, and at the age of 14, he could read the anthologies of "Zhou Li" and "Historical Records".

Hu Xueyan was poor when he was a child. In order to support his family, as the eldest son, he was recommended by relatives to enter the Qian Zhuang apprenticeship, starting from sweeping the floor, pouring urinals and other miscellaneous labor, after three years of teaching, he became a formal partner of the Qian Zhuang because of his diligence and steadfastness. It was during this period that Hu Xueyan relied on the help of Wang Youling, who knew the hardships and knew the troubles, and became a wealthy man in Hangzhou.

career success).

Your attitude determines my temperature.

1. It refers to being a person; Treat people and things.

2. Solve problems; Know your mind.

3. Don't lose face and be decent.

4. Be an honest and selfless person.

Overview 5: Grasp the proportions of things and don't mess around.

6. Fulfill your obligations and abide by the law.

7. Be able to respect the old and love the young, and make others happy.

8. Help others.

9. Work seriously and be a down-to-earth person.

10. Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

11. Great love is boundless, and goodness is like water.

Be a man: be a low-key person; To be a man, we must learn to be steady, not to be public, to pursue fame and fortune, and to let everything take its course.

How do you learn to be a human being? How to learn to make money?

You can exercise more to exercise your level of speaking and doing things, be strict with yourself, and first go through the steps and procedures in your mind before doing something, and then do it will be better and the efficiency will be improved, of course, seriousness is also essential. You say that doing things in an unorganized way may be related to your state of mind, you may be a little impetuous, try to calm down, take a deep breath and listen to the beautiful and soft light**, don't be affected by the fast pace of real life.

It's easy to do, teach you, find someone with a head and a brain to accompany you, nothing is a problem.

In fact, we should be straightforward and fast-talking, and we should try to change it slowly as much as possible.

Each of us did not come into this world by our own choice, and we have no right to choose our birth, and certainly not our death. God left this right to Himself. All we can do is choose how we live.

People have to face a lot of problems every day, from the most basic oil, salt, firewood, rice, birth, old age, sickness and death, to education, employment, and interpersonal relationships. Everything, even experts can only deal with one aspect of the problem, let alone us ordinary people? Learn to let go of your baggage and live an ordinary and happy life.

Don't think too much, the most important thing is to be happy every day, your depressed and troubled days are the same, and your happy and happy days are the same. Whether you are happy or not does not depend on life itself, but only in your mood. You are in a good mood, even if you are poor, you can live happily and happily.

Even if you have hundreds of millions of family fortunes, the first three and the last four are surrounded by bodyguards. Will you be happy? You have to be on guard all the time for your own life, will you be happy?

The bustling surface can't hide the fear inside. It's right to try to find the happy factor in your own life, and don't get old and compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.

If you compare your weaknesses to those of others, you will feel that you have failed. But if you often compare your strengths with the weaknesses of others, you will be able to find your self-confidence and live happily.

Whether people are happy or not in life does not depend on the amount of material, but on whether their mentality is in the right position.

Sometimes, to live is to wait for the unexpected happiness. For example, love, such as children, such as. In short, as long as you live, there is hope. There must be hope for people to live.

It's easy to die, it's hard to live, and it's even harder to live well and live wonderfully. But if it's difficult, won't it live? Go for it. Don't be pessimistic and change your destiny with your mind and hands. You have to go your own way.

The vast majority of human destiny is determined by God, and that is because you have no right to choose your birth, and your birth makes your destiny destined to be different. But there are also a small part of the decision made by the people themselves, that is, to change their own destiny through their own efforts. According to incomplete statistics:

2% completely changed their fate.

28% can change their destiny.

70% of people cannot change their fate.

The fate of man is predestined by seven points and three points by man. If you work hard and go in the right direction, with a little luck, you can change your destiny

Those who achieve great things are not informal, they must be ruthless in doing things, and they must be emotional.

Is this similar to deep-sea phobia?

People with such phobias often feel fear because they are afraid that they will not be able to escape from the situation they are in. People with phobias have a common characteristic, that is, the patient knows that his fear and anxiety are excessive, unnecessary and unreasonable, but he cannot control it, which affects his normal life and work, and has a sense of pain in his heart. Fear attacks are often accompanied by significant autonomic symptoms.