To be alive is to be miserable

Everyone has their own life rush

I can't find it. It's all about living!

Life is not long. It's gone in the blink of an eye.

Time waits for no one

Rather than frowning here.

It's better to go out and have a good time.

Anyway, sooner or later, it will return to the loess

Allow yourself to be conscious at the moment. Enjoy. It's worth it, too.

Don't put your spirit on another person, even if the other person is your child.

Because life is your own.

There are a lot of worries, think about whether there is a solution. Think about it, if it's really completely unsolvable. Does it really have to be so annoying? Is it okay to put it first, is it okay to just leave it alone.

What moves your life? What upsets you so much?

Life stress? Money? Demand? Family?

Give yourself an outlet and think from a new perspective.

Even if you are an adult, you can be willful and childish. Your sons are in college, and you can think a little bit about yourself together.

I want to disappear and find a place to die quietly! It's a pain to be alive!

If you don't worry too much about money, you can properly cultivate your hobbies, and if your children are beaten, you can't always live under your wings, isn't that also useless? It's also sister, don't you want to see it, find a few friends of the same age, travel, go shopping, don't think about those serious topics, be happy!

You have to remember that the world has to go on your own after all. This is the truth, although it is cruel.

People don't live with only pain. If you feel that the pain you are going through now is inevitable, perhaps you are hopeless in life, or you may be aware of the ugliness of human nature. But in this world, nothing exists independently, and the opposite of suffering is happiness.

Happiness is when pain is not present. Maybe you are an extreme pessimist, always anticipating the deterioration of things, and don't want illusory hopes, but, isn't this just right, there is no hope, broken jars and broken thoughts, no matter how bad things are, they can be so bad that they can be **, and the worst results are in your expectations. For this reason, we should also try to deal with this ugly reality.

I've always felt like a pessimistic activist, anticipating my tragic end all the time, so I have to work harder and be more positive, otherwise it will be even worse. But if you try, it will always be more or less effective. Finally, I would like to share a quote that I like very much, there are many things in the world that are unbearable.

You can complain about why God wants to bring so much suffering to this world, or you can fight for the elimination of all kinds of suffering, and you can be proud of it, but if you think one more step and you will fall into a deep confusion: If there is no suffering in the world, can the world still exist? If there is no dullness, what is the glory of wit?

If there is no ugliness, how can beauty maintain its destiny? If there is no bad and lowly, how will the good and the noble define themselves and how will they become virtues? Without disability, does the able-bodied become tedious and boring because of the commonplace?

I often dream of eradicating disability in the world, but I can believe that the disease will take the place of the disabled to bear the same suffering. If all diseases can be eradicated, then the suffering will be borne by (say) the ugly ones. Even if we can get rid of all the ugliness, even the ignorance and the meanness, and all the things and actions that we don't like, and all of us are equally healthy, beautiful, intelligent, and noble, what will happen?

I'm afraid that the repertoire of the world will come to an end, and a world that has lost its difference will be a stagnant water, a desert without feeling and without fertility. - Shi Tiesheng, "Me and the Altar of Earth".

In this world, some things are unreasonable, and we can only accept those unchangeable facts, such as the heavy rain outside the window now, such as the sudden natural and man-made disasters. Disasters and sufferings are not only unreasonable, but they also do not directly give us meaning and understanding of life. That is, you don't want to accept this sad fact, it's impossible, you want it to promise you meaning and sublimation, it's impossible.

Pain is pain and it has no meaning in itself.

Where does the meaning of life come from? It comes from our thinking and dealing with suffering, and the life that contains it. Pain can change our objective facts, but the way we deal with it is up to us to decide.

As we strive to find a way to live with suffering, when we trudge through the difficult and rugged road of life, every step we take, every perseverance, every thought we make, is shaping us. The so-called meaning of life is actually the answer to the question of "how to live to be worthy". And we must live in a down-to-earth manner and carefully experience the joys, sorrows, and sorrows in our hearts, so that we can gradually understand the answer that belongs to us.

Like Shi Tiesheng, he spent many years thinking about pain, and in the process of learning to live with pain, he found the direction to realize the value of life, and then he spent the rest of his life to realize it. Therefore, the meaning of life is not a fixed thing, it is over when you get it, it is a state that requires us to constantly use our own life practice to complete and achieve it.