When you meet your first love after many years, will you choose to renew your relationship?

It is a kind of fate to be able to meet, know each other, and love each other, even if you break up hastily in the end, this relationship is also a lucky encounter. Many years later, when I met my first love again, I gently stepped forward to say hello and asked, "How are you doing?" I think that's enough.

There is no need to continue the front edge, because time flies, and the relationship cannot return to the original appearance. In that case, why force it?

First love is everyone's most youthful and beautiful feeling, and it is also the first heartbeat for many people. That feeling is a fawn bumping, it is a star, it is at a loss, and we are even more ignorant and immature when we first meet love. But as if it was cursed, it is difficult for first love to last long, and it is difficult to go to the end.

Many times, we choose to break up for a variety of reasons and end up hastily. But that doesn't mean that this relationship should be buried, and I think this initial throbbing deserves to be kept in the bottom of my heart, because it's pure, because it's only once in a lifetime. <>

But even though it is invaluable, we should not be bound by it. When this relationship is fruitless, we should face it rationally and calmly deal with the possibility of the future. After all, the end is the end, we should not live in the past, we should not be able to indulge in memories and be unable to extricate ourselves, but should encourage ourselves to come out and re-deal with the relationship and emotions with the other party.

Once so intimate that after a breakup, we became the most familiar strangers, and at first this cruel fact will make it difficult for us to accept it all at once, and it will be difficult to get rid of the attachment to the other person. However, since you have said that you have broken up, then you should be decisive, and completely letting go is the best explanation for yourself and the other party. <>

Therefore, when you let go of the relationship and choose to move forward again, you have said goodbye to the past. Now that they have said goodbye, even if they meet again, there is no need to continue the relationship. Because although they are reunited by the same person, their feelings for each other are no longer the same.

Time will dilute many things, and it is very likely that when we meet again, we will no longer have the same feeling as before. And after saying that after the breakup, both parties have experienced something and don't understand each other, in this case, it is difficult for us to guarantee that the person in front of us is still the person we fell in love with.

In addition, there are no longer so many common topics between each other, there are no longer so many intersections, and unconsciously there has been a gap between the two, and this gap is difficult to break, if it is not broken, it is difficult to get along with each other. What's the point of talking about the feelings that don't have a heart-to-heart relationship? Now that it's history, let it be mothballed, it's the best way for each other.

Even if you meet again, you should choose not to disturb each other, because this is the last tenderness to each other.

So, if one day I meet him again on a street corner, I don't think I will choose to continue the relationship. Because, as early as when they said they were breaking up, the fate between each other had been cut off by themselves, and many years later, things were wrong, the original relationship had already deteriorated, and now life has long been different. Instead of clinging to the feelings of the past, why not let go of the past and move forward calmly, I believe that there will be the most suitable one waiting for him in the future.

No, because I don't love my first love anymore. Love is something that can really disappear. At first, I thought that once a person's relationship with another person is established, it will not change.

But apparently I didn't have much life experience at that time. It wasn't until later that I realized the disappearance of love.

At the beginning, it was also the death and life of love, I felt that the other party was really my own prince charming, he made me proud of everything, as long as he cared about me a little, I was also very happy. But after all, I didn't know what true love was at that time, and I didn't know how to express my love correctly, so I was sad for a long time when I broke up, and I kept the other party in my contact list. It's just that love is more ignorant, and naturally with the passage of time, the not very deep love is slowly worn out.

Now even when I think of him, I think he's a good boy, it's just that the two of us are not suitable. But I have never regretted anything, because I really loved him, and he scolded me when we broke up, so I clearly understood that this relationship was his cherishing of me that led to the breakup. I don't need to feel sorry at all, but he, after losing me, is still single.

I'm also glad that I didn't get into a marriage with him, because he doesn't have a house or a car, just relying on a job in a private company, if I keep arguing and suspicion with him in the future life, then the only love that makes me feel happy will disappear, and in the end I will be left with a hard life and difficult days. I've always felt lucky that I didn't marry love, but real life. If I see my first love again, I just politely greet him and wish him a better life.

Things are different now.

Now the first love was at the age of marriage, when your first love was in the school stage, the mood and attitude of your parents must be completely different, try to understand the mood of being a parent! Don't be overly nostalgic about the past, after all, you haven't touched them yet, you haven't learned them deeply. You can't just jump to conclusions based on your initial impression and think that other people's parents don't get along well.

Usually in this case, when you meet your first love again, you know that you still have feelings for her, so do you know if the other party still has feelings for you? This is the key question.

If each other is interested and the relationship is still there, then talk about how to deal with the relationship with both parents, as a man, you must have the courage to pursue love, and you must also have the wisdom and patience to solve difficulties and troubles, after all, you are in love with a girl and not with her parents, I think this is a more appropriate step!

If I can really meet my first love, I will choose to continue my relationship after many years. Bring incomplete love to a good end. Instead of rushing back then, watching him sad, and leaving him.

Introduction: As a parent, you should educate your children not to have a puppy love situation during school, and at the same time, the machine is your own career. Because in elementary school, junior high school, and high school, these are all opportunities for you to work hard and study.

But if you choose to fall in love at the age of study, after all, you don't have a stable job in your later life, so this relationship is not long enough. Therefore, you need to do what you need to do at the right age, and if you have someone you like, you also need a crush, and you can't directly establish a relationship. CauseAfter all, now you can give him a better life, if you meet the first love you once had a crush again after going around in the future, then are you still willing to renew your relationship with him?

Here are the following observations, I hope to help you solve the problem.

According to your own heart, everyone should not forget the original intention at any time, because after all, what you think in your heart, only you know that others cannot guess. If you still have feelings for your first love, then you can calm down and think about whether there is still a possibility of development. If the other party thinks the same way, then it is better, but at this time, you need to have the ability to take care of others, so that the other party can have a better future.

After all, asking parents is a young person, so if you don't know how to deal with emotions, you can consult your parents' advice. to further determine whether the first love of the relationship needs to express the heart, because young ignorance is often not enough. After facing many problems in life, the mind will gradually mature.

Ask a friend for help, I believe that everyone will have some close friends in life, if you want to share your own emotional experience, then this friend should also be a tree hole to listen. If you meet your first love and want to continue to develop, then you can also choose the final way to deal with it by consulting your friends.

After going around and around, I met my first love again, so I won't continue my relationship. Because two people are separated because they are not suitable, although there is beauty, it is not better to be together.

I wouldn't want to renew my relationship with him, because I don't think two people have any feelings for each other anymore and can't be together.

After going around and around, after meeting your first love again, are you still willing to renew your relationship with him? I don't think I'm willing to go around and around because I've met a new relationship again, and my first love is nothing.

After going around and around, he still met with the previous him, if the two people still have feelings for each other and are willing to continue, then they will be together.

When I meet my first love again, I shouldn't have the intention of continuing the front edge, after all, people I haven't seen for a long time, the circle is different, and I don't know how much of the original relationship I have, and I've known it for a long time.

No, because after many years, the two of them have experienced a lot of things, and their mentality has changed a lot from before. So it's not necessarily a good fit.

Because after all, now you can give him a better life, if you meet the first love you once had a crush again after going around in the future, are you still willing to renew your relationship with him? I will.

First find out why you broke up in the first place, and whether you didn't find anyone after the breakup, then it proves that you have a deep relationship and are still waiting for each other, if this is the case, then it is worth considering.

I don't want to renew my relationship with him, because the two of us have missed a long time, and their personalities may have changed, so there is no need to be together.

Affection is a very wonderful fate. After separating from his first love, he went round and round. I met my first love again.

There is nothing willing or unwilling. It depends on whether the relationship between the two people is just right. At that point, it will naturally continue to be the front.

If you don't have this feeling, you won't have any intersection even if you meet many times.

I think if two people still have feelings, and they still have the original feelings, I think it's okay, because first love is the hardest.

If both parties are unmarried and unmarried, you can consider it. If one of them is already married or has a crush, then don't interfere with their lives.

If you can still meet your first love after going around and around, then it depends on the situation of the two people at that time, if you are still single, then you can continue the front edge.

After going around and around, I met my first love again, and I was still willing to renew my relationship with it.

When it comes to first love, whether a man imitates Liang Xi or a woman, his face will be filled with a happy smile. That smile is a little shy, but also a little green. When someone asks about your first love, you always tell the story.

The scene when you met for the first time, the nervousness of holding hands for the first time, the feeling of kissing for the first time. There are too many first-time memories for Brother Bei, as if there are endless words and stories to tell.

The beginning of every first love is a beautiful accident. The ending of every first love will always be similar to several copies.

Maybe sooner or later, someone will marry your first love. Maybe your first love will marry someone else one day. Time flies, time is like a song, when you meet again, what kind of scene will it be?

Maybe we haven't seen each other for many years, things have long been different, we have all changed, and everything can never go back.

Maybe I haven't seen you for many years, but I still love you like that, and this love has not diminished over time, but has become more profound.

Maybe we haven't seen each other for years, but we all got married, had children, and had our own families. The original encounter can only be the best memory of each other.

So, what kind of unforgettable first love do you have when you are reading this? If you meet your first love after many years, will you renew your relationship? What kind of choice will you make, and what will be the reason for your choice?

Debate café new ways to play, looking forward to your participation.

This question is a very tricky question, a question of confusion about having nothing to do, or a question of distraction. Because time has passed, no one has a chance to reconcile with their first love again. If the person who answers this question is exposed, the current marital status will be exposed.

For people who are happily married, they should not be good with their first love, but if they are unhappy in their marriage, they should be good with their first love. If the current marriage is very happy, and then you want to reconcile with your first love, it is a strange incident of irresponsibility for men, a manifestation of crossing the river and demolishing bridges, and ingratitude.

Because of the helplessness to find a lover, the marriage is very failed, how eager to have another chance to reconcile with the first love. Unless they divorce at about the same time, or both parties have been living single for about the same time, then I think it will not only be good to have a first love, but also get married, no matter how old you are, as long as both parties agree to be husband and wife. But is there such a coincidence?

It is difficult for one party to be together if they are not single. Therefore, first love is a memory that is difficult for a person to forget, but it is very sad to not be together. Today, if I meet that person again on the corner of the street, I can smile indifferently, or I can sit together and have a cup of coffee and talk about the current situation like an old friend.

The beauty and bravery of first love is the best memory of life, and I would rather keep him in a corner of my heart forever.

Regarding first love, I think many people haven't been in touch for years. First love is the purest and purest love, just like your childhood, it will never come back. But if you really give a chance once, this look reminds people of the classic dialogue of Journey to the West, at that time, Xing Ye was not so lucky to keep Zhu Yin, just like we couldn't keep our first love.

With the passage of time, we will more or less put a lot of labels on the first love, causing the first love to become too perfect, once read a story about a homeless man who prayed to God to have a chance to learn from childhood anew, and then God gave him this opportunity. But when he saw his friends playing together, the attraction still made him unable to control himself after all, and he was still a homeless man for decades.

In fact, let it pass in the past, after all, I don't have a good fate, it's better to really love someone than to let a person go free, everything is the best arrangement of God. There's always someone who will teach you something that you need to grow up with, and you have to experience it, so if I go back to that school evening, I'm still going to say, yes, I like you.