He said he got engaged to me in May 2011 and now feels like I m leaving, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Calm down first and think about your feelings for him. What are you with him for, and even have the idea of getting married. But you are so unsure of your feelings for him that you have the idea of listening to your parents.

    I wonder if your parents know about him? Or you don't want to be with a divorced man.

    Thinking about his feelings for you in reverse, from many small details can make you understand this man, the key is whether you want to or not.

    I think you're looking forward to marrying him. Future husband, if you don't believe him, then who do you believe? Trust is the foundation of feelings, hold on to the present, and when you lose it, it will not be the feeling you feel now. You've already confirmed that your suspicions are true, so why continue?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This friend, who is also a woman, I understand your feelings. Now, I want to ask you a question, do you love him? Are you hesitant to do anything?

    Also, are you sure he loves you. He will live with you for the rest of his life. Marriage is a lifelong thing, although in today's society, divorce is as simple as breaking up, but we should still take her seriously.

    If all of your answers are no, then you should consider whether this person is the person you want to live with. Women, you still have to be realistic.

    My suggestion is that you find a time with him to sit down and talk about it as soon as possible to see if he has a plan for your future. If you are not satisfied with the conversation, you can consider the person in the family who has given you a good crush, after all, the family knows something about him. Then you meet with him, if it is suitable, you can develop and see, if it is not suitable, you don't have to go.

    You have nothing to lose. I wish you happiness soon!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't let him feel that you are a girl who comes and goes when you call him, even if you really like him, you have to love with dignity, otherwise you will follow him in everything, and he still has no sense of security, but he is completely sure that he will divide and say that he will be harmonious, don't let him take advantage of this advantage! Otherwise, you will have to spend it in anxiety all the time, you must be someone who can accommodate the other person in everything once you like it, remember that you can love each other, but you can't wronged your own heart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's very likely that you've been experiencing this kind of emotion**.

    What kind of occasions have you been in a public relationship?

    If it's just his circle of friends, it's equivalent to not making it public, because they are all raccoon dogs.

    Only by bringing you to his parents and relatives can it be considered public.

    Breaking up just because of pressure is completely lip service, and it's likely that he got a new girlfriend during that time and doesn't want you to spoil his good deeds. It's likely that you haven't chased the girl or you're tired of playing again.

    Engagement is not the same as marriage, marriage can also be divorced. Besides, he is a person who has been divorced, and you can understand what kind of reason he divorced. I even doubt that he was actually married.

    In short, when you meet such a man, you need to pay more attention to your feelings at the same time.

    Maybe it's a bit pessimistic, but I still wish you to find the right person for you.

    Bless you, girl......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He's a friend of your ex-boyfriend, so if you get married, will he still be good friends with your ex-boyfriend? If he has an interest in your ex-boyfriend, will he give up his interest in your ex-boyfriend for your sake? Does he abandon his friends for the sake of his fame or for the sake of his friends?

    What would you have done if you were in his place? Your future development depends on your current choices, so think carefully! Don't embarrass yourself, let alone others.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no real so-called love in this world Love is all fantasy You must know that a monotonous life does not make two people come together forever Maybe you accept that he is also deceiving yourself If you are happy, then deceive yourself for a lifetime There are many ifs This requires you to choose one by yourself The path pointed out by others does not mean that it is suitable for you What you need is just your own choice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Whichever one of your photos will talk about it, see which one is good for you, observe which one will not change your mind, and talk about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Talk to him carefully and say what is in your heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Probably he just thinks you're good, you can be everywhere, but how much love there is, maybe only a little. I think you can communicate with him for a while, and then see if you can give him a chance to observe him, and if you think that you can go on through observation, then you can cultivate a good relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He doesn't care about you at all, love is actually very simple, eat together, watch a movie together, take a walk together, if you don't even send text messages, it's better than 10086 customer service.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, you can buy an electric Dajiba and play it yourself.

    What are you looking for him? Waiting for him to break the appointment?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you're familiar with it, let's just say it, it's not good if you have nothing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tell her. Then you can find out.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe she admires you so much that she will go out with you, and there is another possibility, that is, she is just very lonely and wants to find someone to relax... Either way, she should feel good about you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It only shows that this girl loves to play....

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do you like her? If you like it, chase it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Take advantage and don't want to be responsible, if you want to be responsible, you will never ignore you for a few days in a row, this kind of person doesn't have any illusions.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Singing love songs and shedding tears.

    Singing: Qi Long.

    You say you love me and say I have a lot of good qualities.

    I didn't feel if you really said me.

    There are a lot of handsome guys around you, and I'm really hard to figure out.

    I love you, and I love you really, really not at all sure.

    Flowers bloom and fall in the blink of an eye love you for more than a year.

    I didn't see if you were true to me.

    Say love me, love me, spoil me, but if you leave me.

    When I'm lonely, I'm left singing love songs alone.

    I sing love songs and cry when I miss you.

    My sweetheart, can you relate to it?

    Looking at others, I and I are pairs and pairs.

    Why do I love you so embarrassed.

    I sing love songs and cry when I miss you.

    My sweetheart, when can you bring me with you?

    Spring goes to autumn, and I watch the taste of loneliness day and night.

    I love so tired, I think you think you're very haggard.

    Rap: You said you gave me love and made me wait.

    I'm there for you, but you're not there for me.

    Lonely thinks of me, happy to find a handsome guy.

    I'm helpless to fill your space.

    I miss you with tears and singing love songs.

    Love you really, really, really unsure.

    The taste of loneliness I'm tired.

    Think you're really, really, really emaciated.

    You say you love me and say I have a lot of good qualities.

    I didn't feel if you really said me.

    There are a lot of handsome guys around you, and I'm really hard to figure out.

    I love you, and I love you really, really not at all sure.

    Flowers bloom and fall in the blink of an eye love you for more than a year.

    I didn't see if you were true to me.

    Say love me, love me, spoil me, but if you leave me.

    When I'm lonely, I'm left singing love songs alone.

    I sing love songs and cry when I miss you.

    My sweetheart, can you relate to it?

    Looking at others, I and I are pairs and pairs.

    Why do I love you so embarrassed.

    I sing love songs and cry when I miss you.

    My sweetheart, when can you bring me with you?

    Spring goes to autumn, and I watch the taste of loneliness day and night.

    I love so tired, I think you think you're very haggard.

    Singing love songs and shedding tears when I miss you.

    My sweetheart, can you relate to it?

    Looking at others, I and I are pairs and pairs.

    Why do I love you so embarrassed.

    I sing love songs and cry when I miss you.

    My sweetheart, when can you bring me with you?

    Spring goes to autumn, and I watch the taste of loneliness day and night.

    I love so tired, I think you think you're very haggard.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You first ask yourself in your heart if you really like her, if yes, don't give up, if not, then leave early, don't hurt each other, beg.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I want to eat you, but I don't dare to eat it blatantly, if I don't eat you, he is unwilling, this heart, like a cat scratching, uncomfortable! He wants you to take the initiative to send it to the door, so that he not only maintains his image of responsibility as a married man, but also eats you as a lover, hey, a sigh.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    He treats you as a chicken rib, without meat, and it is a pity to abandon it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Give up liking him, no matter what the result is, it's always you who has a bad reputation. Anyway, it's not good for girls. You're at a disadvantage. I think if I had given up.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Tell you! Come here when you need it!! There is no need for you to stay away.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It shows that he loves his wife and family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He had concerns, standing on the edge of a cliff, not knowing whether to jump or not.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He has his own home, of course, and he has concerns.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's just that I'm struggling in my heart.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It may be that they are not interested in you or want to get away with it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He has a thief's heart, but he doesn't have the guts to be a thief, forget it, don't make trouble for yourself.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    People have families to take care of, or don't look for a married man, nothing good will come of it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I want you to take the initiative to alleviate his own guilt.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then you don't always stick to him, what should you do, there is no need to quarrel with him, it affects your mood,

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Definitely not regretted, I analyze the following blind god possibility.

    1: Maybe he is really busy or stressed, you can try to understand his life and work, but don't interfere, long live understanding!

    2: You're asking too much for him to get bored.

    3: He doesn't love you at all! In other words, the engagement and the marriage are just a kind of completion of the task...

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