No one is lonely, and no one likes to be truly lonely

Being is lonely, don't be afraid of being alone, this is the pure enlightenment that life gives us, it doesn't carry any meaning. If you mend the relationship with yourself, learn tolerance, and know how to respect each other's freedom, there is not much difference between two people and one person, and one person can live better than two people. If you believe it, it will be a little better, and understand that the biggest knot in the heart of a self-sufficient person is to only see the fault of others and identify himself as a victim, but the unfortunate poor person cannot see through, the victim is often self-harming, using the existence of others to harm himself, crankily thinking about the relationship is ruined, I don't know what to do.

Can you take love seriously? Let go of yourself a little bit and love yourself a little more? A person who loves himself does not allow himself to live in the shadow of self-pity and hurt is a sign of cowardice.

It is necessary to distinguish the difference between love and harm. This is true for loved ones, for lovers, and even more so for self. When you are still you and I am still me, you know how to respect and love each other, and we walk together for a period of care, which is the gift of fate, and it is too late to thank you.

When there is no fear of loneliness, there is no need to divide one person and two people, women and men, tenderness and violence, loyalty and betrayal, love and hate. The human energy is such that when you internalize the feelings and emotions that have gone bad and let yourself bear and bear it alone, sooner or later you will break down. Theoretically, people are bound to be lonely, and no one can live for you, but emotionally, if you can't find a point to rely on, you will easily collapse if you are helpless.

When the energy is exhausted, the strongest man in the world will fall. When we are tired, our energy falls to the bottom, our emotions are traumatic, we encourage negative imagination, and everything suddenly becomes gray and meaningless. You have to remind yourself:

This feeling is just an inertial circulatory circuit of cranial nerves that tend to negative reactions, not a reflection of life, don't identify with it. When the energy declines, don't hold on to it, people are lonely animals, but don't be attached to loneliness. Find an emotional point to rely on, such as a lover, such as a pet, such as yourself, like God, put it in your heart, love him, and then smile at yourself and say thank you.

Don't care if this reliance point is real, people are people, and you have to rely on a stronger emotional pillar than yourself to live [Cangzhitao's] Don't mind relying on it, you don't need to save face or anything, people are originally group animals, and there is no reason and need to be lonely and persistent. Grasp a point of reliance that allows you to be centered, calm yourself, and then surpass yourself, if you can improve, you can experience the meaning of life!

Eun, everyone is alone.

Written on the front: This article was written on the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival last year. Because he wanted to repay his debts, he was forced to go to the capital Beijing to seek development in order to pay off his debts.

On the night of the Mid-Autumn Festival, I was walking alone on a street in the capital, and I opened my mobile phone and saw that in the family group, we posted that everyone went out to play together during the day, had a picnic on the ground, and went to eat hot pot that night, so happy. Seeing this scene, I felt envious, and I couldn't wait to fly back to my hometown thousands of miles away and have a drink with my family.

The following is the main part of last year's text:

I don't know how many people in this world will have a sense of loneliness, maybe 500 million, maybe 10 billion, maybe even 70 billion, everyone will have their own sense of loneliness. Who would really like to be lonely, just forced, just helpless, just don't want to be disappointed.

I know that there are many young people working hard in big cities, and everyone has to endure this loneliness. Therefore, many people will take advantage of the holiday, or a chance opportunity, to go to the small town in the south of the Yangtze River or other beautiful places, so that they can revel in it, unable to extricate themselves, which can keep them away from the usual administrative hustle and bustle, personnel noise, fame and fortune, and deceit. Unfortunately, they have to return to that noisy place after all.

People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is cloudy and sunny. For the first time in 25 years, when I was forced to come to this place that didn't belong to me, I felt truly lonely for the first time in 25 years, when I was forced to come to this place that didn't belong to me, and to shuttle alone in this bustling and bustling metropolis. The misfortunes of life left my family of three scattered in three different places, separated by a few different days.

When I saw the ** and little ** that my relatives posted in the crowd at home yesterday, I couldn't wait to fly back immediately. But when I think of my father who is far away in Xinjiang and my mother who is alone at home, I only have indescribable sadness and helplessness. I was standing alone in a dark corner, but there was light here.

This light is the support of family, the encouragement of friends, one's own unwillingness, and hope for the future.

Loneliness is like an invisible pair of hands that can lift you up to the sky or push you into the abyss. In everyone's life, there is always a period of time that belongs to you, God isolates you from the outside world, arranges for you to have a dialogue with your soul, this is a difficult process, this is also the essence of life. That's why we need to relate to each other in order to gain understanding.

But true understanding is impossible, those who often strive to seek the understanding of others end up in vain, rather than reluctantly through interacting with others to eliminate loneliness and resolve helplessness, it is better to retreat and accept this loneliness and helplessness, and learn to conquer it yourself.

No one really likes to be alone.

Li Yu doesn't like: go up to the west building alone without a word, the moon is like a hook, and the lonely Wutong deep courtyard locks Qingqiu.

Xu Zhimo didn't like it: only by climbing to the top of the mountain can you see the scenery over there.

Shakespeare didn't like that people who had not been hurt would laugh at the wounds of others.

so,try to conquer it~