What the hell is going on with friends and what to do

I think so, if friends are divided into 10 grades.

Then you see him as the ninth, but in fact he just treats you as an ordinary friend, at most the seventh.

So you will feel that you are not rewarded for your efforts, and he will also think that you are a little clingy or too annoying.

Actually, I know a man who, on the contrary to you, was very good to me and had chased me before. Then I didn't react, so I gave up. He said I was a good friend of his, and I just treated him as a friend, so he was depressed sometimes!

He was nice to me, and I felt uncomfortable instead.

So! In fact, sometimes you don't want to catch it, you can tell him directly on QQ that you don't want to fall in love with him, but want to be friends.

He chased you before, so do you know why he didn't chase you later? Did he find your shortcomings that made him unacceptable? Or does he think that too close between men and women is not the relationship he wants?

You can go and ask him, directly. Because you have no guilt in your heart.

In addition, if a girl often goes to play with a man and will gossip, what will his friends think of him? Will his self-esteem or something hurt?

In fact, many things cannot be solved by wishful thinking.

I hope you can be friends.

He's afraid to like you!

You should tell him what you think, and not let the gap between you be. Just tell him that you want to be friends with him, the kind of iron buddy! I'm a boy, and I have a girl buddy who has a boyfriend now, but she also gets along very well!

Be a sincere person and make friends sincerely!

There are two possibilities1He's appreciative again, 2He's hearing something about you.

3.Playing with the desire to catch and indulge, in fact, the man is like this, you try to ignore him first, the more you ignore him, the more arrogant he becomes, you ignore him, he comes to you, I have ten years of experience in this, I have been chasing him for ten years, and he is like this.

Could it be that he started to do the same thing you thought at first, and felt that you were interesting to him, so he deliberately avoided you?

Think about what he said to you: If someone from your class comes to me for something, someone of the opposite sex who comes to me from another class will misunderstand. Why would he say "the opposite sex"?

Friends definitely don't care about the opposite sex or not. I used to have a tablemate who was poor at studying, because I was in the top 5 in our class, so he always asked me questions or something, and then I heard people say that he liked me. I hated him then.

But then he started to hate me, and I realized that it wasn't like that, and I treated him like I used to, and I was still at the same table with him, and we were as good as before.

In fact, to deal with this situation, as long as you don't think so much about it, let him feel that you are good friends, and naturally it won't be like this

A student is a student, a girl is a piece of jade, and after finding a boyfriend and breaking up, this is not jade, but a tool. I'm saying something extreme, and I hope you understand, but it's true.

If he consults with you on study, he is naturally a good student, but if he uses the reason for studying to fall in love with you, what is he trying to do?

If you want to fall in love, now is not the time, knowing that you won't be my answer, and you will definitely find a boyfriend. So, you just broke this piece of jade like this.

Friendship is friendship, love is love, why do you have to be in love during the study period, it seems that you have not been in love before, naturally, don't talk about it now, when you grow up, there are more opportunities, and at that time, it is called love. Now it's called nothing to look for.

Life is like chess: if you are not careful, you will lose the whole game. I am also a college student, I hope you female students will learn self-esteem and self-love, your fate is in your own hands, only you can save yourself, others can't help you, don't joke about your youth.

Learning is our top priority, career success is our primary goal, and striving for the goal is the wisest thing to do.

Little sister, don't be angry, tell you that there is no friendship between men and women, unless it is an underground friendship! ·

And the vast majority can only be confidants? Understand, resolutely, stop when you stop! ~

It should be left to chance! Because at this point there is nothing we can do to keep it!

Classmates Go your own way, let the S Bs say go.

Firmly believe that you will make friends who know you, true confidants.

The relationship between yourself and your friends should be intimate. But in the process of socializing with friends, some of my friends will compare themselves with themselves without any scruples, or belittle themselves from time to time. This behavior of a friend will hurt you and you need to deal with it properly.

Specifically, when you encounter a friend who compares with you and deliberately belittles yourself, you can take three situations: understanding and tolerating and laughing at it, seeing the essence of the other party and keeping a distance from the other party, and carefully choosing a real friend to break up with someone who is not suitable for being a friend.

1. For the ridicule between friends, you should understand and tolerate it, and laugh it off.

Friends are very close to each other, so they will be more casual in their speech and behavior when interacting with each other, and sometimes some words from friends will cause some harm to themselves. ...Old imitation....For this situation, you should understand and tolerate it, choose to treat it generously, and laugh it off. In this way, we can maintain a good relationship between friends, so that the friendship between Hui Hanji can be maintained.

2. You should see the essence of your friends and keep an appropriate distance from ordinary friends.

Everyone has friends, and these friends will have a different relationship with themselves. ......For those close friends, you should carefully maintain the relationship with each other, and for those ordinary friends, you should maintain an appropriate way of interacting with them. ......Those who compare or belittle themselves in their speech are often ordinary friends who have an average relationship, and you should pay attention to keeping an appropriate distance from them.

3. You should carefully choose real friends, and you should cut off friends with people who are not suitable to be friends.

Some of our friends have been friends for a long time, but as their relationship develops, at some point, they are no longer suitable to be friends. ......At this time, the relationship between yourself and the former friend will become very poor, and the other party may compare yourself or deliberately belittle you. At this time, you should learn to choose your true friends correctly, and for those who are not suitable to be your friends, you should immediately break off their friendships, so that you can find true friends and get real friendships, so that you can really benefit yourself.

1. Keep in touch.

Don't lose touch between good friends because of the passage of time. In addition to long conversations, you should also greet each other with text messages, postcards, and emails from time to time. This is how friends fit into our lives in ordinary ways.

When they are trying to understand our lives, you should look for opportunities to share the joy and emotion of life with them. Yes, some of our friends have been out of touch for years, but we can continue our friendship with them. During this time, they and their partners can look for opportunities to enhance the friendships they missed in those years.

2. Equality and respect.

What is felt between good friends is equality and respect. When a friendship develops well, friends become closer. They share each other's experiences, listen to each other, and be honest.

Even if they find out that the other person is smarter than themselves, they will not feel inferior. Because they don't share their insights with a sense of superiority, no one distinguishes between high and low friends. True friends are those who walk side by side.

First of all, it should be clear that the purpose of comfort is to make friends feel comfortable, not to solve problems with one sentence. Therefore, it is recommended to try the following ways to comfort your friends:

1.Say hello: By expressing care and concern, you can make a friend feel comforted that someone cares about them.

2.Attention: Listening attentively to what your friends are talking about is more important than talking, and feeling that someone is there gives them a sense of security and strength.

3.Objective analysis: By objectively analyzing the problem, we give reasonable solutions to help friends see more openly and solve problems.

4.Praise: Although adversity is inevitable, it is okay to think positively together and see things from the other side, so that friends can have the ability to take charge of their own lives.

5.Send blessings or expectations: Be confident in any situation, give blessings to your friends, express your expectations for your friends, and let your friends be full of hope and move forward bravely.

It can be seen that you are a person who is very eager for friendship and likes to help others.

Friendship needs to be treated with sincerity.

But actually in the process of getting along with friends.

We will have a lot of difficulties.

The main thing is the misunderstanding of rock reform.

Because you misunderstand your friend's actions or words.

So it creates a lot of communication barriers.

This in turn affects the friendship with the other party.

What we need to do is to communicate with our friends more often.

Care for and help each other.

When a friend is in trouble and needs help and he is able to help, he can try his best to help without caring about the gains and losses.

When a friend inadvertently hurts himself for some reason.

Put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about it.

This way, you will be able to feel more closely what the other person is feeling.

Slowly, you will become more generous and more likely to think about the difficulties of others.

When a friend is frustrated.

Pay attention to the care of the person to be in a good measure.

Don't let your friends feel stressed.

When I am proud of myself.

Try to keep a low profile.

I think that's all I have to do.

Your popularity will definitely get better.

The big diggers won't bother you.

Anything will be the first thing that comes to your mind.

Because they all know that you are a person who is willing to help them solve their problems.

I was able to get along with friends happily, too.

Love is the testimony of love can be sublimated into love, emotion is what each of us has, mutual understanding and trust in each other is the guarantee for us to build a relationship. We should know how to cherish hard-won feelings. Grasp the present, cherish the future, understand so that we can avoid too many unnecessary troubles, and can help us when we encounter difficulties.