How can you teach a lesson to someone who is self centered and feels super good about themselves?

Don't bother thinking about the whole person, it won't lead to anything, she won't change because of it, but you will seem to be unmeasured because of it. Although you said that you had put up with her in every way, you were still careful about her behavior. Tolerance is not forbearance, it is a kind of full tolerance, being able to think about the relationship between you from her point of view.

A person of bad character will not be trusted, so why should you care about her slander of you? That kind of person is the real weak, why don't you take the posture of a strong person to sympathize with and help him? It's not the answer you're looking for, but I don't think you'll be happy because the other person has been taught a lesson.

Life is inseparable from competition, but competition is not the same as the whole person. Her wealth comes from her parents, and your wealth comes from her hard work. The Buddha said, "There is nothing in the heart, where is the dust." "Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes, forget about it.

Self-centered, to put it bluntly, is a selfish person. A person who feels good about himself, that is, who is proud and arrogant, when the two are combined, the person's shortcomings are exposed. And these people often don't really treat her friends because he is more selfish.

No one wants to be with selfish people, and those who are arrogant and self-righteous often have no friends, perhaps they think they don't need friends. These people may keep going, and their original style may change due to social pressure.

This classmate he studied very hard, when he was in junior high school, he learned every day at 12 o'clock with a desk lamp, but his character is not very good, full of swearing, scolding at every turn, I remember once the class evaluated three good students, the teacher came in and asked without asking the certificate to him, but at that time it was not surprising that all the students in the class objected, thinking that the three good students are not necessarily good at studying, and then the first place was very embarrassing to put the certificate on the podium, angry down, he should have been able to be admitted to the university, But I don't know why he didn't get in. And the score on the test was even lower than mine. Maybe this is the retribution of pride, arrogance, and selfishness.

I have a colleague who is too self-centered, feels that he is amazing, he can't be turned around without the company, he is selfish, he has never thought about the company, and he doesn't know how to respect others.

He started as a workshop squad leader, responsible for managing the work of employees, as well as writing reports, and his salary is based on the employee's salary to get a coefficient, that is to say, the employee's piecework salary is high, his salary is high.

He thought that he was the leader of the company, everything was up to him, and the unit price of some pieces was too high, which exceeded the cost of the company, and he deliberately concealed it and did not mention it, and the output of employees that day was not so much, and he falsely wrote the quantity, so that he could get more paid when he paid his salary at the end of the month.

He never thought about it from the perspective of the company's interests, he did everything for his own selfish interests, and then I audited the report and found the problem of unit price, and raised it to his supervisor, and the supervisor called the technical staff to test, and the result was that the original unit price was two-thirds higher than the original one-third.

Deliberately concealing the mistake will not be investigated, the supervisor and he discussed with him how to set the unit price, but he put on a leader's posture and said: "Then this unit price", self-centered people are like this, people discuss with him, he thinks that he has the final say.

The supervisor said: "This unit price is too high, it is more suitable", but he was furious and said: "It's too low, I can't make money, so I can't get a salary of 5,000 yuan a month, what else can I do."

He thinks he's the boss, and everyone has to listen to what he says? is also selfish, only thinking about the interests of him and his employees, but not thinking about the cost for the company, he also feels that the company can not operate without him?

The supervisor said: "We have all been tested, although you are the squad leader, I am the supervisor, your superior, looking for you to give advice, not to ask you to give orders, you have to correct your position."

Bang, he slapped the table, didn't ask for leave, and went home.

Later, he was demoted from a squad leader to a workshop employee, and his popularity was not good, and everyone didn't like him.