Tell me what it s like to live alone.

Probably because a person has been single for a long time, he can't help but enjoy his life, go shopping alone, buy whatever he wants for himself, watch movies alone, no one will care even if he cries to the point that he has no image, travel alone without burden and burden, go to **see if you want to**see, listen to the rain alone on a rainy day, read a book when it rains, blow the air conditioner alone on a sunny day, eat watermelon, and build snow alone on a snowy day.

Chongming Island's semi-agricultural life is already in its second year. When you are alone on the island, you live a comfortable life. Sleep until you wake up naturally every day, and occasionally wake up early to see the morning glow.

The first thing to do when you open the curtain is to stare at the small garden outside the window to see which flower is blooming today. Afternoons are mostly spent studying, reading, taking notes, drawing garden and farm plans, or watching BBC gardening shows to recharge your batteries. If you know how imperfect you are when you garden, and that's the learning process, then you don't have to be perfect every time, just try every time.

I like this sentence very much, and life is like that, isn't it?

It's very lonely and lonely, but also very free and easy, and a variety of flavors are blended. It is difficult to decide whether to end celibacy and let another person into life, or into someone else's life, or even into a lively group and forget about oneself.

I survived the spring, summer, autumn and winter alone, survived the long-distance relationship and ended being single, eating, sleeping, watching movies and playing games alone. Now I realize that I didn't need anyone else, and I was fine on my own.

I still remember when I was in junior high school, my father sent me to study in a county town dozens of miles away from my hometown for the first time. There was no more superfluous words, and that afternoon I buried my head deep in my desk, and my tears were dripping down like raindrops. A child who had never traveled far from home to study, or a child who had never left his family, met with tears and the first solitude in his life on that sleepy afternoon.

In the three years since then, when my father came to see me again, it was already time for me to take the high school entrance examination. I didn't blame anyone, but it was only later that I gradually understood when I was alone countless times, and it turned out that a person is lonely, and a person is also growing. In this way, I finished junior high school alone, then went to high school alone, then went to the provincial capital to finish college, and finally graduated and came to Shenzhen alone.

I didn't feel any loneliness or anxiety when I came alone these years, because I knew that this was how a person grows and perceives the world.

More than two years ago, he and I were still a little couple that everyone envied. I don't think there's anything that can't be solved by communication, and he has a good temper. Until after the breakup, every time I forgot to bring my key and stood outside the door like a fool, I would flash in front of my eyes the way he walked towards me with the key and smiling.

When we first broke up, I felt that my life was suddenly a lot empty, and I was alone all weekend. Later, I got used to it. There are a lot of hobbies that I didn't have time to cultivate before.

For example, baking, cooking. I used to think it was troublesome to cook, but then in order to save money and be healthy, I forced myself to learn. I didn't expect that I really had some talent.

Do whatever you want, eat whatever you want, and do whatever you want. A person has lost about 16 pounds in two months, and after eating some ** food and exercising, no one forces you to let you eat hungry for you, and you can lose it with good self-control.

I waited at the bus stop for five cars and couldn't get in. When you don't know where to go when you're on vacation, you don't know who to dial when you pick up your phone, you sit alone in a snack street where couples gather and eat a bowl of hot and sour noodles, and every day after work, you will see couples in school uniforms talking and laughing, this feeling is terrible.

Twenty years of singleness, I feel very good, I don't feel anything awkward. It's nice to have a house, money, and friends