Do you raise children and expect them to provide for you in old age?

Definitely not, we can only have one child in Shanghai in the 80s, if there is no accident, we have enough money to support ourselves.

I provide for my parents, but I don't want to be a burden to my children! Do your best to buy social security, so that you can live with dignity! I try not to bother anyone! The son has his own troubles that belong to his time! It can also be regarded as reducing the pressure for my son!

There is no requirement, but it is difficult to ensure that when you lose control of your mind when you are old, you will be old enough to become like a child, and you will strongly ask your child to provide for your old age.

If you think about it, you are afraid that it will be unreliable, and we are also the children of other people, and how many parents have we taken care of, so we must be self-aware.

Raising children, we have never thought of letting them support their old age, when we have the ability, we create a platform for them to give them a better starting point, and they will never have to eat enough as in the past. In the next ten or twenty years, our children's generation will have heavier burdens and greater responsibilities, and many families are only children, and they have to take care of four elderly people together, which is really hard and stressful. Therefore, we can solve it ourselves without burdening our children.

Why do we want our children to support the elderly, it is an obligation to have children, we have a hard life, why have we morally kidnapped children to support the elderly, so that children can live independently and happily for a lifetime.

It is said that the best state of life is not to burden your parents when you are young, and not to burden your children when you are old. This is also my goal, I have not increased the burden on my parents since I became an adult, and I dare not guarantee it mentally, because my parents have to worry about their daughters, and I can't control them as children, and I definitely don't burden my parents financially; Now that I have a child of my own, I try not to increase the burden on my child in the future. Although it is a bit early to worry about the future pension, it is always better to be prepared for everything.

Wouldn't it be great if the child's life would not be affected, and he could live as he wanted in his old age.

I think we should take care of our children in old age. Chinese often say that raising children is to prevent old age. Parents raise their children until they are in their twenties, how much money and hard work they pay, when the parents are old, can the children not provide for them?

Emotionally speaking, it is our parents who give us life, they are also the first teachers of our life, they are not only the number of more money per year but the unspeakable hard work for our growth, learning, you are not only the number of money every year but the unspeakable effort, your life is good, your parents are happy, your life is not satisfactory, parents are also anxious, always try their best to make up for your small days, when they are old, do you think you should not provide for them? It was your parents who taught you to be a 'human'. Please don't make them regretful.

Judging from the current situation of raising children, most of our monthly expenses are on our children, and we also have to repay various loans, so we have very few resources to honor our parents. On the other hand, when we get old, how many resources do our children give us? Is it enough for our daily needs?

Therefore, I don't expect to retire, but it's good to be well.

I didn't think about having children to support my old age, not because I was confident that I could support myself, nor because I didn't want to, but because I was afraid of becoming a burden to my children, and I was afraid that my children would not be able to support me in the future.

In fact, the purpose of raising our children is not to ask them to raise us in old age. When a child comes to us, it is not only the crystallization of the love of two people who love each other, but also a kind of fate between the child and his parents. Naturally, we raise our children not to ask them to support us in old age, but the existence of a kind of family affection in the world where blood is thicker than water, because people will be attached to their children when they are old, that is, they will be attached to a kind of emotional desire for family affection, just like children are attached to their parents when they are young, very simple, and have nothing to do with anything else.

I don't expect that. Nowadays, we are receiving all kinds of pollution all the time, and when we get old, will we get all kinds of diseases? If we rely on our children to provide for the elderly, they may be able to afford our food, clothing, housing and transportation, but what about the high medical expenses?

It feels like a heavy burden on them.

Our parents didn't leave us anything, but they gave us life and taught us simplicity, and what we can do for our children is to create a good environment for them to develop their abilities and live happily in the future.

It is said that raising children to prevent old age, in fact, it is the thinking of the older generation, our previous generation, originally born as farmers, the conditions are not good, my mother said, as long as you can support the baby in the family in that era, you are lucky. At that time, at home, the son was very energetic and able to work, and when he gave birth to a daughter, he would marry when he grew up, and eventually he was someone else's family, so every family hoped to have a male baby, which could increase the labor force in the family, and he would marry a daughter-in-law in the future and provide for his own retirement.

I don't need my children to provide for me, so I won't ask for them. The reason why I don't ask my children to provide for me is because: when I am old, I will pay more attention to my body, strengthen exercise, eat reasonably, and make myself less sick.

As long as I can move, I will support myself and will not let my children take care of my daily life. ‍‍

Under normal circumstances, parents with children must count on their children to support their old age, and if there are fewer children and they are busy, the other one who does not have children will <>

You can go to a nursing home for the elderly, which is better.

It's better not to, if you pin your trust on others, your later life will seem very passive.

Lay a good foundation for financial freedom while you are young, save enough money, prepare the pension principal, or learn financial management skills, and use this principal to earn income to live.

Now the pension system is still relatively perfect, and others are not as good as their own. First, you must have your own pension, and second, if you do not have a pension, you must have your own savings.

As a parent, the first thing I want to say is that children don't gnaw at the old, don't "borrow" money to buy a house and a car to give a bride price, not to mention how good their parents' life is in their old age! Children, can they take care of themselves?

Plan ahead. Buy enough personal pension.

The superficial meaning of this sentence is: for those who expect their children to provide for the elderly, they should be soberly aware of the changes and trends in modern society, as well as the children's ability and sense of responsibility, and do not have too high expectations. The suggestion for this sentence could be:

1.Adjust your mentality and realize that you need to rely on yourself instead of relying on your children for the elderly; 2.Strengthen your own pension celebrations, such as exercising, saving pensions, planning finances, etc.; 3.

If your child has the ability and willingness to help with their retirement, you should be grateful and respectful of their decision, while also ensuring that they have the capacity and resources to take on this responsibility. In conclusion, the advice of this sentence is to remind people to face the reality and be well prepared and plan for the future pension problems.

Having a child really has little to do with providing for the elderly, after you are old, can you really let your children support the elderly? How long can it be raised? In fact, you can't support the old.

So what's the point of having a baby?

The first is to pass on the lineage! What should I do if you pass on this bloodline? That's it, having children.

Giving birth to a child is a major task in life. You have a child, which means that you have completed a major task in life, which is a very difficult and honorable task. Maybe the child will become a pillar of the country in the future!

And then there is family affection for having a child! You can also enjoy the joy of family! It is also a colorful embodiment of one's own life.

Those who did not have children regret it very much. Of course, having too many children is definitely not good, two children are just right. Now the state encourages the birth of three children. This is from a national point of view, and having a second child should be the best choice.

Having a baby can make you more motivated. Earn more money, study more, choose a good career, and then let your children enjoy a happy life.

Therefore, having children is not just for the sake of providing for the elderly. Having a baby means a lot.

Raising children is not necessarily to prevent old age, raising children to prevent old age is just training. My adopted child did not report that he must be old-aged, raising a child is just a scenery in the journey of life, this scenery is created by you with your heart, watered with love, this is a march to care for the growth of life. It is an indispensable part of life.

If you don't raise children, you will never be able to experience the joy of growing in life, your life will shine brightly because of them, and your life will be enriched because of them. There is no other joy in giving birth to children. Those women and men who do not have children, no matter how chic and beautiful they live, cannot fill the shortcomings in their life journey.

Liu Xiaoqing is very beautiful, the sixtieth year makes herself very "tender", Yang Liping lives a very fairy life, a little non-sticky to the fireworks in the world, they live a very high-quality life, but they will never be short, they will never feel the happiness of their children around their knees, they will never taste the taste of their mothers, they are all incomplete women.

Raising children is not only to prevent old age, but also to respect life, love life, and dedication to the world. People who are not barren are extremely selfish people who love only themselves.

Think about it, when a person is old, with a glass of water handed by his children, or accompanied by a wordless, the old body and soul are also abundant, stable, and peaceful. An old man without children, sick lying on a high-end bed, in a luxurious house, without relatives, his heart is empty, his soul is lonely, and he is pitiful to think about.

Therefore, it is beautiful to respect life and life, and let life continue to grow.

Of course not, children will be happy in your life, and in times of difficulty, everyone can also help each other, in short, the benefits of raising children are still many.

Raising children is the crystallization of the love of two people, and raising children is to keep one generation instead of providing for the elderly.

I didn't think about providing for the elderly, raising children is to leave a mountain for the future and continue life.

This issue should not only be about providing for the elderly, but also shouldering the responsibility of inheriting the national civilization, prospering, defending the country, building the country, and contributing to the prosperity of mankind.

Not only for the elderly, but also for the successors.

I saw such an interview some time ago, do you think raising children is to provide for yourself?

Fifty percent of people think that raising children is to provide for the elderly, after all, the phrase raising children to prevent old age has been passed down for thousands of years.

More than half of the interviews believe that raising a child is not for the sake of providing for the elderly, so what is the use of raising him?

There are also some people who believe that raising children is not to provide for themselves in the future, and that children are independent individuals and should not be accessories of anyone.

Some people even say that if they suffer from an incurable disease in the future, they will never ask their children to give everything they have to treat themselves, and that is a matter of both people and money.

As for whether raising children is for the sake of providing for the elderly, it all depends on the attitude of parents or children.

For example, my parents, they are typical of raising children to rely on in the future, of course I don't blame them, I do it for granted.

It's just that I don't understand some of their behaviors, so there have been many contradictions.

They always asked me not to go too far to work, they were afraid that if I left, they would have nothing to rely on, and always wanted me to find a job in the small county town of my hometown and take care of them by the way.

However, there are no jobs to earn a living in the county, wages are low, and prices are frighteningly high.

I believe that many young people have heard this sentence, when you are old, you don't expect you to raise this sentence, this sentence is not unfamiliar to many people, in fact, for parents, unconsciously can say this kind of thing, the harm to children is really very great. Because there are many hidden meanings in this sentence, there may be denials for the baby, and it will also make the child different. Therefore, parents must not say this, and do not analyze the problem of children, the key is that there are many language management skills that are relatively developed.

Sometimes it is not the child's fault that the child does something wrong, and the parent may inadvertently say this sentence that the child is particularly negative, very pessimistic, and even lacks self-confidence in himself. No matter what you do, even if you don't give your child hope. But parents should not say such sensitive words, and even let their children be cranky.

I am an adult myself, and if the other party says such things, I believe that I am also very sad.

If you often instill this kind of education in your child, it will lead to the child's lack of responsibility, and it will also have a very bad impact on the child's personality. After all, when you are old, you don't want your children to raise them, and it may be that for children, parents don't need themselves at all. It will not be recognized for itself, which will lead to the child's rebellion, and sometimes some adverse effects will become obvious.

In general, when parents educate their children, they must encourage their children and motivate their children more in order to arouse their children's self-confidence in life. If the child should be guided correctly when he does something wrong, do not use words to hit the child, and also listen to the child's true heart, and communicate more with each other, so as not to be estranged. When you get along with your child, you should be a friend, so that you can achieve the best parent-child communication, and it can also help your child change a lot of bad habits.