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It's still too late, don't care about other people's eyes. Since you don't have a license, it's the best. While there is nothing tied up now.
Of course, make sure that you don't love him, and if he doesn't love you either. If you don't have the same personality, don't force it together, it's very painful to have children in the future. Happiness belongs to yourself, don't force yourself for the eyes of others, you are still young, and everything is too late.
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The fault is the lack of communication!
In the past four months of marriage, I think you haven't experienced the happiness of being married, let alone thinking that marriage means commitment and responsibility to the other party. It is likely that all the negative things that have accumulated have come to this point. If you do something positive during this period.
Let's make amends:
1. Communicate with your lover about each other's feelings and discuss the direction of development;
2. After that, make an active communication with the parents of both sides, listen to their opinions, and the analysis they do for you.
3. Think about your future before making a decision.
I believe you won't be so scattered.
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Nike can be the wisest person, there is no mud feet deep in, this point requires courage, I I worship you, I don't have this courage, (I suffer the same as you), I believe that time will erase these unpleasantness, after all, we are still young, there is still a long way to go, raise your head, go down bravely, support you 1
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Believe in your own choice, and it's not someone else who lives with you, as long as there is affection between the two, don't care about other people's opinions!
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If it's not suitable, you will definitely have to separate, and it will only bring more pain to each other, and I believe that everything will be okay, and there will definitely be someone who will make you believe that there is really happiness.
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There will be! Be worthy of yourself.
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You're not wrong, and neither is she. But you are not suitable to be husband and wife, only to be friends.
There are five problems between you that cannot be bridged.
1. The concept of love is different, you think that there can be no physical contact in love, but she thinks it can. Although you will recognize her value in the future, you will always feel that you have suffered a loss with her, and this imbalance will become an obstacle between you.
2. The concept of love is different, you ask each other to share and never abandon each other, pure and noble love is the goal you pursue, you have emotional cleanliness, and the person who hopes to enter into marriage with you is the person you love and have no flaws. If she thinks it's suitable, she'll be together, and if it's not suitable, she'll separate, and there's no need to kidnap anyone with love and marriage morality. Physiological needs can be satisfied, regardless of conduct and morality, love is free, life is also free, even if married, two people are independent individuals, and they cannot lose their freedom because of love.
3. There is a big difference in the definition of value capital, she doesn't think that divorce is her own flaw, and she doesn't feel that it is her shame to have an affair with many people, life is to experience, if you don't experience anything in your life, it is a regret, and you will feel that this is an excuse for self-indulgence, you think that she is just satisfying her own selfish desires, and she doesn't take love and purity seriously at all.
4. There will be a conflict between your contradictions and her openness, you are not a pure and spotless person, and you will be open-mouthed when you drink too much, this is a distorted reaction caused by the inconsistency between the inside and the outside, and the inner needs are suppressed by social values and cannot be satisfied, but she is very shameful about your behavior, and will think that this is a dirty manifestation of irresponsibility.
5. You don't know why you like her, but she understands that you are not suitable for her. The reason why you like her is because she is free and easy, straightforward, sincere and brave is what you don't have, she fully compensates for your shortcomings, she does everything you dare to think about and dare not do, she disdains the losses you can't let go, and her cranky thoughts are sincere, she seems to be hypocritical.
So it's better for you to be friends, you can think about her all the time in your mind, but don't marry home, it's not that feeling when you marry home, she won't marry you, marrying you is the same as putting yourself in the oven.
You're all good, just not suitable, I know you can't let her go in your life, but the difference between you and her is too great, it's better not to force it.
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Hello.,After reading your description, I feel that the male protagonist should be a person with low emotional intelligence.。
If you like this girl, in fact, whether he has been divorced or talked about a few relationships, it is already in the past, mainly to see whether the other party's character and personality match you.
Don't waste the opportunity There will be regrets and regrets in the future, if you don't know what to do, you can send me a private message to teach you how to improve your emotional intelligence, I hope my answer will help you Thank you
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Since you don't know what to do, let your heart be the biggest driver!
If you think she's worth your effort, it's worth it! A woman who has been hurt may not have a good reputation, but if you love her, everything can be forgiven, think about your feelings, since you love her, you must respect her, and you can't forcibly interfere with her!
It is not easy to meet people who have a feeling, and cherish it!
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The definition of value capital is very different, she doesn't feel that divorce is her own flaw, and she doesn't feel that it is her shame to have an affair with many people, life is to experience, if you don't experience anything in your life, it is a regret, and you will feel that this is an excuse for self-indulgence, you think that she is just satisfying her own selfish desires, and she does not take love and purity seriously at all.
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You actually mind that she is too casual in that regard, and you follow more than one boy. There are hurdles in your psyche, although you sometimes have contradictions and really want to love her, but if you can't get over that hurdle, you'd better not think about being with her, you can't afford it.
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If you like a boy, you will be jealous, but if a girl treats you as a rival, it means. Girls may be jealous if they like a boy, but if a girl treats you as a rival, it means that she is afraid that you will snatch him. Girls may be jealous if they like a boy, but if a girl treats you as a rival, it means that she is afraid that you will snatch her.
The person that the boyfriend likes, this is often people who are jealous and will not let their competitors snatch things away, under normal circumstances, they are the first to start, and then show their advantages and charm, and become friends with him, slowly.
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You should like yourself more, otherwise you won't be angry with her again and again for hurting her, buying something for her to eat should be sent over to have sincerity, let the family take it themselves, do you think you are giving her, she must thank you? also said that people disappointed you, but she is not your anyone. You can live by yourself and let her go.
Besides, how can you understand if you don't get along.
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I can't see how much wrong it is, wave my hand, and don't take away a cloud.
It's good to keep a regular friend.
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You have a habit of cleanliness, and such a woman is not for you. Don't blame yourself too much, two people have no fate, it's better for you to be separated.
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You didn't say what the other party said, how can others give it to you, yours depends entirely on whether your relationship is close, if the relationship is okay, it depends on whether you want to or not, you can be tactful if you don't want to, if it's not good, then just refuse.
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If you don't understand each other, you must take the initiative to communicate with each other, to communicate, to take the initiative to understand each other, and to take the initiative to enter each other's hearts.
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If you think she is not a serious woman, then don't bother her anymore, after all, the two people have different outlooks on life, and there will be no good ending in the future.
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I think it's better to end this situation as soon as possible, and comparing the disagreements between the two sides will not lead to good results.
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If you can accept it, you will be together, and if you can't accept it, let it go, don't get entangled and make everyone sad.
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Just have fun. I don't even have to think about it. This kind of thing, do you have the strength to change her?
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According to your description, just let the situation take its course!
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It's just playing, and generally this kind of woman is unreliable.
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Follow your heart and leave no regrets.
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Relationships are beautiful, but not perfect, not every relationship can go to the end, and it is not that if you love someone, you will definitely be able to be with each other.
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Leaving is the best relief.
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The choice is right or wrong, what others say can only be a series of opinions or suggestions from a subjective point of view, that is to say, right or wrong must be seen according to your own situation. First of all, measure the importance of this matter to yourself, what your heart wants, everything has two sides, there is no such thing as the best of both worlds. If you have an optimistic attitude about one thing, you should also prepare for the worst in your heart and follow your heart, so is there anything about right and wrong? Come on!
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Summary. Good morning, dear! If a person knows that they are wrong, communicate with the other person and admit that they have made a mistake.
Of course, there are many ways to try, as long as you make the right person feel that you are truly aware of your mistake, you will not make this mistake again in the future, not only will there be no conflict, but it will also enhance the relationship between each other. In fact, the same is true between friends, as long as you are honest with each other, you can become good friends. If a person knows that they are wrong, communicate with the other person and admit that they have made a mistake.
Of course, there are many ways to try, as long as you make the right person feel that you are truly aware of your mistake, you will not make this mistake again in the future, not only will there be no conflict, but it will also enhance the relationship between each other. In fact, the same is true between friends, as long as you are honest with each other, you can become good friends. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks!
I know it's wrong.
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Good morning, dear! If a person knows that they are wrong, communicate with the other person and admit that they have made a mistake. Of course, there are many ways to try, as long as you make the right person feel that you are truly aware of your mistake, you will not make this mistake again in the future, not only will there be no conflict, but it will also enhance the relationship between each other.
In fact, the same is true between friends, as long as you are honest with each other, you can become good friends. If a person knows that they are wrong, communicate with the other person and admit that they have made a mistake. Of course, there are many ways to try, as long as you make the right person feel that you are truly aware of your mistake, you will not make this mistake again in the future, not only will there be no conflict, but it will also enhance the relationship between each other.
In fact, the same is true between friends, as long as you are honest with each other, you can become good friends. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks!
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Summary. Sometimes we make mistakes because we lack the necessary knowledge or judgment, which is not necessarily our fault, but we should take responsibility for our actions and try to learn from our mistakes to avoid the same mistakes happening again. Always be humble and learn, and keep exploring, reflecting, and growing, so that you can better face life's challenges.
It's my fault, but I don't know I'm wrong, it's my own fault, I really don't know what's wrong?
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
Sometimes we make mistakes because we lack the necessary knowledge or the ability to disrupt slips, which is not necessarily our fault, but we should take responsibility for our actions and try to learn from our mistakes to avoid the same mistakes from happening again. Always be humble and learn, and keep exploring, reflecting, and growing, so that you can better face the challenges of imitation in life.
It must be Japanese, I don't know.
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