Why does a person love hard get nothing but sadness

Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed A philosopher once said: "Life itself is a blank canvas, whatever you paint on it; You can paint suffering, you can paint perfect happiness.

In fact, suffering is not an inevitable result, and happiness is not unattainable, it all depends on what attitude you use to paint your life and work. Don't regard work as an annoying matter outside life, but integrate work into our lives and into our hearts, then we will naturally be willing to pay, and we will feel the necessities of life with the most enthusiastic heart. Oh.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Many times, what we think is earth-shattering love is nothing more than a joke in the eyes of others.

Remember this and never love someone who doesn't love you. People who don't love you, no matter how much you sacrifice for them, they will only move their hearts of pity at most, and they may be a little sorry, but they can't make love, so it's not fair. Maybe love is an unreasonable game, and the person who is loved can always control the power of life and death of love, even if it is arrogant to lawlessness, it is also tolerated and spoiled.

In this world, if you don't love you, they will love you, and if you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, it's destined to be just a pain and hurt for you... If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander around the door anymore, or hit your head and never wake up, learn to give up, and then turn around and look for a skylight that is open for you, where you can also see the stars in the sky...

I think this view is wrong. Loving someone too hard ends up hurting yourself. No one wants to be hurt, but why would you love that person too hard?

Have you ever thought about the reason, since you are too hard, it proves that this person may not love you at all, since you are faced with a person who does not love you at all, you already know that the result will be hurt, but you still have to love hard. So, it's not the other party's fault.

There is also a situation where two people are lovers, you love him far more than he loves you, and you find that you can't do anything about this situation, you can only increase your own investment and dedication, and delusionally want to make the other party change their minds through their own investment and dedication, so that the other party will also pay the same equivalent love to you. However, the other party is different from what you think, he is not willing to pay, he just wants to enjoy your pay. Over time, your mood will only slowly become unbalanced.

Once the balance is lost, the relationship between two people will be in jeopardy.

In love, if you don't want to be hurt, you will never be able to fall in love, and you will never meet true love. The so-called true love is not achieved overnight, it is created by experiencing countless failed moments, and it can only be maintained by discovering the art and true meaning of love through running in with various people. Therefore, if you don't understand the way of love, just remember to influence it with sincerity, and you will encounter a hurt love if you can't keep it.

So I suggest that since you are in love, you should enjoy the beauty of the current relationship, and don't care about the result. It is inevitable to care about the result, which is nothing more than the essence of worrying about the sky.

Using something that hasn't happened to affect yourself is a thankless act. Not only is it a waste of energy, but it is becoming more and more painful. Therefore, I do not recommend that you spend too much energy to invest in love, love does not have a guarantee period, and love is easy to deteriorate, only if you clearly understand this, you will be better able to protect yourself.

9 points to love, one point to love yourself. In your emotional life, you have to learn to protect yourself and become more independent in order to be happy.

I think you should understand the situation first, otherwise you must be the one who gets hurt in the end.

If you love someone too hard, it will make the other person feel pressure.

Qin Hailu said: "When love comes, it's the same as death", you can't control yourself, if you don't want to get hurt, then don't love.

In my opinion, if you love someone too hard, they will definitely hurt if they fail you. So spend two points to go, and love others to spend eight points to love yourself.