Can you accidentally hurt your crush? How did you feel after the injury?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Can you accidentally hurt your crush? How did you feel after the injury?

    Upstairs I read it wrong, it seems to be "your crush".

    I don't have that skill!

    I will only hurt the person who has a crush on me, not the person I have a crush!!

    So maybe the person you have a crush on is also crushing on you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The world is really annoying.

    My boyfriend and I are in an online relationship.

    And there are three boys around me who like me.

    And they signaled to me at different times.

    I'm annoyed. I really do it as their friend.

    But they always said they liked me.

    One of them even said.

    He just wants to be with me.

    Just want to see me every day.

    Whatever I go**.

    And he followed. And they won't interfere with my freedom.

    He just wanted to see me.

    Ay. I don't even know what to do.

    But what would my boyfriend think?

    I finally looked forward to me going to my boyfriend's side.

    There was one behind him.

    Hehe. The really good way to do that is to tell them.

    You can't do it.

    Hopefully he'll understand sooner.

    Of course, speak appropriately.

    It's too humble to say.

    The other person will think you're joking.

    It's too harsh.

    The other party will feel that it hurts their self-esteem.

    There's a degree to that.

    It's up to you to take care of it.

    Good luck in the end.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I used to have this experience when we were both young.

    I must have regretted it afterwards, and I wanted to hit the wall.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I will not have the face to see her, and I will feel very uncomfortable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you don't like the person you have a crush on, hurt her as soon as possible, if you like it, you can't bear to hurt her, and if you hurt her unintentionally, she will forgive you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you still have feelings for him, then he shouldn't have a crush on you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She likes you, what do you hurt her for?

    If it's something you can't do, don't think too much about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I can't stand the height up there.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why does a crush hurt, isn't it supposed to be beautiful? The reason why a crush is a crush is because he secretly likes each other, but the other party doesn't know that he is silently thinking about him and liking him in his heart. But I don't want to pierce that piece of paper, I don't dare to tell him that I like it, and it's beautiful to keep that good past, which is also beautiful.

    Thinking about how simple I was at that time, I didn't know what liking was, and I naively thought that this was also a liking. It's obvious that he is singing a one-man show, and the male protagonist in this scene is him, but in fact, he himself doesn't know, and after a while, he gradually knows that it is a secret love. I'm also very grateful to that boy, it was he who made my monotonous life a little more memorable, and I am quite grateful to myself, I didn't impulsively say I liked it, just let that beauty take root in the past time.

    Crush doesn't hurt, it's just that in your opinion, you didn't end up with the person you have a crush on, so you feel that this crush hurts. How so, are you hurt in this crush? Crush is a one-man show, the protagonist is himself and the person who doesn't know that he is the protagonist, in this scene, there is no audience, and there is no need for an audience, it is enough to have myself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't know what I saw in **, "A crush is a long lovelorn." When I saw this sentence, I was filled with emotion. Everyone has had the experience of secretly having a crush on someone, but how did it end?

    I don't know. Some people say that crushes are beautiful; It is also said that it is very sad to have a crush on one every time; In fact, in my opinion, whether you are happy or not depends on your own attitude.

    In the case of a person who does not know, you will secretly pay attention to him, want to know what he likes and dislikes, you will want to know everything about him, but at this time you don't know that you are in love with him. It's always a good time with him, and even if you know you can't be together without him, you'll try to make some effort to make him remember you. Even if he won't have you in his heart, you are willing.

    The process of such a crush may be tiring, it may be difficult, but you still enjoy it. Because you like him, you can't control your feelings, you will long to see him every day, and seeing him seems to be the most beautiful thing in the world. Even if one day, he hurts you, you will laugh and tell him that it doesn't matter.

    How many people love someone deeply in the name of a friend, silently supporting him in everything he does behind him, never asking for anything in return, and then he doesn't know it, because that's the price you pay for liking him. In such a long road, you will always be alone, you will always be chasing his footsteps, hoping that he will look back at you, but he has never looked at you behind you, you are the only one from beginning to end, but you will not feel tired, as long as he gives you a little response, you will continue to chase his footsteps.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've had a crush myself, but I don't think I'm very sad, and it's not a very hurtful crush, because I remember that when I was in high school, I had a crush on someone in another class, because our two classes were far apart, but I still had a crush, no matter how I had a crush, because beautiful women would attract attention, so at that time, I liked her because of her beauty, and after getting along for a while, I liked it more and more, and I remembered that her academic performance was better than mine, It's because I have a crush on her, and because I probably don't see each other a few times a day, that I'm motivated.

    Because of her, I love studying very much, and I study hard because we can quickly take the exam with her in the same class as we can take the exam during the monthly exam of our school. I was really happy and happy at that time.

    But some people just hold themselves out of internal injuries because of their crush, because they only play a supporting role in this crush, and they can't accept that they are playing a supporting role with others, and they say that they don't want to hold back, but if they say it, they may not even have the opportunity to be friends, so at this time, their hearts are particularly entangled, and they don't know what to do, so they can only be depressed and unhappy all day long, and they feel that the crush is really hurtful

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Crush will make you feel an unprecedented inferiority, even if in the eyes of others, you are a big person, but once you like someone, it will make you humble and can't raise your head. In front of him, you are cautious, you only dare to look at him from a distance, you dare not get close to his life, you are afraid of disturbing him, and you are afraid that you will not even have the opportunity to care silently now after getting close. You watch him holding hands and hugging others, and your heart is like a knife, sad and sad, but you can't do anything, because you are not who he is, and you have no right to interfere in his life.

    Sometimes I often wonder why I still allow the feeling of crush to exist when there is such a thing as love. The beauty and happiness of love are in stark contrast to the bitterness and sadness of crush. Crush is too hurtful, it will make you cry at night, and it will also make you still can't see hope in the sun, the feeling of not being able to love, not everyone understands, only if you really love someone stupidly in your heart, but don't dare to let him know, you will have a personal experience.

    If we can, I hope we can all hold hands with the people we love, and we don't have to taste the pain and entanglement of crushes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You feel sad or sad probably because your crush ended badly, but in my opinion, crush is the best thing about love, not to mention his ending, in terms of the process, he is more beautiful than the relationship between lovers.

    I remember when I had a crush on someone in junior high school, the happiest thing I did every day was to say a few words to him, or to see him smile, and in my eyes his smile was really good.

    At first, I was just at the front and back tables with him, because his personality was very lively, okay, okay, he was the kind of boy who had a low laugh and was very nervous, and in short, the time with him at the left front and back table was the happiest period of my whole junior high school. You can hear his nice voice during class, and you can see his bright smile when you turn around after class.

    Later, we weren't at the front and back table, and my relationship with him wasn't as good as it used to be, but for me, it's good to be able to watch him every day. When I was a freshman in junior high school, I was selected to participate in an event with a program at the same table, and he was the host, because the event was quite big, so he came over to encourage us before the performance, although he was like this to everyone, but I still remember the gentle tone at that time.

    Although in the end I confessed and failed, he was with my table mate soon after, but for me this short period of crush is still very happy, watching his male god smile happily every day, watching him like others, and being with the person he likes, it is a very happy thing for me, it is he who lets me know what it is to like, and he also lets me know what it is like to be jealous.

    The reason why the crush is beautiful is because the person you like is a perfect person in your eyes, everything he does is good or bad, he is so handsome and cute in your eyes, as for what kind of character he is, you may not know very well, but it is because you don't understand that you think he is good.

    The main reason why you feel that the crush is hurtful is because you care too much about the result, in a sense, you are not a crush, since the other party already knows that you like him, then you are a clear love, and the crush is a process full of this entanglement, that is, you want to tell him that he has the kind of complicated mood that he dare not tell him, and the kind of mood that makes him feel very happy as long as he looks at him is the element that makes up the crush.

    In short, a crush is a very beautiful thing in my opinion, don't care too much about the ending, since it's a crush, don't care too much about how he feels about you, as long as it's not hateful, it doesn't matter what feelings you have, you just need to know that you like him, if he likes you, that's the best, but if he doesn't like you, then don't care too much, since you choose a crush, then like him quietly.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A crush doesn't hurt people, but a crush doesn't hurt if you have to have it. I believe that everyone has had one or two crushes, and they meet their most ideal mate selection criteria, the image of the male god in their dreams; But some people will find that what you see is not everything, the image of the male god collapses after contact and loses interest, everyone has their own shortcomings, and it may be more hurtful to find that it is not suitable at all after getting it. There is also the widespread phenomenon that the person you choose in the end is almost completely out of line with the ideal partner you originally envisioned, and life is magical.

    And for a relatively simple crush, it should be beautiful. Crush is a person's thing, you have a crush on him, he doesn't need to know, you can look at his eyes, his smile, his back and be secretly happy, you will be inspired by his words, his behavior, you will also be sad because of his small actions, but then as long as the other party makes a positive action or even a look, you will be happy again. If you have a crush and don't express it, and he doesn't express it, you have to know that it is impossible for you to be with him, or that two people have been together, but find that it is not suitable, at least you have been together, and you don't have to regret it anymore.

    The person I used to have a crush on is rarely in touch with me now. I'm not with him, and I haven't thought about being with him, although I've heard and seen which girl he's with, and it's impossible for me not to be touched, but I've always understood that he's just a crush on me, who can make me happy or sad, but give me more I know it's happy, encouraging and growing. Now that he has his own life, I am very happy without him, so there is no relationship, but I will always have the relationship that I once longed for in my hidden heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Crush is very beautiful, crush is a person's own business, others don't know, so you don't need to care about other people's eyes, just be happy alone. But not all crushes are rosy, and some can be hurtful.

    When you have a crush on someone, you will be happy and sad because of his joys and sorrows. You will try your best to get close to him, try to appear in front of him, let him discover your existence, have an impression of you, and preferably a good impression of you.

    Crushes must never like someone who has a partner, otherwise you are self-inflicted. He already has a partner, and he is tired of being with him every day, how can you expect him to see you. And you'll often bump into him being intimate with his partner, which makes you feel more sad.

    And it's not very hurtful to have a crush on a person who has a partner, knowing that there is no result, and insisting on going his own way, and since he has a partner, don't have any illusions about him anymore. Do you want him to break up with your partner and be with you, or do you hurt yourself? If he breaks up with your partner for you and then stays with you, do you think this kind of love is what you want?

    Crushes are very beautiful at first, and if you don't get anything in return, you will feel very hurtful. But there are also crushes who have achieved positive results, and after a long period of crushes, they finally show their hearts, and the two are happy, and finally they are together.

    If this crush is really hurtful, give up as soon as possible, don't be clinging to it, and it may not end well if you keep sticking to it. Sometimes giving up is the best arrangement for each other, hurting others and hurting yourself, why bother, find someone you love and love yourself. Happy together.

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