Husband, how can I know, I need to know

I read your article very carefully.

It's very specific, but no matter how specific it is, we won't know what you feel in your heart, and only you know what you do.

It's futile to ask anyone.

Love is a matter of two people, one party has no feeling when the other party is in love, or one party proposes to break up with the other party, then no matter how hard anyone tries it is in vain, to be honest, it is useless for you to ask us.

Some people say that you should not think too much about living a good life, but you are very conflicted psychologically, and you don't know whether he loves you or his ex-wife.

Some people say that if you divorce, forget it, there are many good men in the world, but your psychology is that you like him, or you won't get married.

Asking us will only make your mind more confused, so you can calm down and think about it yourself, or you can sit together and talk about it clearly, I think it's better.

The only feeling I've ever read is that he still loves his ex-wife, and he doesn't let go of it at all, and he also likes you, but to a different extent, and he can give it up. If it really leaves. He won't have the same attachment to you as his ex-wife.

You're thinking too much! It's just asking for trouble, don't think about anything, live in peace, the more cranky you think, the faster bad things come.

You think too much, since you're with him, live a good life, you have to believe him, he will have memories of his ex-wife, you don't have to care, it's normal, you're too careful, you're going to make trouble like this, it's only going to make him more and more annoying.

If you really can't figure it out, let's see first, if he can't let go of you in his heart, he will definitely not let you leave him.

1.Observe his family of origin to see if there is a serious patriarchal phenomenon in his family.

In patriarchal families, the status of women is particularly low.

A boy who grows up in such a family, if he is not aware of and grows himself, then he will be affected by his family to a large extent.

When entering the marriage relationship, it is easier to feel that the wife is an accessory to oneself.

2.Looking at the quality of his parents' relationship, did his father respect his mother?

Generally speaking, a man who grows up in a family with a harmonious and loving relationship between his parents is also very good at managing relationships in his intimate relationships, understanding and being considerate of his other half.

And in a family where the relationship between parents is very bad, the man who grows up is also likely to copy the way his parents get along.

3.Observe his attachment style tendencies in intimate relationships.

The more secure people are, the more likely they are to explore actively in relationships, and to actively listen and understand their partner.

It's easier to be happy with people who are more secure than others.

4.Find out about his upbringing.

See what events had a major impact on him growing up?

How did these things affect his perception?

Whether there are significant cognitive biases.

5.Observe how stable he is emotionally.

If he is a person who cannot control his emotions, he often becomes grumpy and moody when things happen.

If you get along with him for a long time, his emotions will easily affect and hurt you.

In extreme cases, they may act in a way that hurts themselves or hurts you.

6.Observe his attitude towards money.

Then it can be seen that people with such a personality are more self-centered and pay more attention to their own interests.

When entering into marriage with a person with such a character, he is more likely to put his own interests first.

7.Observe his attitude towards outsiders.

For example, his attitude towards the waiter, if his attitude towards the waiter is always impolite and disrespectful.

That means that his cultivation is very limited, and it is difficult for him to maintain respect for you in a long-term marriage.

8.Find out about his past relationship experiences and see what his attitude is towards his ex?

A person's attitude towards his ex hides his truest character.

If he mentions his ex with a mean attitude, constantly blaming and attacking his ex.

That shows that his measurement and inclusiveness are very limited.

If you enter into marriage with a person with such a character, it is likely that he will not know how to tolerate you when encountering major things.

9.Observe his attitude towards his friends.

If he treats his friends often in this way, it even reaches the level of giving up his own people.

Then when you enter into marriage with a person with such a character, when you are in conflict with love and friendship.

He is more likely to ignore your feelings and take care of his friends first.

10.Observe his attitude towards conflict when he encounters conflict with you.

When facing a conflict, his first reaction is to argue with you, avoid the conflict, or find a way to communicate with you and find a solution.

1. Turn on mobile data and location information on both mobile phones.

<>3. Then in the open toolbar, click the position icon inside to open.

4. After clicking the location icon, above the pop-up window, we will see that there are two options: "Send Location" and "Share Real-time Location".

5. When you send the real-time location of the shared cover beat, let the other party click on the pop-up window to add a dull song.

6. After the other party clicks to join, they can see the location of their husbands, and click the switch button in the upper left corner to turn off real-time location sharing.

Summary. Because he must have thought about telling you before the turn, but he will also think that now that you are married, you are a family, and if you tell you directly, you may not agree.

What did you find?

My husband sent money to his relatives and friends, and he didn't tell me about his family.

Is it disrespectful to me?

How much did you post?

Later, did you find out that he did not explain why he sent it?

Explained. Because of what?

There is no money to spend. The main reason why I didn't tell you was that I was afraid that you would be unhappy and disagree with him to transfer to his family.

But you should have told me as soon as possible, wouldn't you?

Because before the transfer, he must have thought about suing Changyu to sue you, but he will also think that now that you are married, you are a family, and if you tell your brother directly, you may not agree.

But then I didn't know about it, and I got even more angry.

It can only be said that your husband is too thoughtful.

Let's tell you this Nai Chun, at that time, he was in a dilemma, on the one hand, his parents who gave birth to him and raised him, and on the other hand, his wife who wanted to live a lifetime, Chang Nai He didn't know how to choose.

Sister, we have to learn to think about the problem from a different perspective, and if this matter is placed on you, you may also choose to do so.

He doesn't tell you for your own good, because a lot of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts happen because of such things.

So don't get angry, don't think too much.