What should I pay attention to when eating with boys?

Updated on society 2024-05-13
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Table manners. Be polite.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Rushing to pay the bill will make the guy lose face, and you can ask him to drink coffee after he pays the bill.

    If you want to make a good impression at the table, eat slowly, keep your mouth closed and chew in your mouth while eating, don't make a sound when eating, and don't keep pulling the dishes on the plate with chopsticks.

    If he asks you to order, he shows that he respects you, and if you refuse to order, it will give people the impression that you are not assertive, you can choose a few dishes and ask him what he thinks before deciding which dishes to order.

    If you want to pay attention to anything after eating, go to the toilet and look in the mirror to see if there is any food left on your teeth, and then fix your hair and clothes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's okay to be casual, no matter who checks out, it's usually the first time that the man will actively check out, and then you can ask him out and say, I want to invite you to dinner, so that you don't feel like you owe him anything, and it can also provide opportunities for further interactions, isn't it?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No, if you mention or buy something, it shows a very passive situation, after eating and watching a movie or something, you can pay, it will be better, if the man has to pay, you are also repeatedly blocked, it doesn't matter, bit by bit, you can feel how much this person cares about you. Don't do something deliberately, be natural.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, when you meet for the first time, talk about each other's work as much as possible, for example, you can introduce yourself to work in ** and what you mainly do.

    Talking about food can make two people quickly find a common language, and talk about your new snack bar with local characteristics, it will definitely resonate.

    When eating, you should ask and ask for the other party's opinion, and don't be too arbitrary. For example, ask them about their taboos and preferences, so that they will feel that you are a friendly person.

    Try to take care of each other in details. For example, a man pulls a chair for a woman, and when the girl is seated, he finds a seat for himself. Girls can hand tissues or pour water for men, and they look very enthusiastic.

    The first time you eat, you should still be cautious and restrained. It can't be too presumptuous, and it can't be too unruly. We should still pay attention to etiquette and focus on the overall situation. If you want to increase your impression score, show what you are good at, and it will be beneficial to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should pay attention to your outfit, and you must not wear bells and whistles, otherwise it will cause others to be disgusted.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can simply talk about the other party's interests and hobbies, and it is best not to touch personal privacy issues when you meet for the first time, and do not discuss parents or anything, but to get to know each other, such as asking him if he likes to eat this or something.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When eating with a guy for the first time, you should also pay attention to some etiquette and time, and don't be too intimate, which will make him think that you mean something special.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Precautions for eating with the boy you like:

    First of all, try to put on light makeup for yourself before you go, if you can, this is not to highlight how beautiful you are or anything, but to leave a relatively good first impression on your boyfriend's friends. This will also make your boyfriend feel more face-saving.

    You may not be able to interject in the conversation of the men during the meal, but if there are girls at the same table or something, you can take the initiative to chat with them or something, after all, the topics between girls are still very chatty. Remember not to play with your phone all the time, otherwise it will give people a difficult feeling.

    If it's his friends who are the ones at the dinner, you can just bury your head in the food. If you are the host, and your boyfriend accompanies them to drink, you can add a dish and a drink when the food is almost finished.

    The men at the dinner table will inevitably have to drink some wine together, if you can drink it yourself, drink a little bit, if you can't drink it, you will refuse it directly. Don't be embarrassed to refuse if you can't drink it, because it will be a little ugly if you drink too much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People who like to eat together, don't pay attention to anything, as long as it's not too much. It's all possible. When chatting with him, be methodical and don't look too much into his eyes. As much as you like him, he also likes you, you just have to be yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you eat together for the first time, you can ask the boy about his taste and what he doesn't eat when ordering, and the waiter should politely say thank you when serving the food, and you can try to help him with the dishes.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can talk about your own situation, or you can talk about some small things around you in daily life, pay attention not to exaggerate, and speak steadily.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    020-8-8 ยท What should I pay attention to when eating with a guy I like for the first time? Six points full six points full six points full (don't eat support, don't eat enough) 1, if the boy wants to pay after eating, just express his gratitude sweetly, and if you don't want to go, you will pay for milk tea.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Starting from the people, things, and things in the dating scene, this is a very good and safe third-party conversation. I'll give you an example, for example, the food you're eating: "This dish is very good, the last time I came to eat it with a friend, she couldn't get enough of it, and she specially packed a copy back, you tasted it to your liking."

    Prepare five interesting experiences for yourself (showing your own life). Tell me about the troubles you have encountered recently, and ask the other party for advice (people like to preach). Tell about the good days on campus in the past, some of the things you did together, and increase the sense of connection between the two of you.

    Prepare a few questions you want to ask the other person, and don't involve privacy (equivalent to caring about the other person). There are still a lot of things to talk about, what food, clothing, housing, transportation, eating, drinking, and playing, etc., prepare more, and you won't be left without anything to say.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When going out to eat on a date with a guy you like, there are indeed a lot of issues that need to be paid attention to, such as dressing up nicely, being reserved when ordering food, knowing how to ask the boy's opinion to see what he wants to eat, and secondly, some table manners must also be understood, so that the impression left on the other party will be much better!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When eating with the boy you like, try to show your good side, ask the other party what they like to eat when ordering, pay attention to the lady when eating, and don't eat too much, and find some topics to chat with during the meal, don't be cold.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The first time you eat with a boy you like, you must pay attention to your eating appearance, and dress up on makeup, you must correspond to the boy's preferences, but it is generally light makeup, and it is better to go out on a date, because it will give people a fresh feeling, and then you should have a degree when talking to the boy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The first time I eat with a boy I like, pay attention to my posture, I'm like this, eat elegantly, don't gobble, and then there are two people chatting at the dinner table, avoid awkward conversations, and try to have a pleasant communication process, which can also increase a good impression.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The first time you eat with a guy you like, I suggest you pay attention to the following points:

    1. When eating with a boy you like for the first time, try not to drink alcohol. Because most boys don't like girls to drink, and then there is that drinking alcohol is easy to lead to gaffes, or gaffes after drinking.

    Second, be a little reserved. After all, it's a girl, so try to keep yourself dignified and generous, elastic and tight, and don't talk like a river. And don't pretend to be a squirming pinch.

    3. When eating, try not to pick what you like to eat, and taste what you like to eat in moderation, and don't show the appearance of "gobbling up", which is unelegant.

    Fourth, when picking up vegetables, try to eat the dishes around you, or eat the dishes that the other party gives you to sandwich in front of you. Don't always stand up and pick up dishes that are far away from you, as this will be undignified. In addition, if the other party sends the sandwiched food directly to your mouth, you must not take the opportunity to put the food in your mouth to eat, but use your hand to take the other party's chopsticks to pick up the food, and then send it into your mouth yourself.

    Because you're eating for the first time, pay attention to the details.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. Dress up well, such as wearing a beautiful little skirt and putting on makeup, if your makeup skills are not good, you can go to the mall or store to ask someone to make up, generally dozens of yuan. When you eat with the boy you like, you have to show your beauty.

    2.In terms of behavior, because it's the first time, it's still necessary to be generous and decent. In addition, if you have physical contact with a boy, don't overreact, it may scare the other person.

    4.When a boy asks you to order, you have to ask the other party if there is anything taboo to show that you are very considerate. Don't order heavy tastes, lest the smell in your mouth stink him.

    Rinse your mouth with water after meals to rinse off food debris and odors in your mouth, and bring a portable mouthwash or breath freshener spray if you're worried. If you don't touch your phone, you don't touch your phone, when you lose your phone for a day, even if he goes to the bathroom, you wait for him alone.

    5.Use the AA system when eating together, it is not appropriate for girls to have a treat, and boys will make the other party feel that you are not independent enough; Finally, if you can, try to make some eye contact (within 5 seconds) and physical contact (shoulders and hands).

    The above follows a principle: reserved, even if you are usually a female man and unkempt, you must try to make the first impression as perfect as possible, and do enough work on the surface, maybe it will be a little unreal, but in the future, if he also has a good impression of you, he will slowly understand you and tolerate everything about you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    At this time, we should show our best side with the boys we like, and when we eat, we as girls should be more reserved, first of all, dress up and dress neatly. Suitable. Have style and wear your best spirit!

    When eating, we should pay attention to the boy's behavior, face him with a smile, respond to him enthusiastically, and behave ladylikely.

    At the dinner table, you should pay attention to the way you speak, your words and deeds, especially when you say that your posture and movements during the meal should be perfect.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first time I have dinner with the guy I like, I really have to pay attention to some details.

    I'll give you a few tips from a boy's point of view:

    Don't eat too much, even if you eat a lot, don't expose it the first time;

    Pay attention to the etiquette at the dinner table, including the posture of eating, the way of serving dishes, etc.;

    After eating, you can express that you want to pay, so that the guy thinks that you are an independent girl, but the guy will definitely not let you pay.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are still a lot of precautions, and I believe that your advice will also help you:

    1. According to the character of the other boy, you should stipulate your own dress, some boys like **, some boys like to be conservative, so you must pay more attention.

    2. Don't talk too much when eating, the posture of eating is slightly more elegant, and you must have quality when you go out.

    3. Try not to order too much and too expensive when ordering, which is also a major feature of thrift, and many boys will like such girls.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Hello dear <>

    If you feel embarrassed to eat with a guy, you can call your best friend to support you so you don't feel embarrassed.

    Or when eating, you can talk more to distract yourself.

    How to eat with guys without embarrassment.

    Hello dear <>

    If it would be embarrassing for Jue Xun to eat with a boy, you can call your best friend to support you so that you don't feel embarrassed. Or when you are eating, you can talk more about staring at Chang Tiantian to divert your attention.

    What to do if your friend is not there.

    1.Talking about ball sportsBall sports are a boy's favorite, but you still have to see what kind of ball he likes, basketball, football, badminton, billiards are different, do what he likes, and study the stars and teams he likes. 2.

    Talking about sports starsSports stars refer to the sports he likes to choose, for example, he likes to watch basketball, Kobe Bryant you have to know a little bit about it, if he likes to watch badminton, you can go and check the information of relevant sports stars. 3.Movies (action, suspense, horror, fantasy) 4

    Sharing experiences subtly asks him questions about his childhood. Don't turn this intimate conversation into a KGB-style investigation: you can share some of your memories and your best feelings.

    Have you ever traveled abroad? Share some experiences with him and make him a little fascinated. 5.

    Chat about humorous jokes, you can send the funny jokes you see, the interesting things you see, and even the trivial things you see in your one-hole shed. Then it's just to see how he replies to you, and when he replies to you more. From these letters, you can judge what information the other person is interested in, when he is free, what he likes to talk to you, etc.

    Then it's time to prescribe the right medicine.

    You can talk about these topics to relieve the embarrassment of the pro, I hope it can help you <>

    <>Do I need to take the initiative when we check out?

    It's better not to take the initiative for this girl. You can see his reaction first, you can also be polite, see what kind of attitude he has, he should be able to settle the bill, dear.

    Okay, thanks.

    You're welcome to <> pro

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