Why do I feel like I lack fate? Where is my destiny?

It's hard to say about fate. Evenly, there is no one. I guess it's a girl from your kind of school.

It seems that I have a classmate, she is very ordinary, but she has had peach blossom luck since she was a child, and her boyfriend is always handsome. This kind of thing can only be explained as fate. Since when you understand others, they are famous, next time you will confess directly, and you can chase it directly, and the first strike is the strongest.

That's because you're focused on your studies and work. Those people just want to chase the feeling of love, so they spend a lot of effort to chase girls, and they have girlfriends, and if you like which one you like, you can also try to chase after it, and then there will be it.

There are advantages to not talking about in college. It's just because you've reached Sichun's age that you feel a little lonely without a woman.

In fact, confess, what the blow counted, look at it in hindsight. It's all a passing thing. Maybe it's my own mental factors, but every morning I smile in the mirror and say loudly, I'm the best, maybe I won't look so seriously in a few days, and these problems won't appear.

Remember how a big husband has no wife! Tell yourself every day that you will slowly have everything. Trust me, and even more so in yourself.

In fact, what is the calculation of graduating from college? It's worthless now. But don't be presumptuous, society will never graduate from this university.

Learn endlessly, slowly enrich yourself, meet what you have, and pursue what you want. It is more important to enjoy the process than to pursue the result, because the negative result of life is death!

It's not necessarily that you lack fate, look back at the ladies around you, if there are any good things to you, maybe she is very introverted and not good at expressing herself.

If you meet someone you like, you must confess, if she doesn't know, how can she respond to you?

Confession may not be successful, but it is even more difficult to succeed if you don't confess.

Fate is unattainable, points are to work hard through their own efforts, if you meet a destined person, then go to the effort.

Fate is something that cannot be fathomed.

Don't be discouraged, maybe fate will come one day.

Maybe there's one you deserve to love.

My cousin got a girlfriend in their factory two years after graduating from college, and now they're both married and have children.

So don't worry too much about not finding a girlfriend.

But when you see something you like, you should try for it, right?

First of all, the eldest husband has no wife.

You've just graduated from college, what's your hurry?

Remember, number one, men have to endure loneliness.

Second, you should focus on your career.

I have always believed that compared with thinking and ability, humor, maturity, handsomeness, generosity, and arrogance are all considered a mouthful.

When you have a successful career and a mature mind, you don't have to worry about women at all, and you will pick a lot of beautiful women.

If you can't stand loneliness, you're not a gentleman.

There are many things to ask for in the world, but fate is hard to find. In the vast sea of people and the glitzy world, how many people can really find their most perfect belonging, and how many people miss the best opportunity in passing by. Or how many people have the right choice but are in the wrong place at the right time.

Sometimes fate and fate are only left in people's thoughts.

Fate is like the wind, coming is also fate, and going is also fate. What has been obtained is fate, and what has not been obtained is also fate.

In fact, everyone's fate is destined, and everyone you meet is the person you are destined to meet. Who you marry is actually predestined, so we don't have to look for it anymore, we just need to wait seriously, and one day someone will love you more than ourselves.

I believe that there are such people around everyone, they believe in love, yearn for love, and are sparing no effort to pursue love, but love does not treat them well. Deliberate pursuit often does not lead to true love, and quiet waiting will allow you to meet true love. Everyone has no way to choose their own family, and many people may miss a love because the family is not wealthy, because the door is not right, this is your destiny.

No matter how hard you try and persevere, you can't break the world's view of you.

Yiyi thought that she could give herself a better future with her enthusiasm and hard work, but reality still defeated her. After graduating, she worked a 9-to-5 job, with a basic salary, and lived an ordinary life.

Within a few years, when she was older, the family began to urge her to get married, and arranged blind dates for her one after another, at first she also resisted, not wanting to bow to fate, but it didn't take long for her to accept. She began to hate herself, hated this fate that she couldn't get rid of, but she couldn't do anything about it.

In the end, she married the blind date that her parents fancied, and no one cared how she felt, and no one cared that there was no love at all in this marriage.

What kind of person do you want to marry, in fact, fate has already been arranged, if your family is not so rich, and you don't work hard enough to persevere, then one day you will be defeated by fate and marry someone you don't love. In fact, everyone has countless ways to escape their own destiny, but they just don't have the courage to take that step.

Many things are predestined, such as your family, your marriage. Fate is very unfair to everyone, and some people can get a lot of things they want without much effort, and they can stay with the person they like.

And some people still bow to fate after hard work. If you really like someone, you must work hard to chase it, how do you know that the person you are destined to do is not the person in front of you?

If this person hasn't appeared yet, don't worry, fate will eventually be arranged, and one day he will come to you across thousands of mountains and rivers, gently hold your hand, and write a better future with you.

Since the matter of falling in love has become free, the way that most people follow in love is to find someone who has feelings, and then get to know each other, open their hearts, and gradually develop some intimate behaviors, and the relationship is slowly warmed up.

If there is no feeling for a person, even if the person is suitable for marriage, people are not willing to develop the relationship, thinking that it is a relationship without love and will not be happy.

Some people find love in this way and start to be together, and there are still others who have not met someone with feelings and have been waiting for the feeling to come.

We often have one word to explain all this fate, but fate has not arrived.

This word seems to eliminate the anxiety of many people, because this explanation seems to tell people: you are destined to be like this.

Once everything is fatal, people seem to immediately feel safe and less anxious, but they also lose the energy to fight for it.

In fact, we know that it is the life of the emperor to be loyal to the emperor, and it is the need of the emperor to rule the world, but we ignore human rights; Saying that you haven't found the feeling is that fate has not arrived, and it is the need to eliminate anxiety and make people accept reality, but it ignores that everyone has the right to fight for it, and there is indeed the possibility of success.

Purely handing over your fate to fate, it's like driving on the highway, throwing away the steering wheel, closing your eyes, crashing is fate, not crashing is fate, which is fate? This is irresponsible for life.

Under normal circumstances, people think that the process of finding a partner is to find someone with feelings, that is, fate has arrived, so they open their hearts, start communicating, and then have intimate behavior.

In fact, this process may not be like this, but some people are always in a state of openness, so it is easy for them to find feelings, and then communicate and then communicate, develop intimate behaviors, and generate feelings.

Those who do not find it easy to find sensations are not easy to find because their hearts are closed. And they always thought that they had not found the feeling, so they were reluctant to open their hearts.

1. When I was a child, I had a bad relationship with my parents, and I felt that no one would really love me;

2. When I was a child, my parents' marriage was unhappy, I didn't believe that men and women could be happy together, and I rejected the opposite sex;

3. Low self-esteem caused by poor family conditions or average appearance;

4. Being hurt in the process of growing up, resulting in a low sense of security;

5. Injuries from past emotional experiences that have not healed; 6. And so on.

Because fate has not arrived, because fate has not matured, so you still wait patiently for fate to come, don't worry.

You yourself feel unlucky, can you not be unlucky......

Fate is not forced, and it is not sitting at home and coming to the door by itself.

Go out and read a book to recharge. Socialize, don't be an otaku, don't watch Korean dramas all the time...