Why is crush so painful?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love has to be said out loud, even if we don't agree, we will die and understand, of course it will be painful!! Maybe there will be a perfect ending like the prince and princess?

    Why is the crush painful, because I really love with my heart, otherwise how can my heart hurt?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He doesn't pay much attention to you, which means that she doesn't feel that way for you. You can try to get along with him more and see his attitude. Or leave him and find the right person for you, emotional matters can't be forced, what you want is the feeling of two people, not one-sided.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Those are not allowed, what is the result of the crush, the confession is right!! If you want to love, you have to be bold, you know? To take action!!

    Ignoring you doesn't mean I don't like you, and some girls are like that. Confession can know what she is thinking, do you know!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    actually chose a crush, and you have to be prepared to endure the pain.

    Otherwise, confess to the other party, success is the best, and give up if you fail!

    If you don't give up, you'll have to endure the pain!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm also secretly in love with a guy, and it's also very painful, but I hope you can take the initiative, girls like to be spoiled.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    !!The farthest distance in life is not life and death, but when I stand in front of you, and you don't know that I love you, it's about people like us, who have the same sickness!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Fate with some people is like a flower that blooms in the night, and cannot see the sun. It withers silently before dawn and will never bloom again. It was a love affair between moonlight and shadow.

    After walking out of that part of the city, you still have to continue on your way. That's how life is full of illusions. There is always hope, and there is always hopelessness.

    Baby Anne "Lotus".

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Crush is so beautiful when you think about it, and sometimes, it's a beautiful ...... not to say itYou know.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you go to chase it, do you dare?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Some people think that a crush is also a very beautiful feeling, but in fact, I have always disapproved of crushes. There are always a lot of comments from readers in the background, and many of them have a common characteristic, always expecting me to interpret whether the other person is in love with me from the words they provide to the crush. I feel very distressed about this, and at the same time I feel very sad for them.

    The distress is that even a professional counselor, even with high-end equipment, cannot accurately judge a person's feelings for another person. Because human feelings are inherently deep and complex things, not to mention that they are constantly changing. Sometimes, it is impossible for a person to fully understand himself.

    Love is a problem of the century, and people with crushes have more concerns. Because of low self-esteem, I feel that I am not good enough, and the other party should not like me; felt that the other party did not have enough expression, and he did not dare to confess first, feeling that he was not reserved enough; I'm afraid that I will be rejected when I open my mouth, and in the end, I don't even have to be a friend.

    In fact, the reason why love is sad and painful is not in the love itself, but in the fact that we need to respond, so pure crush will not be too hard, because there is no too much expectation, there is no expectation that love will come to you, as long as you see each other every day, you will be satisfied.

    However, most crushes are not like this, they are looking forward to and waiting for love to come every day; Waiting for the other party to confess first, so, a look or a word from the other party can make a person have a tsunami in his heart.

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