How to strengthen your belief in staying in China to study?

We need to understand the good intentions of our parents. Studying abroad is still a very rare thing for their older generation. Basically, those who can go abroad are those who are sent by the state, and they are the only talents in a thousand.

And when I return from school, I will not worry about glory in this life. Therefore, even in the era when it is so convenient to study abroad, it is still very rare to be able to study abroad. In addition, foreign countries have some cutting-edge science and technology, and being able to study abroad to appreciate higher knowledge and broaden their horizons is also extremely beneficial to their own development.

The country has superior benefits for returnees, such as settling down and other policies, so your parents want you to study abroad for the sake of your future, which can be said to be a love for your son. But, of course, not everyone is suitable for studying abroad. If you don't want to, then you need to sit down with your parents and have a good conversation about why you don't want to go abroad.

For example, there is a language barrier, or the ability is not independent enough to survive abroad, or the family financial burden is considered. Tell your parents what you think in your heart, and the point is to convince them that there is no reason to succeed and not only study abroad.

Studying abroad generally costs a lot of money, and when your parents let you study abroad, he will definitely hope that his son will become a dragon and his daughter will become a phoenix. They think that people who have studied abroad and drunk foreign ink are more popular in China. Maybe they are to give you a better degree and better energy to face the problems in life.

If you don't want to follow their ideas, you have to have a clear life plan to convince your parents, he will let you study abroad, you must want your life to be better than others, when you have a reasonable life plan, your parents will feel that you have grown up, you can do your own life, and choose not to worry about them anymore. Only if you come up with a good life plan, then it is possible for parents to compromise and take back their ideas.

You can tell your parents what you really think, you don't want to be far away from your parents, you don't want to go so far, you are alone, you will miss home, miss them. Besides, China is no worse than foreigners now, as long as you have the ability to develop in China. If it's just for the sake of going abroad to gild, it doesn't make any sense.

What's more, the conditions of the family are not the kind of rich and oily, and I don't want to spend the hard-earned money that my parents have worked hard to accumulate for a lifetime.

Although it is fashionable to go abroad now, but you don't have this idea in your heart, you have your own dreams, you have planned your own path, and now you are moving towards your goals little by little, you don't want your parents' plans to change your original dreams, I hope your parents can forgive you and agree to your own choice.

When you come up with a life plan, you should also clearly explain to your parents what kind of life you want in your life, so that they think that studying abroad is not the only way to make your life better. There are many ways to live a good life, and you don't need to have expensive tuition fees to go on an exchange trip to a foreign country.

Foreign universities are wide in and strict in and out, and the learning atmosphere is tense. Under the pressure, every student needs to deal with ** and cope with exams day and night, and for some students who are not very conscious, perhaps studying at a university in China is also an appropriate choice.

You need to communicate calmly with your parents. Analyzing the pros and cons of studying abroad, in fact, no matter what the final result is, the one that suits you is the best.

If you can understand and be emotional to your parents, they will definitely understand you and feel very relieved, because they have a sensible and measured child.