My boyfriend couldn t live without me, but I was so scared that he would leave me

I'm afraid it's useless, you have to learn to grasp the psychology of a man, don't obey him in everything, it should be as soon as he comes to you, like you said, he can't do without you, at least he won't have the idea of taking the initiative to leave you, you can rest assured.

The same goes for my boyfriend, he loves me very much, I have done a lot of things to hurt him, because he loves me and he forgives me, and I, because I have loved a man (ex-boyfriend) with my life but is scarred, so I don't seem to be very good at love, but every time I see him for me, I will feel very guilty and distressed, although he will not be the person I love the most, but clearly, you must cherish the people who love you, grasp the people around you who love you, women are meant to hurt! I still remember what he said: I don't even know how you should live without you, because my life is taken care of by him, and I will only want to live a good life if he takes care of me, cherish it, or the old saying:

Don't lose it to know how to cherish it!

Insecure with each other. I guess you haven't been together for long, it's good if it's been a long time, it's normal.

Don't be afraid of the future. Because no one knows what will happen in the next second. As long as you can grasp the present and cherish the people in front of you, then you have succeeded.

There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it.

I agree with the upstairs point that my boyfriend also told me that I am the second half of his life, and if I leave him, he doesn't know how to live.

Cherish what you have and take control of your future.

It's really tiring to love someone.

Falling in love is really a tiring thing.

Give him enough security.

1. Keep your distance from the opposite sex.

2. Be patient with the boy and accompany him to grow up.

3. Encourage him a lot and encourage him to make people healthy.

4. Be considerate of him and consider his feelings. For example, if there is a conflict, don't just think "I'm right, he wants to apologize to me", but consider his feelings, and the two of them will ** the problem together (of course, sometimes they can't be together**.) But you can still say it calmly).

5. Report activities such as going out in a timely manner.

6. I think the most important thing is to trust the speaker, and it is good to build it up slowly in daily life.

There are three possible reasons why your boyfriend is always afraid of you leaving him:

First, you are better than him, and he may not be confident enough.

Maybe you are fair-skinned and beautiful, and you are recognized as a beauty, but he is not recognized as a handsome guy; Maybe you have a good job and a high income, but he is ordinary and makes slow progress; Maybe you graduated from a key university with a master's degree or doctorate, and he is just an ordinary graduate of an ordinary university; Maybe you are from the city and your family conditions are good, but he is from the countryside and his parents rely on the weather for food......

In short, your strengths in one or more aspects make him feel inferior and feel that his charm is not enough to tie your heart.

Second, you have too many friends of the opposite sex, making him insecure.

Although women always like to say that they are insecure, men also have a feminine side, and they don't say it in their mouths, but they also have insecurity in their hearts. When you are surrounded by too many people of the opposite sex, especially if you don't have obvious boundaries, your boyfriend will feel like losing you. Maybe he loves you too much and doesn't want you to change himself, but too good a relationship with the opposite sex still makes him feel uneasy.

3. Influenced by his original family, he was a very insecure little boy.

It is possible that your boyfriend has been hurt in some way since he was a child, making him particularly prone to gains and losses. You can talk to him about his childhood and maybe find some answers.

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Hello dear, my boyfriend is always worried that you will leave him because he is insecure in this relationship, he thinks you are excellent, and she has a little inferiority. What you have to do is to give him enough security, for example, you can encourage her more often, praise him, and make him feel that he is very good.

Summary. Hello dear, will you be afraid that your boyfriend will leave you? First of all, you are dependent on your boyfriend, you have loved your boyfriend very deeply, you love him very deeply and truly, you have become dependent on him psychologically and physically, and you have loved it to a very deep point, which also reflects the embodiment of two people who love each other deeply, why do you feel this way?

It is a fantasy after falling in love, this is also the performance and heart that everyone will have, this is also normal, as long as the two of you love each other enough, you will not think about this, he will leave you, two people who really love each other will not be easily separated.

Hello dear, will you be afraid that your boyfriend will leave you? First of all, you are dependent on your boyfriend, you have loved your boyfriend very deeply, you love him very deeply and truly, you have become dependent on him psychologically and physically, and you have loved it to a very deep point, which also reflects the embodiment of two people who love each other deeply, why do you feel this way? It is a fantasy after falling in love, this is also the performance and heart that everyone will have, this is also normal, as long as the two of you love each other enough, you will not think about this, he will leave you, two people who really love each other will not be easily separated.

Summary] Hello dear, will you be afraid of your boyfriend leaving you? First of all, you are dependent on your boyfriend, you have loved your boyfriend very deeply, you love him very deeply and truly, you have become dependent on him psychologically and physically, and you have loved it to a very deep point, which also reflects the embodiment of two people who love each other deeply, why do you feel this way? It is a fantasy after falling in love, this is also the performance and heart that everyone will have, this is also normal, as long as the two of you love each other enough, you will not think about this, he will leave you, two people who really love each other will not be easily separated.

If you have a very good relationship, cherish it, two boyfriends and girlfriends together, and don't easily say the word break up because of some trivial things, everyone will feel like you, so rest assured, take your time, get along well, let your relationship get better and better, no matter what you encounter, you have to deal with it well, I believe you are getting better and better, if you still have any questions, you can continue to communicate with the teacher, Of course, only when you communicate with the teacher about the specific situation, the teacher will give you a better reply.

Summary. Hello, it's a pleasure to answer the question for you, because your boyfriend doesn't give you much confidence and trust, and you have developed a very strong dependence on him.

Hello, it's a pleasure to answer the question for you, because your boyfriend doesn't give you much confidence and trust, and you have developed a very strong dependence on him.

Because your boyfriend is very attractive to you, but the availability is relatively low, and you are very dependent on him, it is not good to be afraid that he will leave you as soon as you encounter some problems.

Because this mentality of yours will make your boyfriend not take you seriously, which will make you more miserable.

If your boyfriend says that he can't do without you, then you can be inseparable from me like this, then you can marry me into the door with a sedan chair, then we can be together every day. Generally, when your boyfriend says that he can't leave you, it's because your boyfriend's love for you is also very real, and he wants to see you every day, because he is in love, so he wants to meet you every day, but because of work, you won't be together, so it's very painful to separate, and you are also lovesick in two places, so boyfriend He said that it is possible to leave you without you, because the relationship between two people is too good, and leaving for a day feels like a month, and there is a feeling of spending days like years. So at this time, you must want to get married as soon as possible and relieve the lovesickness between the two, so your boyfriend says that he can't leave you, you can say that he wants him to marry you into the door, then you can get married and sing with your wife, and you can not separate.

Your boyfriend loves you very, very much, and he can't do without you, so you have to cherish it, cherish the man who loves you like this, because it's not easy to meet someone who really loves you.

Dear, the teacher thinks you don't have to worry about this. Because if a boy really loves you enough, he will actually tolerate your various little tempers. So when you're in a bad mood, vent with him when you should vent with him, and mess with him when you should mess with him.

Don't take all the unhappy things in your heart, hide them yourself, get angry with them on your stomach, and be afraid that you will offend him or something. You'll also have a hard time. So just a little restraint is needed.

Don't be too presumptuous, don't do everything alone, and suppress it in your heart. <>

The things that should be solved by two people should be solved by two people together, and don't please him for the sake of pleasing him. This will make both parties unhappy. It's also very tiring to get along. Come on, I believe you will be better.