What are the social rules that you don t talk about, but need to know?

Each of us is an individual in society, it is impossible to survive without this society, in this society means to interact with other people, which has produced a lot of social rules, some rules are put on paper, but some social rules are not said, we should also know. So, what exactly are the rules of society? Let me tell you about it!

1. Treats

I believe that the word "treat" is very common to everyone, and many relationships between people are established through treats, so what are the rules for treats? If someone invites you, you should also think about the other person next time, and if someone invites you because of something important, you should buy some gifts or wrap a red envelope as a sign of respect. Friends treat each other, not only to enhance the relationship between the two parties, but also to make you go further in this society, there are many friends who will not suffer, they will give you help and care.

2. Borrow money

If you don't have money one day, you need to borrow money from someone else and agree on a date with others, then you must repay the money according to the agreed period, so that others will feel that you are honest, and they will be more assured to lend you money. The next time you need money, they will still help, they will not help you, and if you owe money and don't pay it back, then the friendship between you will be gone. <>

3. Thanksgiving

There are people who have helped you before, they will not ask you for help, but you must remember them and do not forget that what you have now is due to their help. Gratitude I think is the principle of a person's life, without gratitude we are a cold-blooded animal, without any emotion.

In general, the more you crawl around in society, the more you will know about the rules of society.

I think the most important thing is not to make loud noises in public, to take care of your children, and to take the initiative to give up your seat to the elderly, pregnant women and other people in need.

As a member of society, there are many social rules that need to be clear, and many of them are well known. For example, if you don't have merit, don't owe favors casually, and abide by the spirit of credit and contract.

For example, obey traffic rules and don't run red lights; Do not make loud noises, play in public places, and do not smoke in public places; Give up your seat on the bus or subway to the elderly, the weak, the sick, the disabled, pregnant women, etc.

There are many social rules, and there are no rules. Therefore, we must abide by the corresponding rules, respect the old and love the young, and do not respect the old and love the young, and we will often be condemned by morality.

First of all, you should know that it is a truth for the survival of the strong, and if you have a foothold in society, you must have a very strong and foothold ability, so that you can adapt to the society.

1. Seek advice from a teacher to learn skills, or go to a stranger.

2. Ask for help or help others, whether it is a gift or a visit to thank you, you must settle the account in time.

3. Don't accept gifts from others. Even if it's worthless.

4. When you are at a loss in the unit, it is always right to practice the spirit of the contract.

5. Combined with a person's growth environment and temperament, there is nothing that cannot be understood. Even if it's a murderer.

6. Friends are just the convergence of interests of the three views of the class. A confidant is nothing more than the former accumulated over the years.

7. The best things in the world are free. The sun is clear and the cicadas are singing and the flowers are fragrant, and the family love is inspired and happy.

8. Compared with one's own class level, concept and integrity, nothing can be easily forgiven. Even if it was a confidant.

9. Making friends is mostly a solidified circle. Reading books and watching movies is to break the circle of thinking. Both are quantitative processes.

10. Reading books, watching the news and looking at things outside the body, one is to remain vigilant in questioning, and the other is to accept it critically.

11. Reading 10,000 books is more reliable than traveling 10,000 miles under today's traffic conditions.

12. Don't take your youth seriously. When you are young, you are wasted, and when you are old, you will only be more miserable.

13. Recognize your own position and find out your own responsibilities. There are occasions where you are not allowed to "exercise", and there is no diamond diamond, and it is better to be mediocre.

14. Sharpen the knife and do not cut wood. Draft the overall plan in advance to get twice the result with half the effort.

15. It is the norm of life to be less than the upper and more than the lower. Either accept it, or accept it after working hard.

First, do your best and focus on creating a good learning atmosphere. In the name of accompanying their children to do homework, some parents are actually "leisure and entertainment" around their children, they either play with their mobile phones next to them, or eat snacks next to them, which not only can not create a strong learning atmosphere for their children, but also is likely to interfere with their children's learning. This kind of companionship is not real companionship, and the correct way for parents is to take a book they like and read it carefully and quietly next to their children, giving them a psychological hint that parents are studying with him.

Second, don't interrupt your child's learning easily. Some parents sit next to their children, keep an eye on their children doing every question, and once they find that their children have done something wrong, they shout and order their children to correct them immediately. Actually, this is not advisable.

Parents sitting next to them and watching their children do their homework all the time can make them nervous and difficult to concentrate. It is also not necessary for parents to correct mistakes in their children's homework at any time. The correct way is to let the child complete the homework independently and quietly, let the child check the mistakes in the homework by himself, and then let the parents check it again to find out the mistakes in the homework.

For mistakes in homework, parents should first let the child look through the textbook to find out how to solve the problem, and if the child still can't understand it by reading the textbook, the parent will patiently explain it to the child.

Third, it is important to cultivate good study habits in children. When parents accompany their children to do homework, they should focus on observing whether their children have good study habits. If parents find that their children are doing small actions while writing homework, or frequently go to the toilet or ask for snacks after writing homework for a while, this indicates that the child is not attentive to homework and is not focused on learning.

Learning is a complex mental work, and it is impossible to achieve the desired effect by inattention, so once parents find that their children have a bad habit of being absent-minded about homework, they must correct it in time.

1 Don't take the initiative to help, don't take the initiative to help, don't take the initiative to help, say important things three times.

2 Don't go to a chance dinner, no matter how much others invite you.

3 What most people are doing, if you don't do it, they will judge you.

What most people don't do, you do, they will laugh at you.

It doesn't mean you're wrong, it's just that when you behave differently from them, it makes them angry, maybe trying to make yourself appear right.

Article**14 Don't pay too much attention to others who look down on you, because they look down on you, usually because you yourself are not good enough.

5 Some questions are asked even though the answers are known.

It would be embarrassing to ask, so simply don't ask. You're not married, are you? You don't have children yet, do you? You haven't bought a house yet, have you?

6 A person who talks all day long, "I am a man with a bad temper," "I am a man who speaks badly," and "I am not afraid of offending people" is not worthy of forgiveness at all. He knows it's not good, but he wants to tell you that it doesn't matter.

Article**27 Don't do porcelain work without diamonds.

If someone asks you for help and agrees, you have to do it for others. If you can't do it, you're sorry for others.

8 Words are face, but heart is heart.

Everyone has to give face to each other, but the most important thing is the inside.

9 It is normal that this society is not fair.

You get angry because it's unfair, and that's because you're not the one who gets the benefits.

10 There is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness, and there is no virtuous wife in a poor house for a long time. So don't get seriously ill, don't let yourself run out of money, otherwise you can't blame others for being ruthless.

In life, I want to know these "15 social rules", which everyone will not say, but I need to know!

1. When meeting people, you should praise people more, and don't expose people's shortcomings.

2. There is never any such thing as suffering from losses and talents, if you dare to pay more than others, you will definitely be rewarded. It's just that the time has not yet come. will return it to you at some point in the future, everything is the best arrangement.

3. Except for relatives and a very small number of friends, outsiders will only say that you are good. So that you really have any problems, shortcomings, you are very difficult to find.

4.Everyone is limited by the consciousness of their own class, do not judge an event easily, and do not judge a person easily. Everyone loves to talk about gossip, but it's just a matter of talking.

5. Most of the relationships of interest are relatively stable, but they rarely expect to become friends. Unless the smell is similar.

6. In a circle, everyone has a true evaluation of someone's heart. It is generally not spoken. For example, now let you evaluate and find an unreliable colleague around you, and you will immediately have the answer in your heart.

7. See through it and don't say it, it can be applied anywhere.

8.Society only looks at the results. Outsiders look at your bustle and gossip, others look at your scenery, people around you look at your real journey, and people who care about you will share the pain and happiness with you.

9. Regardless of whether the unit is good or not, it is not as important as you and the right (direct boss).

10. In society, don't ask people to borrow money or lend it to others. Half of the money lent out must be prepared to not be recovered.

11. The person who helps you will often help you again, while the person who is helped is half-hearted and may not necessarily report it.

12. There are many smart people in society, but there are not many reliable people. It takes a long time to make people think that you are reliable, but it is enough to prove that you are not reliable once.

13. Don't be the enemy of the strong, learn to cooperate, so as to achieve a win-win situation. Those who know the times are Junjie.

14. The marriage of the right family is the most reliable combination for most ordinary people in the world.

15. In the workplace, even if it is small talk, even if it is drinking and skewering, and colleagues are getting together. Don't get involved in gossip. Be yourself, be a kind and caring person, but also be a smart person.

1. Don't go to a chance dinner, no matter how others invite you.

2. There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and there is no good wife in the poor family for a long time. So don't get seriously ill, and don't let yourself be out of money, otherwise you can't blame others for being ruthless.

3. What most people are doing, if you don't do it, they will criticize you; Most people don't do something, they will ridicule you when you do it, you don't mean you're wrong, you can only say that you behave differently than them, it will make them angry. As for why they are angry, perhaps they want to make themselves appear to be right.

4. When others show you the ** in the mobile phone, hold your hands and don't slide left and right.

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5. People who haven't been in touch for a long time, talk about things if they have something, and contact another person if they have nothing to do, don't ask others "are you there".

6. Some questions are asked even if you know the answer, and it will be embarrassing to ask them, so don't ask: Are you not married yet? You don't have children yet, do you? You haven't bought a house yet, have you?

7. Call someone else**, and don't call again if the other party doesn't answer. Unless it's a lover or a family member, if the other party wants to pick up your **, he will give you back.

8. When a friend invites you to dinner, if you are asked to pick a place or order food, you should be cautious. The best thing to do is to ask him to recommend it, otherwise you don't know what the other party's budget is, he wanted to treat you to a steamed bun, and as soon as you opened your mouth, he said that he was going to eat Japanese food.

9. When others look down on you, don't pay too much attention to it, because they look down on you generally because you are not good enough.

10. This society is not fair, this is normal, you will be angry because it is unfair, that is because you are not the party who gets the benefits.

11. If there is something to be said, don't wait for the other party to comprehend, because the other party is not you, you don't know what you want, and in the end you can only be sad and disappointed, especially feelings. One - McDull.

12. A large part of people who have not read much will have an instinctive hatred for people who read a lot. Just like many poor people have a hatred of the rich. They will try to embarrass you, they will rack their brains to prove that reading is useless, they want to prove that you are a fool when you read.