I don t understand why I m not happy lately? Hope to meet you can become good friends?

Everyone feels the same way! I thought I was the only one who would be sad.

In fact, we are often very happy and feel that we are very happy.

People are like this, sometimes they feel the loneliest, the most lonely, and sometimes they feel the happiest and happiest.

So why bother thinking about sad things?

When you are sad, write down the sad things in your diary, and then think about the happy things, or think about the plans for tomorrow, and the wine will forget the unhappy.

Get your feet wet.

What about having a car and a house?

The goal of life should not be these lowly things.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.

I'll give you a poem.

There are flowers in spring, moon in autumn, cool breeze in summer, and snow in winter;

If you have nothing to do in your heart, it is a good time in the world!

With the entry into society, those youthful days are gone. There should be many people who have such a resonance, there are many friends who used to have a good relationship, but as they enter different life journeys: enter different schools, go to different positions, and form their own families, they gradually lose contact, and some friends will never even have the opportunity to meet again in their lives.

In the dark and lonely night, in the midst of the staggering, a memory in the brain will be ignited, illuminating the once beautiful but gradually blurred figure. When I think of my friends who are no longer in touch, I can't help but feel a lot of pity.

Because everything is too compact in this era, two people have to live each other's busy lives, and even meeting each other has become a luxury, and the maintenance of feelings has become difficult.

Last month, I met Xiao Li, a junior high school classmate with whom I had a good relationship, at the mall. After so many years, everyone's appearance is no longer as youthful as it was at the beginning, but she still recognized me at a glance in the crowd.

I haven't seen you in years! Xiao Li patted me on the shoulder excitedly.

All of a sudden, memories rose like Kong Ming lanterns. We had a brief chat about her current life, she has a happy family of her own, and I am still working hard.

Because she and her husband were going somewhere else, we didn't have a long conversation, and before leaving, Xiao Li told me, "I'll go first, and I'll definitely invite you to dinner this week." ”

This sentence made me excited for a week, and I look forward to meeting Xiao Li again every day, so that we can sit down and have a good chat. I waited and waited, and nothing happened.

Looking at her circle of friends, I realized that her husband had changed positions and she had also gone to other places.

I am reminded of the famous absurdist play "Waiting for Godot", where two homeless men spend a long time waiting for Godot, a man who never appeared. In the process of waiting, there is anxiety and anticipation. There is despair, and there is joy.

It's like I was waiting for Xiao Li's ** that week.

Perhaps the waiting itself is meaningless, but the sensual human being has to give a deep meaning to the waiting.

We had a good past, and that's enough. It's something that belongs only to the two of us.

And she should also go to a better place and have a better life.

Only then did I realize that we were not separated, but just went to a better place together.

You have to be as good as ever to her and become friends with her new friends!

A person will have many friends in his life, and he will make some different friends at different times and in different places.

Don't pay too much attention to these, what is tied together all day is not necessarily the best friend, as long as your friendship is deep, time and distance are not a problem. You'll always be best friends!

Ask for a review! Thank you!

With her, everyone has their own circle, and you can't take possession of him.

Everyone has their own circle. There are people coming in and out of this circle.

It's like taking a bus, there are only so many places, and someone gets off the bus and someone gets on the bus.

You can't force your friends to be by your side, only to have you as a passenger race?!

People will meet many different people in their lives, and so many people have become good friends with you, who know each other and talk about the world. Good things and bad things have been shared together. Suddenly there is no more, and it is natural to be lost.

The fact that she has a new friend doesn't really affect your relationship. If new friends can get along, you can become a new group. It's not easy to get along, your friends are still your friends.

If with the passage of time, maybe you feel that there is a gap between you, the common language is becoming less and less, and the relationship is not as harmonious as ever. Then, don't force it, at least you used to be friends and have good memories, you should be grateful that she has appeared in your life, after all, in the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet!

Could it be that you are overly concerned, or should you sit down and talk?

No, because the friend she made would eventually become our mutual friend.

Now I am a Sichuan girl who goes to class and eats together every day, and I think it may be because we are both from Sichuan, even though we are not in the same dormitory, we are still attracted to each other and become inseparable good friends.

I think we people in Sichuan are generally more spicy, at least the people I knew before and the Sichuan people around me are like this. But the character of this girl with me is not like this, she is really docile, she is what I say, she listens to me no matter what it is, and even sometimes I suspect that she is not from our Sichuan.

Because of her docile character, she has a lot of friends, but those friends are basically people of the same type as her. As for me, my personality is really changing, and my nerves are also very big, so all the friends I make are people of the same type as me who are two years older than me.

The new friends she made were also my favorite, and every time she made new friends in our school club, she would introduce those friends to me.

In fact, I asked her why she wanted to introduce those unknown friends to me and so on, but she said that I couldn't make friends on my own, since they were our friends, and you were my best partner, of course I had to introduce you to each other.

I'm really grateful to her for that, because it's a testament to me that I'm really a good friend to her. So not only am I not angry that she has made new friends, but I am also very happy for her.

When she has a new friend, I will first think about whether I have done something wrong, if I don't care about her much lately, and I will ask her what has happened to her lately, if I have done something wrong, and then I will ask her how the two of them are doing. I will feel bad, but I will not stop her from making new friends and interfering with their friendship, but I will try to correct myself and try to fit in with them, play with them, find her new friends good and correct my mistakes.

Although she is my friend, I can't interfere too much in her life, otherwise she will be bored with me, so that she will not be with me, so although I feel uncomfortable, I still have to comfort myself to let go of a little bit, my friend is a living organism, not a person's belonging, I still have to try to correct my own mistakes, let my own development be better, let my friends like me more, come on. Come on!

It's normal to make friends, we meet too many people when we are growing up, and as long as we don't have problems, it's impossible to make only one friend. Friends will be there for us no matter when we are in trouble, when we are lost, when we are excited, and sometimes even if they can't help themselves in difficult times, as long as they are by their side, it is good. Because we are familiar with them and how they feel, we feel very grounded around us.

On the road of life, we also need to make a lot of friends, if a person does not have a few friends, then how sad it is to wait for old age, life without friends is not a complete life. I have always believed that friends are indispensable in my life.

When your friend has a new friend, you have to remember that there will never be a replacement, if the relationship really becomes estranged, you must first put the reason for this in your own heart, no one can replace a person, unless you care too much about this matter and change the original self. You can't stop a person's right to make friends, friends can be together, and he or she can make new friends proves that he or she treats the people around him well, we have to be happy for him, not unhappy in our own hearts. If the possessiveness is too strong, it will cause a sense of restraint to your friends, whether it is friends or lovers need to make friends, if you shrink their space too much, I believe that who will eventually be unable to stand it.

So I think that I can never have only one friend in my life, and it is a good thing for my friends to make new friends, to prove that I have not made the wrong friends, real friends will not change your direct relationship because of meeting less and talking less, let alone shallow, love may not last forever, but friendship I believe will accompany us for a lifetime.

There will be a little bit, because I am afraid that if you have a new friend, you will leave me behind, and the relationship with me will not be so close.

You won't be unhappy, everyone has their own social circle, and it's not that he or she can only make friends with you.

There may be feelings of jealousy depending on how you think about it.

If you are a very close friend who alienates you because you have new friends, then you will naturally feel uncomfortable and feel left out.