Is it appropriate to give something to a happy person to treat their pain?

I think when you give her something, you should explain to her, "This is a special gift, don't open it when you're happy, wait until you're unhappy or sad to open it, that way, it will help you drive away the unhappiness and sadness, I'm not cursing you for being unhappy, but people don't always be happy every day, right?" I hope this little gift can help you forget all the unhappy and sad things", in this way, she will feel that you care about her, and in the future, if she is really unhappy or sad, she will think of your gift or see this gift will think of you.

Everyone has a sad time, but there is no such thing as a curse.

If I were you, I would tell her my intention in giving her this gift; If I were this girl and I heard someone say that to me, I would feel that I would not be alone when I was sad, and I would be very touched.

You can send it out in the name of fun, don't deliberately say anything special, if she needs it, she will naturally find out, or you can remind her when the time comes.

Why don't you make this thing yourself? Isn't it time for you to give her happiness? Since you love her, you should give her happiness

I don't think so, at least I don't think there's any malice in what you're doing, I just want to be happy every day, what do I think!

Sniper Curse is generally thought so.

There is no such thing as a person who is absolutely miserable in this world, and there is no person who is absolutely happy. Heaven does not give all the bad things to one person, nor does it give all the good things to another person. The person you are talking about living happily in pain is just that person sees the world from a different perspective and state of mind.

For example, if a person is very poor, and he does not have enough food and clothing three times a day, and you think that he is a very miserable person, this is just that you see his painful side. He must have had his own happy side, he might have married a virtuous wife, willing to be with him as a poor bastard, and every day as long as they could be together would feel happy.

This is the person who has joy in pain. It's just a matter of angle, it just depends on which angle you want to look at.

Another example: you see a person who has been lonely all his life, and every friend around him is married, and you think that person must be very painful to be lonely for the rest of his life, and loneliness is a very painful thing, you will think, since this person is so painful, how can he be happy? In fact, this person also has his own happy side, although he is lonely, he has a lot of personal space, thinks a lot of wisdom in life, understands a lot of life truths, and sees the realm that others can't see.

This person is also very free, when he feels tired, he takes a vacation, travels everywhere, has no family burden, and has very little pressure, do you say he is a happy person in pain?

In fact, everyone has their own pain, everyone has their own sad side, but these people also have a happy and happy side. As long as they see their happy and joyful side, they are able to be happy and satisfied. We human beings will suffer, we will go to the tip of the horns, because we only want to see the happiness we want to see, and if we don't see it, we will feel that the world is apocalyptic, very painful, and there is no happiness at all.

This is the person who can only see the pain angle, and if that person can see the happy side of himself, his state of mind must be very different. For example, if the person you love very much doesn't love you, you fall in love with someone else, and you are very miserable, because you just see that the person you love doesn't love you, but you don't see the person who has always loved you, your relatives, your friends, or even the people who admire you, and you seem to ignore them, so you feel pain.

If you divert your attention a little, you will see that you have a happy side to yourself as well.

There are positive and negative sides to everything, happiness is pain, and pain is happiness. No one is absolutely miserable, and no one is absolutely happy. It's all just a matter of that person's thoughts.

Happiness and pain are with us every day, and the key is to see which side we want to see. Every person in this world has the ability to live a happy life in pain every day, and everything depends on their own state of mind and thoughts.

I am tired from work but make money, painful and happy.

Everything is accompanied by giving and receiving, and it is all painful and happy.

Don't take the bad things to heart.

Look at what you said, you feel that you are a little pessimistic, you can't accept this realistic society, in fact, there are some things you said wrong, why happiness must be superficial happiness, there is a kind of people in this world who belong to the contented people are always happy, they can be optimistic about the world, accept the reality of society, and meet what they have, so even if they are unhappy, they will face it with optimistic thoughts, you don't see these in your eyes, people are the happiest when they are young, and they are also the most carefree, But there is nothing wrong with having this good memory, everyone will have good memories in their memory, you have entered the society, you have to face everything in the society, that means that you have grown up, you have to accept everything around you, not the current thought, if you are really unhappy, why do you see things from multiple angles, when you change the angle, you will find that everything is different from what you saw before, people are happy and unhappy only between the line, depending on which side you want to stand on, A person's life is only a few decades, you are happy for a day, unhappy is a day, optimistic to accept life is the same, like you are now is also a day, how to spend these decades, I believe we don't need to say, you also know how to choose.

My wings were burned by a tear and I could never fly to heaven again.

More than once in my dreams, I imagined myself flying to heaven, as if heaven was so far away from me, as if it was in my heart.

I have been in high spirits more than once, and I have also imagined that the birds flying in the sky are flying like birds.

I have asked myself more than once why I can't go to heaven.

It wasn't until I couldn't fly anymore that I realized that my wings had been burned by a tear and I couldn't fly to ......heaven againThere is a feeling that it is always recognized as lovesickness when it is difficult to sleep.

There is a kind of fate that always believes that it is eternal after waking up from a dream.

There is a feeling that always understands that it is loss after parting.

There is a kind of gaze that always believes that it is attachment after a breakup.

Acquaintance is the most precious fate.

Missing is the most beautiful mood.

Concern is the most sincere heartbeat, greeting is the most beautiful language.

Some people with particularly strong self-esteem, no matter how bitter they are, they will pretend to be nothing, such people are the easiest to focus on the horns and the most painful, because they can't relieve their emotions in time and always suppress themselves.

Happiness is a day, and unhappiness is also a day, so why don't we choose a happy life.

If you want to cry, please be loud, don't suppress it, otherwise you are too stressed, and if you are depressed for too long, how can you smile?

You must have been a poet in ancient times! Read the following poems and let the psychological pain be forgotten Those who forsake me, the day of yesterday will not be kept;

Those who disturb my heart will have many troubles today.

The long wind sends autumn geese thousands of miles, and you can be a tall building for this.

Penglai article Jian'an bones, in the middle of Xiao Xie and clear hair.

All of them want to fly, and want to go to the blue sky and catch the bright moon.

Draw the knife and cut off the water, the water is more flowing, and the glass is more sorrowful.

Life is not satisfactory in the world, and the Ming Dynasty spreads flat boats.

It is a good poem, but the content is negative, no matter how good the poem is, it is better to be positive and happy, life is to hone more, if you can face it with a positive attitude, see clearly that difficulties are just a test, and what we have to do is to enjoy the joy of success after overcoming difficulties, since we choose to live, we should regard life as an adventure, an exploration of time, a glorious journey to overcome tribulations.

LZ's insights are profound.

Habitually raising the corners of the mouth is the best means of communication and the best way to soothe your emotions.

Hey, life is really hard.

It's not easy for people to be happy every day.

Hehe, I'm really happy and miserable.

I belong to the latter group, and I live in this kind of life every day, feeling depressed and confused. My life is not fulfilling, I always feel empty, and sometimes it is uncomfortable like the walking dead. I always apologize to my parents for being too much, but I am angry at their behavior.

How can I change the status quo, I want.

As the title says, whether it is happy or painful, it is a human emotion, only when the emotions between the two parties have flowed, can you feel happy or painful, and a person will not show love or anger to a stranger. The person who can give you happiness means that there is an emotional flow between you and him, so you can also get the emotion of "pain" from him. The same can be said:

The one who can give you pain, the one who can make you happy."

When happiness disappears, there is pain.

You thank God for letting you meet this person, and at the same time, you suspect that God sent this person to punish you. Why is He the only one who can make you happy and give you pain? Why are you willful and willing to change for him?

Why are you, who are not afraid of the sky or the earth, afraid of him?

The same person is both a reward and a punishment. ”

Because you love him or her and care about him or her.

Only the people you love dearly.

will give you happiness and pain that follows you like a shadow.

You are happy because he is also in love with you.

You are suffering because he is not as perfect as you think he is.

Beautiful and romantic love story.

It is inevitable that you will be shattered by the unforgiving reality.

Simplicity He knows that your happiness is based on knowing your pain.

He understands what makes you happy, and he understands what makes you miserable!

Because he has touched on your emotions

No, only the person you like will make you happy and give you pain.

Because if you really care, you will accept his joys, sorrows, and sorrows together, and of course you will be happy, and of course you will be miserable!

It's the feeling of "my heart hurts, but I want it to keep hurting."

Of course, happy people will have a painful side, which is inevitable in life.

It's impossible, who hasn't been sad, who hasn't been happy

No, the weight of happiness in the heart is much heavier than the weight of pain.

If you are human, you will suffer! Even happy people do the same! There is no such thing as a happy person forever!

It doesn't have to be pain-free! I just didn't say it!

No, it's good at turning pain into smiles.

There is pain, and sometimes I just don't want to say it.

Happy people hide their pain in their hearts.

Happiness is roughly the same, happiness is given by others, and pain is self-inflicted.

I have had the same experience ... And more than one ... Maybe the problem is with me ...

Or that people have this kind of emotion. Some people hide well, some people hide bad... It could also be that our relationship is not as good as we thought.

。。Imagine ... If you fail to do something, a friend who doesn't have a good relationship with you does the same thing, he succeeds, you will be disappointed, he fails, comfort him and you will feel very happy...

Isn't it the same? /。。。

You're too sensitive, and some of it is purely in your own heart. Maybe sometimes when you are not satisfied, the other party just smiles kindly. Don't get too self-centered. To put it mildly, it's narcissism.

The best way to get revenge on someone else is to live better than her. Make yourself better and stronger.

I chose to stay away from him, but not to turn my face with him, and to be an ordinary friend with him.