Solving! What does it mean to be resentful but not hateful? Thank you!

For someone who loves you very much, if he betrays you, maybe there is only resentment and no hatred. Resentment is to complain about why he betrayed you, and not to hate is because you love him very much and hope that he is good. (The premise is that you really love, love who wants him to be happy.) ）

They have deep feelings for each other, and even if one party does something sorry for the other party, they just complain and don't hold grudges.

Helpless sorrow, without strong hatred for people or things.

This is just a representation of the literary language, and the vernacular literary is not resentful. There is also progression, there is resentment but not hatred.

Very complaining, but very uncome.

The former is because something is your fault, and the latter is because you don't take your fault to heart.

Anger but not hatred towards relatives and friends is a sign of love.

Remember him, but don't care about him and treat him as a fact in your heart.

Brother, my buddies, even if they hurt me, I will only blame them, not hate them.

Explain that this is a manifestation of your inner character! People's hearts are inherently good ......

I hate studying, and I complain about too much homework all day long, which is called resentment. But in order to survive in the future, I had to do my homework, which is not ruthless.

Life carries so much, too much.

There is no way out, and love will never be light.

Cheap friendship from east to west, south to north.

I have dreams, but I can't see the future of change.

Just as the highest state of love is to love so much that you can no longer love.

Li Gang (my dad is Li Gang), Li Shuangjiang (Li Tianyi's dad).

Self-hatred has no branches, and don't complain that the sun is tilting. —Zengguang Xianwen".

I only hate myself for not growing leaves on the side branches and not being able to absorb the sun, don't blame the sun for going off track and not being able to expose myself.

Extended meaning: Don't just complain about the objective conditions, find the reasons from yourself, look at your own shortcomings, and don't complain about others.

The idiom "complaining about the sky and others", if you encounter setbacks in doing something, you must find the reason from yourself, and you can't complain about this and that to find all the reasons, in that case, you can't do anything well.

Idiom source: Zi said: "Mo I know the husband!" Zigong said: "What is Mo Zhiziye? Zi said: "Don't complain about the sky, don't worry about people, go to school and go up." Who knows me? The Analects of the Constitution

Confucius said, "No one understands me!" Zigong said, "How can you say that no one understands you?" Confucius said: "I don't complain about heaven or blame people, I have learned some ordinary knowledge, from which I have learned profound truths." The only thing that knows me is probably heaven! ”

Literal translation: The lack of branches and leaves of trees is not enough nutrients for themselves, don't complain that the sun doesn't shine on you.

Extended meaning: Don't just complain about the objective conditions, but find the reasons from yourself.

Idiom source: One day, Confucius said to his student Zigong: "Does no one in this world know me?" Zigong was very surprised when he heard this, and asked

Teacher, how can no one understand you? Confucius said: "Don't complain about the sky, don't care about people, go to school and go up, and those who know me care!"

It means to say: "I will never complain that God is unfair, nor will I easily blame others, the truth of life and things and the knowledge of astronomical fame and fortune, I can most of them understand, and the only person who understands me is God!" Later generations extended Confucius's words to the idiom "complaining about heaven and people".

Idiom truth: If you encounter setbacks in doing something, you must find the reason from yourself, and you can't complain about this and that to find all the reasons, in that case, you can't do anything well.

"Self-hatred tree has no leaves, don't complain about the sun tilting" literally: hate yourself for the tree has no leaves, don't complain about the sun's eccentricity.

The hidden meaning is: look at your own shortcomings, don't complain.

Hate yourself for having no leaves in this tree, and don't blame the sun for being eccentric.

Look at your own shortcomings and don't complain.

The lack of branches and foliage of trees is due to their own lack of nutrients, so don't complain that the sun doesn't shine on you.

This sentence makes sense, people who have no scheming can't live in the world. And blaming others for not having it, it is better to improve yourself.

**: "Waiting for Love".

Song: Acknowledgment Singer: Xin Xiaoqi

Admit - Xin Xiaoqi - Works Li Zongsheng.

Admit it, I still have a lot of feelings.

It's just that you don't dare to owe any more.

Otherwise, forget it and disperse like this.

At least you won't let her down.

I have never complained about any of this.

It is not pitiful to give to the one who loves first.

I knew the final outcome of the separation.

I have a reason not to give up.

Of course I don't hate you, and I never hate you.

Will try not to think of you.

Although it was once and only.

If you want to forget about two or three years, you can do it.

I will not see you, and I will not seek you.

I don't want you anymore.

As long as it's an occasional look back on the past.

There's still sweetness in memory, and that's fine.

Admit it, I still have a lot of feelings.

It's just that you don't dare to owe any more.

I think it's okay to forget it, just disperse like that.

At least you won't let her down.

I have never complained about any of this.

It is not pitiful to give to the one who loves first.

I knew the final outcome of the separation.

Who should be stupid enough to die.

Of course I don't hate you, and I never hate you.

Will try not to think of you.

Although it was once and only.

If you want to forget about being ruthless, you can do it.

I will not see you, and I will not seek you.

will never miss you again.

As long as it's an occasional look back on the past.

There's still sweetness in memory, and that's fine.

Of course I don't hate you, and I never hate you.

I don't want you anymore.

Although it was once and only.

If you want to forget about being ruthless, you can do it.

I will not see you, and I will not seek you.

I don't want to think about you anymore.

As long as it's an occasional look back on the past.

Then, I can only love you wholeheartedly and not let you be wronged. Watch over you and care for you like a beautiful rose! In this way, I think that even if you want to hate me, you will gradually melt away your hatred for me like the ice melts and turn into a wisp of purple smoke, and at the same time, you won't blame me anymore!

**: "Waiting for Love".

Song: Acknowledgment Singer: Xin Xiaoqi

It's not the same -- if you complain about what somebody did wrong and you hate somebody for doing something wrong, the latter is obviously a little deeper, maybe someone else misunderstood.

Two people have to understand each other, people and people's ideas are different, the so-called listener has a heart, the speaker has no intention, let go of the heart, listening is also a way to understand, just talk away.

If you really love him, then it won't turn into hatred no matter how long it takes.

I can't ask the Buddha Shakyamuni to say that people have eight sufferings, which are birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love and separation, five yin and blazing, and can't ask for. Birth, old age, sickness, and death are natural physiological sufferings; Resentment, love and parting, five yin blazing and unbelievable, are mental pain. Resentment will be with people or things that are resentful and hated, and it is impossible to get rid of it, which is a kind of pain; It is a pain to love to part, to be separated from one's dear ones; The five yin are blazing and bitter.

The five yin is the color of the desire to know. 'Fiery', fiery also. Sheng, many also.

Shade, obscuration, too. It means that these five dharmas can obscure our people's original enlightenment and sincerity, so that they cannot be revealed. I can't ask for it, but I can't get what I want, and it's a pain.

To live, to have to live (not to live or to die); old, can't ask for youth; sickness, not seeking health; Death, not eternal life; Love parting, begging for reunion; Resentment will be, and there will be no liberation; The five aggregates are blazing, and they can't be clear. Seeking is desire. If you can't ask for it, you will be distressed.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable in the world, but the suffering of "not being able to ask for it" should be exempted by subjective will. The strange thing is that throughout the ages, from high-ranking officials and dignitaries to ordinary people, most of them have tortured themselves on this "unbelievable". or tried their best, or tried their tricks, or exhausted the organs, or fought openly and secretly, and in the end it was "against Qingqing's life".

The things that I originally longed for can only be seen from afar, and cannot be approached, or even observed, but can only be put in the bottom of my heart. I can't stop, I can't ask for it. Emotions are inevitably sad, anxious and remorseful.