I m about to get married, I can t be happy, why am I not happy when I m married?

Why do you ask such a question? Is it just that he wants you to be nice to him?

Is he demanding? Is he bad for you? Didn't he think about you everywhere? Didn't he think about your future?

The pressure on him must have been great.

Everything he does can tell that he wants the best for you. It's just that he doesn't have the financial ability yet. If there is. He will definitely give you the best of the really best. A man who is poor will not be poor for a lifetime!!

I suggest you look at it from a different angle. What if he was you? I want to give my wife a happy family.

And all of this is done on your own. How tiring that is. He works hard outside alone.

It's definitely hard. You often give him a **. Send a text message to care a few words.

This gives him a lot of motivation.

One so for your sake. To such a good man to you ... What else do you wonder?

He's so good to you, what are you thinking?I don't know.

What are you thinking about?

It should be cherished, it is really not easy to get to this point. Although you have some estrangement on the issue of money, it can be solved through communication, and you can talk about it calmly.

Love is a feeling.

It's not a measure of your heart if you don't have love, but because of his goodness, his heart, his money, and make yourself fall in love with him.

Unlikely.

And I think if you're a bird chasing the wind, don't stop on the shore for the sake of fish.

If you really think you're suitable, then love him with all your heart.

But I think there's something in your text that you can't bear to be, maybe he's too good?

The text also reveals unwillingness.

Hehe, I think you already have the answer in your heart, but you need someone to say it...

Do you have any questions Isn't this your husband.

It's a little confusing...

But I think he loves you very much...

If two people really love each other, why don't you cherish this relationship?

Every man wants the woman he loves to be very good to him, and it doesn't mean that he will be happy if you buy him something delicious...

Perhaps, he just thinks that way you will care more about him ...

Not only do women want to be pampered, sometimes men also want to be loved...

Wondering, why shouldn't this relationship be cherished?

I think you should cherish it, I feel that he loves you so much.

I don't understand. All I can say is that you're suspicious or tired of playing.

If you still use "cherish", I don't understand it even more.

Let's communicate more, maybe you have different ideas, this can't be helped, your living habits are different. Communicate more and understand more.

It won't last long, marriage is not unilateral, because one party has not supported it, even if your relationship is deep, it will not last long, after marriage will involve two families, what you want to do has not been understood, for a long time, this matter may become the reason for your quarrel, and then it will become more and more tired, and the feelings will gradually be exhausted, so it is better to let go as soon as possible.

Of course, if the two of you are firm enough, it will last for a long time, but I feel that this kind of thing is very rare in reality, because there are many trivial things in life, which will gradually lead to disagreements, and there is also the support of one family, which makes it even more difficult to go on steadily. These still vary from person to person, and I hope you will have your own happiness as soon as possible.

Married but unhappy, because there is not much pressure when you are in love, you just care about enjoying a good love, and after getting married, you have to live a real life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there will be a lot of trivial things to worry about, plus life is not good, so there will be unhappy emotions.