What is it like to feel uncomfortable after rejecting a suitor

Confession has always been the last layer of window paper that many men and women need to pierce before dating, and only after piercing the last layer of window paper can the two officially communicate, and the last layer of window paper has become a problem for many people. Many people always confess again and again but are always rejected again and again, which makes many people doubt themselves, wonder if there is something wrong with them, and always confess again and again without success, in fact, it may not necessarily be your own reason, but because your expression is not used in the right way, as long as you change the use of a few small routines, you can turn unsuccessful confession into success.

It's the same with giving up someone, you know it's the woman you love the most, but there's no going back. Every sleepless day, you think hard about how to find a reasonable reason to disturb her, but the moment you pick up the **, you quietly put it down. Time is the holy medicine of healing, and all unbearable wounds, under the soothing of time, will slowly heal, scab over, and leave scars.

Although it hurts faintly when it is windy and rainy, it is still good.

If you like it, don't miss it, it's not easy to meet one, I think there's nothing wrong with doing a good job, feelings are like building a house, how can you go further if you don't manage well at the moment, if you think it's impossible to get married, don't try, you may miss a lot, people don't have the opportunity to start over, and the future is created by two people, not destined. Love requires impulsiveness and courage, and sometimes it also needs to be sloppy, and some people often tell me that you should be impulsive when you are young, and you will not be happy if you think too much, but what can be done about it.

I now have someone who has only met me twice, even if he tells him that I already have a male ticket, his phone blocks QQ and blocks QQ, and he insists on texting me. Do you say moved, really moved, how many girls in this world can meet someone who loves you so persistently. Is it acceptable, resolutely not, such a crazy pursuit of people who don't respect your opinions at all, in case you try to date and want to separate, it will be difficult to separate, you will definitely die or live, it is better not to start than this, it is good for each other.

My routine is basically to test the bottom of the opposite side first, to see how much pressure he can bear and how much blow he can take. Actions and daily contact should be kept as far as possible without ambiguity, for those who have a tendency to indulge and misunderstand, take the initiative to make an appointment to a public place that can maintain a private chat state, and for those who are a little ambiguous and uneasy (usually there is a possibility of planning to confess) are observed. Then whether it is our initiative or the other party's initiative, follow the following routine:

Show your appreciation. Thank you very much for the other party's liking, and those who dare to confess should praise each other's courage. Be clear.

Don't meet, don't connect, tell him you don't like him. I know that he likes you but you are not sure, do not give a clear reply, still want to test it, and are still sending goodnight. Well, it's a disservice to both of you, he breaks his heart, and you lose your reputation.

Nowadays, girls are more demanding, and they have a sense of superiority in front of their suitors, and they want to refuse those they don't like. And the sense of superiority is high. I feel that girls are not easy to chase now.

If you don't like it, don't be ambiguous, deliberately distant, behavior is greater than words, the other party will understand, don't wait for you to pick it out, he will leave far away, and bless you.

In daily life, many young couples have begun to talk about free love. Young couples are very sweet when they first start to fall in love, but as time goes by, the relationship will also fade. Some girls are better in their own right, and they attract the attention of many boys.

But some boys choose to get along with a girl's good friend after they can't catch up with the girl they like. What should I do if my suitor gets along with my best friend after being rejected by me? <>

1. Let go of the mentalitySince you have rejected the suitor, the suitor also has the right to pursue the new person. Although there may be a little discomfort in your heart, this discomfort can only be hidden in your heart and cannot be expressed, otherwise it may make others think that you are a person who is stepping on two boats. Seeing that the suitor can have his own happy life, he should also be sincerely blessed.

And girls must learn to enrich themselves, focus on their careers or studies, and should not always pay attention to their love. <>

2. Psychological suggestionIn this case, it is a normal phenomenon for girls to feel uncomfortable in their hearts, and everyone must learn psychological suggestion. You can properly express to yourself that you don't like the suitor anymore, and over time you really don't care about any of his actions. Therefore, in ordinary time, everyone must expand their social circle and make friends with many people.

In such a situation, you will forget about the past and start a new life. <>

3. Explain to a good friend that if you really feel uncomfortable in your heart, you can also explain to your good friend that the boy is in the same situation as you were before. Of course, this doesn't mean anything else, it's just to let a good friend get along with him, and then he doesn't have that heart anymore. I should also find another boyfriend, so that I can get out of the discomfort as soon as possible.

After all, there are many men in the world, and everyone must polish their eyes before looking for a boyfriend.

It depends on the reason why you are uncomfortable. If you have rejected the person who pursues you, it means that you have no feelings for him, so you have no right to stop him from pursuing others, right? So be generous. Bless them is, the right idea.

It only proves that this person didn't really like you before, and your friend is not a real friend, if it was a real friend, she wouldn't be with the person who once pursued you, and now you don't care about them, and you yourself is the most important thing.

This is a natural feeling of your own, since you don't like that guy, people have a chance to choose again, but it is precisely your best friend, the possibility of this reason is because you are with your friend, he originally looked at you, but you rejected him, he turned his attention to your friend, otherwise, your friend accepted.

At this time, you should make it clear to your good friend, and you should also tell your good friend, don't associate with your suitor anymore, it will make you feel uncomfortable in your heart, I believe your good friend is understandable.

Since you don't like him, there's no need to be upset, because you don't fit with him, he's not the type you like, and since he's starting to get along with your good friend, you should wish them to be happy for your good friend.

This matter of my world is caused by yourself, obviously you still have feelings for him, but you rejected him, and now he is dead to you, so he began to get along with your good friend. It's too late for you to regret it now. This is what you don't cherish, and you feel precious when you lose it.

It's you who reject others, and it's not that others reject you, what's so uncomfortable about that? If you don't love her, it doesn't mean that others don't want to love her.

If I feel uncomfortable, I try to see them as little as possible, after all, out of sight and out of mind, that's fine.

You can choose to distance yourself from them, and although you are uncomfortable, you can't interfere with each other.

There is nothing he can do if he feels uncomfortable, because he has already started to get along with his best friends, and he can only have as little contact with them as possible.

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you use out of politeness or consideration will make the opposite Li Fang feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is still hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. It is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his good; If you need to explain it to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself.

If you want to find him, you can first ask him to meet as an ordinary banquet and talk to him, and then he is willing to meet with you.

Why do you still want to seep into him and find him He refused Did you just find out that he Cong He judged it to be excellent If yes, it's okay to be cheeky and contact Just say hello normally Greet each other and pat the weather or work and so on.

Here you must ask clearly, what do you want to do with him when you reject him? If it's just for him to do a small favor, I advise you to go to someone else, if you regret it and want to find him, you can say something like this: xx (name), I rejected your pursuit before, please don't be angry, because I was not ready at that time, that is to say, I didn't think about maturity, after this period of consideration, and the state Qingkuan scriptures have been lit up with many things, so that I understand, what I want, what I need.

If you're still happy with me, can you think about it? I will wait patiently for you.

The suitor then wants to find him, and the suitor you reject is the person you are looking for, are they the same person, if it's a single person. You can go to her very generously, don't be embarrassed, since you have recognized yourself and like him, then go to him generously. Tell him clearly, what the hell is going on?

Maybe maybe Seemin didn't like him very much at the time, and he wasn't attracted to him, but later he found out that he was attracted to her.

You can recite and reject such a suitor, and you can tell him directly that the two of you are not suitable, because filming and being two people do not necessarily need to be really together, everyone will have their own ideas, and everyone does not have to be together.

You can apologize directly to the other person, because your bad refusal has caused the other person to be very sad, or said something in your heart that you want to reconcile with the other person, I think as long as you do this, then the two of you are likely to be together again.

I think you have rejected the other party's finch pretense, and you want to find the other party, then you must think of a way to get the best of both worlds, for example, you say that you have something to make the other party add you to WeChat or something, and then you express what you think in your heart, isn't this just too much? Since the other party likes you, as long as you mention it gently, he will be very happy and happy.

You can go and say that this idea of yours is the person who pursues you, Zi Qinshi or you don't like the other party, you can also say it directly, only the first chaos can make the other party completely dead to you, and can have a better relationship for you.

Since I rejected the pursuit of the other party, I think it is better not to cut off people to find each other, otherwise the other party thinks that there is still hope, and may want to continue to pursue you, in that case it may make you more depressed, since Chunwang does not want to fall in love with the other party, then stay away from the other party, so that your life will be better.

If you have rejected others, then you don't want to look for someone else, you have already caused a limb to others, what do you mean by looking for someone at this time? Since you can't accept people, don't give them hope.

Reject the suitor, and you don't have to look for him again.

You don't have anything to do with it now.

You can ignore the hail hall when you meet. If the relationship between colleagues is hidden, then you have to roll and bury a hello.

What do you have to say, what do you have to do with him, just say shoot the pants, don't hide it, otherwise it will be counterproductive, I hope mine is helpful to you, I wish you a good harvest in love and career, and you can find the other half of your heart.

If you reject the suitor, you can find him as usual, how to contact when flat-spine socks, how to contact Sakura, don't let the other party think that you are deliberately explaining something, people know the common feelings, let it be

The rejection is overwhelming. Suitors want to find him. How so? Originally. I'm young and ignorant. Tan Shi spoke slowly. Tang asked one now I want to be with you. Let's talk about what is in your heart. I'm still a nuclear faction in my heart. I'm pretty thin.

If you refuse him, you have to find Sun to find a good friend Kai Qiyou, otherwise people say that you are high, you can tell her the reason for your discord, and let the other party die for you, otherwise you are sorry for others.