Why is no one hurt when you are mature and sensible?

Because mature and sensible people belong to the existence of women in the eyes of others, no matter what they do, they can come by themselves, and after a long time, no one will feel sorry for you.

Because you are sensible, even if others are not considerate of you, you will make excuses for him, and mature people are not clingy, so no one hurts.

Some mature and sensible people don't know how to be coquettish, and every time they have something to endure, deal with it themselves, and solve it, others will feel that they don't need to be taken care of, and they feel that people like this are very strong and don't need to be spoiled.

Mature and sensible people are used to being strong to do their own things, and they don't need to ask others for help when they do anything, and they don't want to be coquettish and let people protect themselves.

Being sensible does not mean sacrificing one's own future, nor does it need to lose one's principles for others, nor does it mean that it is against the original intention of the heart to cater to the preferences of all kinds of people. Whether it is life, work or marriage, we will fight for what we should strive for, we will never reconcile what we cannot give into, we must put forward reasonable demands, and we cannot tolerate unfair treatment.

The main reason is that they may feel that this person is mature enough and sensible enough, so they don't need others to accompany them.

Life is for happiness, and happiness is our pursuit, we advocate this kind of life, in the journey of life we seek, chase. Yearning, struggling, but happiness is actually all around us.

Some roads must be walked by oneself to know what it means to be full of thorns; And some people must have loved themselves to know what it means to be ruthless and heartless.

After so many years, have you worked hard to become a sensible person who does not make trouble, does not cry? Whenever you are wronged, you silently choke in your heart?

Sensible is the standard for a person to grow up, but have you ever thought that when you become more and more sensible, the less people feel sorry for you. If you are sensible, not only will you not be treated well by others, but no one will understand your hard work, and no one will feel sorry for your concessions. You know why?

Because you never reveal your grievances, the people around you feel that you have no grievances; Because you are always thinking about others, everyone thinks that you should be good to them. Remember, when doing something, you must not do too much, if you are accustomed to others responding to your needs, then as long as you refuse once, then others will remember not the good you paid before, but your refusal this time. As Mr. Ma said, 100-1=0

And when you love someone, you can't love too much, if you always tolerate each other and accommodate each other, then as long as you can't achieve each other's requirements once, the other party will feel that your love has become less?

Sensibility depends on the situation. When you encounter difficulties, you can choose to support and understand the other party, even if you suffer a little bit and get tired, it doesn't matter. But what if the other party is vexatious?

I hope you can think about yourself well, don't suffer the grievances you shouldn't suffer at all, and be embarrassed by your own requests, and you must know how to refuse.

If you can smile a little more, it's okay if you're not so sensible, and the people who really love you will never easily abandon you because you are not sensible enough. Live freely, smile calmly, you don't have to please anyone to be treated well by others for the rest of your life.

What is sensible? To be sensible is to be wronged, because you are sensible, you don't dare to ask for anything, and you don't dare to ask others for anything, even if you deserve it, you won't put it forward if you are taken by others, so you have wronged yourself. That's sensible.

Why do many people say that sensible children are not hurt and can't be too sensible. Especially girls, if they are too sensible, they will be ignored by others and will not be cared about by others. So sometimes you should be a little wayward, so that others can care about your feelings.

Why do they say that sensible children are not hurt? I don't know if you have noticed, generally if a child is crying and making trouble and must play or must eat, then the parents are likely to not refuse, but if it is a sensible child, even if she wants to play, she may just mention it, if the parents refuse once, they will never bring it up again next time. No matter how much they want to play and how much they want to eat, they will hold it in their hearts.

Many people think that sensible children are more generous, but in fact, some children just don't want to embarrass others, so they choose to tolerate it. But some people don't appreciate it, they just think it's what you should do. No big deal.

In other respects, if you are too sensible, you will inevitably suffer. If a girl is too sensible, she may also suffer in love, but it depends on who she meets. Sensible girls are for the sake of others, so it's easy to make yourself sad and sad.

Blindly putting up with it will only make you more uncomfortable. But some people still think that's what others should do. If a sensible person meets another sensible person, the result will certainly not be bad, but if a sensible person meets an ignorant person, the result may not be good.

Therefore, it is not a question of whether people understand or not, but what kind of talents they meet is the most important.

Although it is not a good thing to be too sensible, I still hope that everyone can be sensible, sensible to your family, and sensible to the people who love you. Don't be willful in front of your closest people to make them sad, but be sensible in front of strangers and make senseless contributions. But don't compromise for the sake of others.

Such a sensible thing really doesn't hurt anyone. But being a sensible child is always more likable than a willful child, but a willful child is easy to attract the attention of others. Sensible is what people like.

Hoe the strong and help the weak, kill the rich and help the poor, haha, scare you.

Farming or farming takes care of the individual in question, because the healthy individual does not need to be cared for.

This will make him stronger.

Says who? Quite the opposite!

People are too sensible, and no one hurts? Maybe it can be said the other way around, because no one hurts, so it's sensible, it's really sad to say this, but probably the truth is the case, no one hurts since childhood, and they crave love, so they think of all kinds of ways, look at other people's faces and act, and pray that others like themselves because they become sensible, so when they are more sensible, others are more at ease, because they think that you will be very good, and you must have no problem doing anything, and you are more assured, but due to human character, it is not the kind of crying child who has milk to drink, and you can't change it. No way, so be it.

I can't say that if you're too sensible, no one hurts, mainly, to see if you can meet the right person, I still like girls who understand things very much, if you think that no one hurts if you are sensible, then it can only be said that the boy you like or your current boyfriend is not very mature.

Because if you've been pestering a boyfriend and putting your hopes for your life, all your have, on that boy, she can be tired, and you're going to be tired, and if there's a girl who keeps saying why don't you stay with me? After all, not everyone is rich in the second generation, if you don't work hard, don't make money, what will you use to support your beloved woman.

Therefore, a sensible virtuous helper is much better than a little bird or a delicate girl.

Of course, it is not excluded that some people like to be ignorant or very naïve, but after all, they are a minority, and if you are a very sensible and very intellectual girl, occasionally showing the look or attitude of a little woman, then it is a fatal attraction to men!

People who are often too sensible are more obedient and easy to consider problems from the perspective of others, and often wronged themselves! Over time, the people around you get used to it, so you always appear as a character who will hurt people, so others will ignore your feelings, this is human nature! Gift!

No, I think it is distressing to be sensible to a girl, and everyone not only has a good impression of her, but also will say that this girl's family education is good.

Too sensible to explain that you can especially understand others, so the people around you are used to being understood by you, cared for by you, and hurt by you, how can they hurt you? Habits are mutual, and the feeling you give to others is that they are dependent on you, so you need to adjust your own attitude towards others.