How do you feel about a cosy small city without the future you want?

One night, he woke up, and the place around him became empty, and he probably wouldn't look for her who was gone, because he knew that he couldn't give his beloved girl any promises right now. He would still be ready to go at three o'clock in the morning, as usual, watching the bustling crowds and selling his own breakfast without characteristics.

This is the daily life of a young man living in a small town, he may not have thought about the future, but he fantasizes that the future is too good, and he does not dare to think too seriously.

At three o'clock in the afternoon, they also organized to play badminton together, because they didn't know the cool feeling of working hard in a big city, those plans for you, those products you made actually had tens of millions of users, and those moments of hard work and rewarding themselves to buy and buy, they didn't understand.

Compare my profession to a doctor in a fourth-tier city. I am also a very professional person, and my medical skills in fourth-tier cities are also quite good, and I have studied in hospitals in Beijing and Shanghai for more than three years, and every one or two years, I will go to exchange for about two months. The hospitals where I have studied have also extended olive branches to me, and to tell me from the heart, I envy the income of doctors in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, but I don't want to go north.

The small city has my place. The first thing that comes to everyone's mind is me, in this circle, I am also a little famous, and the leaders will provide me with a better stage and resources, as well as more sufficient nourishment, and I can give full play to myself. Small cities have my hopes.

Outside of work, I used my abilities and circle of friends to open a private practice. The idea is simple, make up for the income. If it's a big city, it's almost impossible.

And the income of these two pieces is enough for me to live a happy life in a small city. I can't afford to buy a house in Beijing and Shanghai. In a small city, I am also a person with a career.

Staying in a big city or a small city is a personal choice, some people like to be comfortable and like to stay in their comfort zone, and some people like to jump out and work hard in a big city. I am from Northeast China, but I didn't go to Beijing, I chose Guangzhou, and I also learned about the differences between the north and the south, and saw more different things. Staying in ** is a personal choice, although I don't know what the education level and living conditions are in remote areas or other small cities, but everyone has the right to choose, and it is not the education of children that determines a person's height.

Maybe you don't have such a good education when you are young, but you can also choose your future when you grow up.

There is no comfortable life in this world at all, people in first-tier cities are tired of rhythm, and people in third- and fourth-tier cities are tired of being people. Maybe there are only two paths in life: either you are desperate to create value, or you are quietly waiting for old age.

However, only those who work hard are entitled to fairness.

As a typical example of a first-tier city who can't get along and goes back to a small city to find opportunities, my observations and experiences should be representative. Contacted a few old classmates who are still active, the so-called small town youth have a lot of fun, some have mixed a lot of titles, do this is a very fashionable social media operation project, and some are still members of the CPPCC at the district level, although the project is very naïve in terms of volume and quality compared with its peers in big cities, but it also looks like it is in the local area, and there is a car and a house, and the girl has entered primary school, and she is already a representative of the backbone of society, and it should be the middle class of the city, and the quality of life is enviable. This should be a blank depiction of 10-15 years after graduation and a front-line struggle to see the development of youth in small cities.

The absorption of factors by big cities has been the same throughout the ages, in the world. Entering Beijing to take the exam, making a living in Luoyang, etc., all reflect the adsorption of elements, so it is not something that only happens now. Is it true that young people have no way out in small cities?

I think the answer is no. Even though there are many opportunities to go north, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, small cities still have his light.

In the small county where it is located, there are almost no young people, let alone high-quality young people, and their jobs basically depend on relationships. The answer is that the Lord wants to leave here for tens of thousands of times, but he is helplessly limited to this chicken job, and he is still messing around. In a word, unless there is a special reason, young people must stay away from small counties.

Only after you have seen the best, enjoyed the best, and experienced the best in the early days can you be qualified to say, do I choose to live in a big city, or choose to live in a quiet small city. You are only qualified to choose if you have seen everything.

Many people said that they wanted to go back to the small county town for the sake of compilation. Actually, this question is difficult.

1. Salary income.

Salary income is an important factor in the establishment. If you don't want to go back to a small county town for the sake of compilation, then you can consider working hard in a big city. But be aware that although the standard of living is high in big cities, competition is fierce, and it is not easy to succeed.

Therefore, if you don't want to act impulsively, you must analyze your own strength and sell the target market at a loss, and then decide whether to sell and go back to work. It is a good choice to return to a small county town to live comfortably. The city is relatively developed, the transportation is also very convenient, and the material conditions are quite acceptable.

Moreover, the people in the small county town are very friendly and do not cause pressure to people. In addition, there are some special snack bars and specialty shops in the small county, which allow you to taste the food of various places. In short, if you want to get more financial benefits by compiling back to a small county town, this is definitely not a good place to go.

Two: the small county town is comfortable.

Although there are many disadvantages in a small county, it is also a good working environment. First of all, the price level of small counties is much lower than that of large cities. Secondly, the small county town has convenient transportation, which allows people to get better education and medical services.

Finally, despite the high rents in small county towns, the money won't break the bank. In short, in every respect, small counties are more suitable as employment destinations than large cities. So, do you want to go back to the small county town for the sake of compilation?

This question depends on the individual's situation.

Three: the big city struggle.

The big city is hardworking, the salary income is stable, and the working environment is superior. The small county town is comfortable and has less pressure on life.

At the age of 30, it is also quite a good choice to return to a small city, because the economic income may be a little lower than before, but the economic expenditure is also greatly reduced, and life in a small city is relatively less tense and may not have as many resourcesBut if you just want to live a peaceful life, eat something good or have a good financial trip, that's perfectly fine.

It depends on the individual's personality, if it is more easy-going, I feel that it is actually good to stay in a small city and enjoy a comfortable life, because the work pressure in the big city is very high.

It depends on your age. If you're between 20 and 30 years old, I think you should have a big dream and go to the big city. If you're almost 50 years old, you should stay in a small city.

Everyone has their own aspirations, if you feel comfortable working in a small city, you can stay in a small city to work, if you want to make a big difference, you have to go to the big city.