After being emotionally hit, the personality mutates, can you still plan to change?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, don't lose your temper with your family members easily.

    No matter what unhappy things you encounter, your family is always the most supportive and understanding of you, and no parent, brother or sister wants to see their loved ones unhappy and sad all day long. If you are really unhappy, try not to show it in front of your family and maintain family harmony to avoid unnecessary family conflicts.

    Second, don't get too attached to your past feelings.

    The past is the past, and even if what was once beautiful is, the beauty will gradually become cruel as time goes by. Without anyone, life still has to be passed, and every day is still faced. The sun is new every day, so let your mood be new every day!

    There is no need to be nostalgic for the past, it will only allow you to stay in the past and have no expectations for the future.

    Again, don't expect to get back together after a breakup.

    Since they chose to break up, it was because of various reasons that the two people were not suitable to be together. Since it is not suitable to be together, no matter how many memories in the past are just memories, it should be regarded as a reward from God, so that your life will not be so empty and lonely. Where there is a beginning, there must be an end, but the way it ends is different.

    You're just nostalgic for the old days, not the person, and when you really want to open up, you're open-minded.

    In the end, pull out the black and you will see tomorrow.

    Life goes on even if it's boring, doesn't it? It is not worth it to change your personality because of a person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Will the water become clear water after it is stirred, yes, it just takes time. You're still you.

    Just wait for the situation to turn away. There's also a sunny day!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can't transfer it yourself, it's good to find a professional to consult.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You lack an objective understanding of the problem, since you can write the above words, it means that you can still realize a lot of things, don't worry too much, you will get better, believe in yourself, you have to give up if you should give up, there is a saying that is not very good, today's giving up is for tomorrow to get better, you have to learn to give up, the girl is free and easy, the effect will be better, for things that are not yours, you can laugh and pass by I wish you happiness!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is best to find someone who is more tired and concentrates on work, and after a busy day, I just want to sleep、、、 and it will be normal after a while.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can notice that, and reason, and use reason to solve it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You hit a lot, I didn't watch it, too tired. Just according to your title.

    Everything in the world is reversible. Finish.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, emotions can be controlled with reason, and if you want to open up, it's not a big deal. If it is a physiological problem of menopause, it is recommended to take some soothing Chinese medicine, which has a good effect, and you can find it yourself from a doctor or on the Internet.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, the so-called healing of emotional wounds is not that you completely forget or let go of that person, but that you can live a person's fulfillment with that thought and regret, neither rejecting new opportunities, nor giving in casually

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't lose your temper with your family members easily. No matter what unhappy things happen to you, your family will always be the most supportive.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are unhappy, your family will always be the most supportive and understanding of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    First of all, I want to tell you that this is a normal phenomenon, and this can be called emotional inhibition. And I can see that you pay attention to yourself after you accidentally notice this phenomenon, for example, notice that you are laughing, notice that you are happy now, and then suppress it, and you will suddenly stop laughing. Just don't pay too much attention.

    If it's not for this reason, it is estimated that you have a lot of psychological things, many things will be you can't forget and make yourself sad, and when you are happy, you suddenly remember that of course you will be unhappy, and you can only rely on yourself to slowly untie the psychological shackles.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Oh, it's dense, and it's so laborious to read it

    People say that men's resilience is far inferior to women's, so men are very fragile, especially when they are emotionally hurt, it is easy to lose themselves, self-confidence, and self-motivated mentality.

    The negative impact is significant.

    But it is gratifying to have such a relationship, and it is very real love.

    In addition, if a person wants to be loved, respected, and trusted by others, he still has to improve himself, make himself excellent, get out of the shadow of the past, stand in the sun, do a good job, and help colleagues more. Harmonize with everyone.

    When you put the warmth thousands of miles away, you will be cold, and the reason why you are more depressed now and feel that others are not trustworthy is because you yourself give people the feeling that they are full of thorns, and you are protecting yourself. And in the process, force others to stay farther away from you

    Change yourself and make yourself confident.

    Let everyone see your excellence, your ability.

    If you want to have a lot, you also have the ability to have.

    It's not that you don't have that ability, but you have imprisoned it.

    So now throw away all the negativity, be brave, be strong, and turn damage into motivation to fight!

    When you have achieved something in your career, when you have more friends, you have gradually improved.

    Take your attention away and do what you have to do, give back to your parents, show what you have learned, you can do it, and when the people and things of the past come back to you, you will see a tall figure. Mature you!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You said that all three of your girlfriends ended in betrayal, then I think you really have to reflect on yourself.

    Not all women in the world are untrustworthy people, just like in many cases, people say that "falling flowers are intentional, flowing water is ruthless", which is often said to be a man's betrayal.

    It's good to love someone, to love them sincerely. But if you say that you don't care about anything for her, that's not advisable. Just like if you give up your internship in order to stay with your girlfriend, you will lose the opportunity to exercise yourself, if you don't have a better career development, what do you do to give yourself and the people you like a good future?

    Money is not everything, and no money is everything. Replace "money" with "work" or "career", this sentence is never wrong!

    Although you are young and a man, you don't even have the ability to settle down, what do you do to give women a sense of security? You don't say that you have "love to drink water", you don't need to eat, you don't need to have a room to shelter from the wind and rain, right?

    If you lose a relationship, you're going to look for death, and if I were your buddy, I'd look down on you!

    So, think about it!

    Good luck!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're not really mature yet.

    Men do more than that.

    It's not just about women.

    Men always have a bigger stage, not an Internet café.

    Men always have a hero complex, not an infatuation.

    You're exposed to too little of it.

    You haven't grown strong enough.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Time is the best healing medicine. It's going to be fine. Or re-contact with the girl will recover faster.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    What are some figures of speech? What exactly does it do?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Figures of speech include:

    Metaphor, white description, analogy (also known as analogy, divided into anthropomorphism, simulacrum), avoidance, transformation, layering, liner (lining), foil (backing, foil), inverted, inverted, overlapping, overlapping words, top true (also known as thimble, beads), contrast, duality (battle, team battle, row couple), renovation, repeated, rhetorical question, rhetoric, imitation, imitation, flying white, sub-inheritance (and mention, co-narrative, co-saying); Overlapping intricacies, compound partialities, sharing, conjunctions, calls, intertextuals, conversions, loops, palindromes, reductions, borrowings, questions, ambiguities, comparisons, conjunctions, facsimile paintings, columns, lian, exaggeration, warnings, manifestations, puns, tautology, overlapping, referencing, diction, quote, transfer, summation, homonym, after breaking, symbolism, mosaic, word analysis, euphemism, euphemism, synaesthesia (transference, transfer), jump, transliteration. There are 63 types in total.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are sixty-three categories of rhetorical devices and seventy-eight sub-categories. By modifying and adjusting sentences, the use of specific forms of expression to improve the effect of language expression.

    The broad categories of rhetorical devices include:

    metaphor, white drawing, analogy, avoidance, transformation, layering, padding, foiling, overlapping, intricacy, compound partiality, sharing, co-saying, calling, mutual, intertextual, conversion, loop, palindrome, degrading, borrowing, questioning, ambiguity, arrangement, conjunction, imitation, column, connection, exaggeration, warning, display, puns, tautology, overlapping, referencing, diction, quotation, transfer, must be true, homophonic, after the break, symbol, mosaic, analysis, euphemism, euphemism, synaesthesia, jumping, transliteration, inversion, inversion, overlapping, overlapping, superimposing, superimposing, contrasting, dual, refurbishing, repeating, rhetorical question, rhetorical language, imitation words, imitation, flying white, sub-inheritance,. There are 63 types in total.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. The main rhetorical devices used are as follows: metaphor, analogy (also known as analogy, divided into anthropomorphism and simulacrum), exaggeration, comparison, duality (also known as battle, couple), repetition, borrowing, parasusion, intertextuality, questioning, quoting, calling, rhetorical questioning, and Dingzhen (also known as Lianzhu).

    2. Rhetorical techniques are ways and methods to improve the role of language expression by modifying and adjusting sentences, and using specific forms of expression.

    3. Among them, metaphors can be divided into: similes, metaphors (metaphors), borrowed metaphors, metaphors (also known as complex metaphors), inverted metaphors (also known as reverse metaphors), antimetaphors, mutual metaphors (also known as echoes), metaphors (can be divided into strong metaphors, weak metaphors), metaphors, curved metaphors, ornaments, and metaphors.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Commonly used rhetorical devices are: metaphor, personification, exaggeration, comparison, duality, repetition, questioning, and rhetorical questioning. In addition, the text also deals with contrasts, substitutions, quotations, puns, ironies, thimbles, and calls.

    Common rhetorical methods include: metaphor, analogy, borrowing, exaggeration, duality, comparison, questioning, and rhetorical question. The purpose of learning rhetorical common sense is to serve the practice of language.

    First, they can identify various rhetorical devices in the language, and then understand their applicable effects; At the same time, they should be able to use these rhetorical devices to improve their ability to use language. The rhetorical method is also known as the figure of speech. According to expert research, there are as many as 70 kinds of Chinese figures of speech, and there are more than 10 common ones.

    1) Metaphor. It is a rhetorical method of using a concrete, superficial, and familiar thing or situation to illustrate another abstract, esoteric, and unfamiliar thing or situation. There are three forms of metaphor, metaphor, and metaphor.

    The form of a simile can be shortened to: A (ontology) such as (metaphor: like, like, if, as if, as if, as if) B (metaphor).

    The form of the metaphor can be reduced to: A is (metaphor: becoming, becoming, becoming, becoming, becoming, becoming) B.

    A simile is a resemblance in form, and a metaphor is a conjunction. Metaphor: Only the metaphor appears, and neither the ontology nor the metaphorical word appears.

    Such as: the bird's ambition to know the bird!

    2) Borrowing. does not directly name the person or thing to be said, but borrows a name that is closely related to the person or thing instead, such as replacing the whole with a part; Replace abstraction with concrete; substitution of features for ontology; Use proper names instead of generic names, etc. Such as:

    Don't take a stitch from the masses. (all the property of the masses on behalf of one stitch and one thread).

    Don't eat in a big pot. ("Big pot rice"generation abstract"Egalitarianism")

    The white-bearded man sat in the corner and smoked a dry cigarette. (The white beard is a characteristic for the ontology).

    Tens of millions of Lei Feng are active on the land of the motherland. ("Lei Feng"Replace abstract communist ideas with concrete images).

    3) Analogy. A rhetorical method of writing about people as things or things as people, the former is called simulacrum, and the latter is called anthropomorphism. Such as:

    You should neither your tail nor hold your tail between your legs. (Scoomorphic).

    The wax torch turned to ashes and tears began to dry. (anthropomorphic).

    4) Exaggeration. A rhetorical method of enlarging or narrowing the image, characteristics, role, and degree of things. Such as:

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Metaphor, white description, analogy (also known as analogy, divided into anthropomorphism, simulacrum), avoidance, transformation, layering, liner (lining), foil (backing, foil), inverted, inverted, overlapping, overlapping words, top true (also known as thimble, beads), contrast, duality (battle, team battle, row couple), renovation, repeated, rhetorical question, rhetoric, imitation, imitation, flying white, sub-inheritance (and mention, co-narrative, co-saying); Overlapping intricacies, compound partialities, sharing, conjunctions, calls, intertextuals, conversions, loops, palindromes, reductions, borrowings, questions, ambiguities, comparisons, conjunctions, facsimile paintings, columns, lian, exaggeration, warnings, manifestations, puns, tautology, overlapping, referencing, diction, quote, transfer, summation, homonym, after breaking, symbolism, mosaic, word analysis, euphemism, euphemism, synaesthesia (transference, transfer), jump, transliteration. There are 63 types in total.

    Turn left|Turn right.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Comparison, metaphor, personification, duality.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehebai, you know that you are very willful, always making your mother angry, and even beating your mother, throwing things and screaming.

    DAO pours out self-sufficiency pressure, and your inner mother becomes your punching bag. Actually, you love your mother very much, and you can change it completely, but you need to start small.

    1) Willful and straightforward, joy, anger and sorrow are all written on the face, but it is not a perfect advantage, in China's existing situation may bring trouble, it is very necessary to be good at restraining your emotions, you must start from small things to learn a little deep, the so-called three times a day to do this, your mind can be regarded as beginning to grow up and mature.

    2) Relieve pressure, prevent restraint, change your own urgency, learn to be slow and organized, only stable people can do great things, all day long, it is difficult to do monkeys are successful.

    3) Usually belong to the kind of girl who is very quiet and cheerful, and only gets angry with her mother, which means that you love face very much and have friends and righteousness, but you know that your mother loves you the most, and you must not let your mother get hurt as a child, although your mother can understand you best, but you can't do this.

    4) You don't need to be a pampered 14-year-old girl, you need to learn how to be a good daughter. Don't be violent, you will become a mother in the future, how should you deal with your children? On her birthday, she should bring a cake to her mother and sing a birthday song to comfort her.

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