I ve been out of love for 4 months, repeatedly, and I haven t gotten better, what should I do?

That proves that you are still in love with the other person, then don't hesitate, take the initiative to talk to her, if the other party doesn't want to be with you at all, then you should let go, try to start a new relationship, is the most effective way to forget her.

Every time I want to text her **, I tell myself that if I give her ** text message again, I will die, which is the most poisonous, but it is also the most effective, delete everything about her that reminds you of her, if not, go on a blind date, meet a new girlfriend, and you will always forget.

That's when you love with your heart. The best way is to regain a sense of self-worth, find the carefree self of the past, and make new friends for a new environment.

Time is the best medicine, and some things can be met without seeking, so let it be. Change the environment and meet new people. Put love in your heart, and you will slowly forget.

If he still loves you, tell him that you can be reconciled!!

Since she loves so deeply, why should she share it with you, you are so good, she should feel happy.

Or reconcile.

Or let time fade away.

Don't overthink it! Find something else to do. You'll forget about it slowly.

The old does not go, the new does not come. Find another one.

It's really not good, reconcile.

You're only 4 months old! You'll be better off over time!

Try to redeem or find a new person.

I'm also out of love for almost 4 months, and I don't see how to get better, and sometimes I really want to smoke myself to death, and the authorities are obsessed, and I really want to know what to do to get better.

Everyone has different strengths, when rebuilding a relationship, you should face each other squarely, rather than comparing the advantages of your ex-girlfriend with other girls, have you ever thought about the advantages that other girls have, do your ex-girlfriends have? Because you haven't faced the latter, you can't see the other girls' points, only see the shortcomings, you have to accept the girl you get along with with your heart instead of leaving your heart to your ex-girlfriend, and then think about it from another angle, since she has a lot of advantages, and you still can't get together in the end, that is to say, no matter how many advantages she has, it doesn't belong to you but to others, and the reason why you can't get out is that you don't want to give up at all, as long as you make up your mind to throw away what doesn't belong to you, you will definitely be able to come out.

My confession was rejected, and after a few months, I figured it out, and although I still feel uncomfortable sometimes, it doesn't hurt so much anymore.

It's normal, find something to do, and slowly replace the pain of falling out of love.

Because you've been holding on to the past and haven't really let go of your hand, you can get tired of the old if you like the new, so start over.

Reason: I can't think of it.

I can't tell who is right and who is wrong in emotional matters, and I can't tell who loves or doesn't love. It's just that the desire cannot be satisfied, and a balance is reached. & In fact, people are selfish, and the so-called selflessness is only because they hope that others will return the good to themselves, or they feel that their value is reflected in being good to others, and they are happy, and ultimately it comes from their own spiritual or material needs.

People's desires are constantly changing with the change of the environment, so the relationship between two people needs to be constantly adjusted by both parties, how much the wife can satisfy the husband, how much the husband can satisfy the wife, and the satisfaction is maintained at a certain level, and the relationship between the husband and wife will not break down. This satisfaction includes both material and spiritual.

Whoever leaves can live, the key is to be with whom to be satisfied, and have more happiness. People desire to love and be loved out of their own needs, not out of a specific need for a particular person. & Hurt and painful for a person, but his own needs are not satisfied in that person, and the gap between what he wants and what he gets is as deep as the disappointment and pain are as deep as the difference.

But we should recognize that it is not she or him who brings us pain, but ourselves. After figuring out the true face of feelings, you can actually adjust yourself very easily.

When you learn to let go little by little, little by little from clinging to external gains and losses, to inner self-understanding, that is the time to gradually move towards liberation.

Think about it, follow fate, it's your fate that you can't escape, and if it's not your fate, you can't ask for it. I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life.

The best way to alleviate emotions is to transfer the feelings, find someone to talk to, relax, exercise, and find new emotional sustenance.

If you fall out of love, you will fall out of love.

It is a necessary process for all people to grow.

First of all, it is better to come first"Congratulations"You.

It's slowly grown up.

This is a test from youth to maturity, and you will grow up smoothly after crossing it, remember that you are not the most unlucky.

When you mature, you understand that you are happy, and it is because of this experience that you grow to maturity.

In fact, most of the men and women are only two months old.

When two months have passed, two people need to run in for about half a year, and it is very easy to break up during this period.

But after half a year, what happened between the two was not just the good feeling they had at the beginning, but the real love and care.

The road ahead depends on this love in my heart and care.

If you have already said that you don't love it, most of it is because you can't arouse this love for you in your heart, and if you feel that you have no room for redemption.

For the helpless status quo in front of you, it is recommended to slowly choose to accept and forget. It's easier said though. Easier said than done.

If you don't want to let yourself be sad and painful memories, there are many ways.

Watch comedy movies. Find friends to play. It's dark to play.

Change your hairstyle. Change your mood (that's how I am) then.

Remember to take a day to reflect on the experiences and lessons that this relationship has brought you.

Reserve the right and faith to continue to believe in love.

At the same time, get rid of some of your bad habits and ways of doing things.

Then, seal up all the memories of this period, pack them up and stuff them into a corner of your brain, and don't take them out easily.

Days to come.

Try to make yourself better. It's more charming.

Quietly looking forward to the arrival of the next true love.

Everyone has an angel waiting silently.

It's just not time.

Later, now this ta will know.

I didn't want you to be a loss to TA in the first place.

Other than that. You're only 15 years old, and you're probably still in school.

Although my personal opinion is not particularly against puppy love.

But this age should be the age of absorbing knowledge and sunshine in the ivory tower.

It is recommended to focus on your studies and study hard.

Don't bother with these unnecessary relationship issues.

Now it's time to study.

In the future, after graduation, you can find a better job than others with a good university career and diploma.

At that time, after a period of hard work, you will have n more capital.

I'm sure you can meet the one who likes you more...

Silently bless you

Let's focus on studying! You're so young, I'm afraid you won't find a better one in the future!

Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, go and tell her, say you're unhappy, say you miss her, say you love her, say you don't want to leave her.

Haven't seen that girl hate a guy doing that.

The result will not affect your life, anyway, you said it, go ahead! Good luck.

I'm a person from the past, I've also fallen out of love, and I've struggled, the taste of falling out of love is very uncomfortable, the whole person just wants to be the walking dead, there is no solution, time can change everything, uncomfortable is inevitable, because this is a life growth process, everyone will experience, will pass. Let time settle your discomfort.