Annoyed with narcissism Narcissism, narcissism is a pathological psychology

What is narcissism hiding in disguise!

In fact, narcissism is very good, don't you feel good about yourself It's good if it doesn't affect others, just correct him if you're annoyed People are narcissistic, and you should have a strong psychological tolerance.

Around us, some people will always give people a sense of narcissism, of course, psychologically speaking, proper narcissism can boost a person's self-confidence and can be more successful. However, there are some people who are excessively narcissistic, that is, narcissism, which is a pathological psychology.

What are the characteristics of a narcissist?

1. They always direct the conversation to themselves.

"If you're talking to a narcissist, you might start talking about who has cancer, but soon the conversation turns to talking about his new car," the psychologist explains. "Narcissists don't care about others from the bottom of their hearts, they only see themselves.

2. Narcissists like to "climb the dragon and attach the phoenix".

Psychologists point out that narcissists, in order to better promote themselves and make themselves sound more lofty, sometimes say that they know a certain celebrity, so as to improve their status.

3. Not all narcissists are proud, and some are very shy.

When people think of narcissists, they always think of the types that speak loudly and talk loudly, but in reality narcissists can be quiet and reserved. Psychologists explain that there are two types of narcissism: pompous and shy.

The pompous type is expressed in the form of braggadocio or ostentation; Shy narcissistic people may not shout loudly, but they will silently fantasize that they will develop one day in the future, and secretly hate others in their hearts. There are also narcissists who are both pompous and shy.

4. Narcissists love to tell stories that are pitiful.

Narcissists often talk about themselves. Stories, sometimes told many times, may be related to personal heroism or may portray themselves as adventurous trailblazers. Psychologists explain that such stories are full of tragic heroism, and for narcissists, everything is due to not being understood or others not seeing their worth.

5. Narcissists are obsessed with famous brands.

That's not to say that all shopaholics are narcissists, or that all narcissists are shopaholics. But one of the hallmarks of narcissism is to show its high-end status, and this is often expressed through objects. Narcissistic people are more interested in prestige or status, they don't like to buy bargains, and they are never willing to bargain.

In short, in the opinion of psychologists, narcissism is doubly harmful, not only narcissistic people will have a certain impact on the normal life and communication of others, but also because they do not recognize that they have psychological problems, they will get into trouble. So, if you find yourself overly narcissistic, then it's better to see a psychiatrist.

Narcissism refers to the tendency of an individual to treat their body as if they were a sexual object. The narcissist appreciates himself, caress himself, and uses it to achieve complete satisfaction.

After reaching this level, the narcissist has the nature of sexual perversion, and even the whole of the individual's sexual life is monopolized by it.

Narcissism is not a sexual perversion, but an instinctive self-interest for self-preservation.

The individual is indeed a dual being: one serving one's own ends, and the other serving a connecting point to oppose one's own desires (or at least unwillingness).

Individuals see sex as one of their ends, but from another point of view. He is nothing more than an appendage of the "germ cytoplasm" that he gives his energy at its disposal in exchange for pleasure. The individual is only a medium through which an immortal substance (possibly) inherits and eventually decays in itself—like an heir to a limited property, which can only be possessed temporarily.

The child's charm is largely due to his narcissism, his smugness and incomprehension, and the charm of the finch like some animals is that they don't care about us, like cats and carnivorous birds of prey.

The great charm of narcissistic women has the opposite aspect. The considerable dissatisfaction of the man who loved her, the suspicion of her love and the complaints about her mysterious qualities, largely planted the seeds of disharmony between the types of object selection.

1 For narcissistic people, love may be:

1) The present self;

2) past self;

3) future self;

4) Someone who once belonged to him.

2 For an attachment person, the love may be:

1) the woman who raised him;

2) Men who have protected him (and in this case, replacements).

Parental love – touching and innocent – is nothing but a rebirth of parental narcissism, which, while transformed into object 1ove, unmistakably reveals its true nature.

The ideal that the individual sets for himself is nothing more than a substitute for the narcissism lost in childhood, in which he is his ideal.

One of the goals of self-development is to start with a departure from primitive narcissism and then desperately recover.

The top 10 manifestations of narcissism are as follows:

1. Immerse yourself in your beauty. One of the most typical manifestations of narcissistic people is that they think they are unparalleled in beauty and are immersed in it.

2. People who are obsessed with dressing up narcissism think that their beauty is invincible in the world, and ordinary decorations cannot match their beauty, so they are particularly obsessed with dressing up.

3. I don't have many friends. Narcissistic people are usually self-centered, and in the process of interpersonal communication, they will not learn to think about others, so they are easy to hurt others verbally without knowing it. And narcissistic people are blindly confident, thinking that others are inferior to themselves, so that in the process of communication, they will unnaturally reveal a sense of contempt, which makes the people around them very uncomfortable.

4. Desire to be unique. Narcissistic people are always self-centered, they think they are perfect, and in order to distinguish themselves from the rest of the world, they are always amusing and seeking uniqueness. Whether it is in appearance or behavior, they pursue to be different from others, and even feel out of place.

6. Criticism cannot be accepted. The response to criticism is anger, shame, or shame (although not necessarily manifested).

7. Good instruction. Likes to instruct others to serve themselves.

8. Excessive arrogance. Exaggerated about his talents, hoping to receive special attention.

9. Think about it. Thoughts and fantasies about unlimited success, power, honor, beauty, or ideal love.

10. Overconfidence. I firmly believe that the issues I am concerned about are unique to the world and cannot be understood by some special people.

1. If you can leave, you can leave, and if you can end the relationship, end the relationship, because don't believe that you can change them, extreme narcissism is generally a personality problem, it is not a disease but it is more terrible than a disease. Unless this person suffers a big loss, has a lot of bad luck, and wants to change it to the extreme, external forces can't shake them.

Second, if you can't leave, then you have to protect your body with a vajra cover, and do everything you can to understand yourself and protect your heart. Know who you are, where you are, what you're doing. That is, to increase one's self-confidence and self-esteem.

3. If you have a strong enough heart. If your heart is strong enough and not afraid of conflict, then you can go head-to-head, express your point of view directly, find the logical loopholes in the other party, point out his exaggerated or untrue parts, and the cycle repeats itself to infinity.

It depends on your relationship with the other person, if the two are subordinate to the relationship, he often narcissistically elevates himself to belittle you, for example, the other party says: You are too ugly, why did I fall in love with you in the first place. You can reply:

You don't look very good-looking, and you're not even better than me! I still feel like I'm at a loss. It's just half-jokingly to go back.

When it comes to narcissistic people, you don't need to take their words too seriously, let alone take them to heart. Especially in the relationship between lovers, a thick-skinned person, in the case of ensuring that the other party is not angry, it is good to reply or simply ignore it, many narcissistic groups are derived from the inferiority complex in their bones, and deliberately use narcissistic behavior to cover up their inferiority complex. In psychology, the opposite of narcissism is low self-esteem, and in the same way, the opposite of low self-esteem is also narcissism.

The so-called love house and Wu, if the other party has no major faults, you don't have to worry about him, and you can't change others, then change yourself, adjust your mentality, get along well, and cherish each other.

If the other party belongs to other relationships such as friends or colleagues, then when communicating, try to follow his topic, listen more and make less remarks, after all, for narcissists, they often behave self-righteously and have a strong sense of subjectivity, and their suggestions and corrections will be counterattacked by them, and even prone to conflicts. The deterioration of relations due to disagreement of opinion outweighs the losses. Narcissists are very eager to get the praise and recognition of others, so try to praise and praise him, why offend them, get along with each other, the most important thing is to understand, understand the psychological attributes of others, give each other more understanding and tolerance, our heart can be wider.

You don't have to punish yourself for the mistakes of others.

l) Having a sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerating achievements and talents, and hoping to be considered superior when there is no corresponding achievement);

2) Indulging in fantasies of infinite success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love;

3) consider themselves to be "special" and unique, and can only be known or worked with by other special or high-status people (or units);

4) Asking for excessive praise;

5) There is a sense of honor, i.e., unreasonably expecting special preferential treatment or automatically submissive to his expectations;

6) Exploitation (taking advantage) in interpersonal relationships, i.e., taking advantage of the interests of others in order to achieve one's own ends;

7) Lack of empathy: reluctance to put oneself in the shoes of others to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others;

8) Often jealous of others, or think that others are jealous of themselves;

9) Showing proud, arrogant behavior or attitude.

People who have a crush on themselves extremely.

Feel good about yourself and be conceited.

It's just that I feel like I'm the best.

Self-recognition and self-appreciation are too much worse than one's own reality is called "narcissism", which is also a manifestation of overconfidence. The lack of self-confidence, aggressive self-portrait, and self-pity of Gu Ying are called "Daffodil Complex", which means "narcissist."

Sigmund Freud once defined "narcissism" as the state of his excitement about self-betting on Ribido. Individuals with this condition are called people with narcissistic personality disorder. In Ribido's way, that is, he reversely invests Ribido, who should have been invested in the object of the self, on himself, so that the patient is unable to establish effective and integrated intimate relationships with others, and often indulges in his own unrealistic fantasies (which is not the narcissistic nature of Xiaoqi).

However, Kohut revised Freud's definition of "narcissism" and proposed that narcissism is actually the essence of Ribido, or more directly, narcissism is actually the general essence of human beings, and everyone is narcissistic by nature. Narcissism is a genuine sense of self-worth that arises from competent experience, a real sense of believing that oneself is worth cherishing and protecting. That is to say, the narcissism of the average individual is not unhealthy, and our society as a whole also allows moderate narcissism, and only if the individual is excessively narcissistic and beyond the scope of what society can tolerate with narcissism, then it is unhealthy.

Kohut's collaborator and student Baske proposed a model to explain narcissism, arguing that narcissism can be reasonably articulated using contemporary cognitive psychology and other things. Narcissism is the experience of self-competence, and this acquired circuit begins with the expectant pattern of the brain, then proceeds to the next implementation decision, and then puts it into action—when the individual practices it in the real world, he or she receives feedback, which is fed back into the brain, and then the brain pairs this information with the previous expectant pattern. If the input is successfully matched with the previous expectation pattern, the individual may immediately experience the joy of self-competence.

There is no such thing as narcissism.

Bai release. Narcissists are du those who do not do.

Zhi is a strong dao

A kind of shackle back to people of good quality. Answer.

Just like the cartoon "The Lion King" that we saw. If narcissism is spoken, the Lion King is narcissist, and this reputation for "narcissism" is imposed on the lions by the jackals who form in hordes.

The Lion King is the eternal king of the world, and those jackals can only bargain in front of the Lion King when they are in a pack. But when the lion is angry, they can only run away and avoid it.

Also, don't mention psychology at every turn.

Did you know that psychology has ever been unemployed?

If you blame psychology for everything and force others to believe it, psychology will soon be ruined again.

Adopt me, dear.