The complicated relationship between my boyfriend and ex girlfriend, what should I do

After reading the landlord's narrative, I think that through the phenomenon to see the essence, basically there are these three facts can be confirmed, 1, you love him very much, 2, he loves you very much, 3, he is a career-oriented person, on this narrative, can have sufficient evidence to explain, and only these three points, the first and second points, needless to say, it is very clear that you can judge, three years of feelings, you are sincere to pay, otherwise you will not have the first paragraph of such an evaluation, the third point, through his handling of the company, it can be seen that he can not let go of the results of many years of businessBesides, you mentioned the comparison of your family background, (in fact, this should not be an inevitable element in love), maybe this is a kind of pressure on him, the disadvantages of his family background will inevitably make him pay more attention to his career development, and his career development status is also closely related to your future, this is a mature man must consider something, it is true that the company is dismantled, there are few good results, at least suffer huge economic losses, and at worst die young, a girl who has not graduated from college may think very little about the consequences, Let's clear our minds, in fact, there are only two key points you need to focus on, 1, your feelings, (true love should be pure, between two people, is people-oriented, economy, business, family background and other external conditions are also relevant factors, but you can't give up the basics, the final person we choose,)

2.Trust and loyalty, (look with your eyes, speak with facts and evidence, there are a lot of things you have described before that you are worried about, it is imaginary, so there is evidence to identify only the above three points, if you have sufficient evidence that this man is unfaithful to you, then there is nothing to hesitate, leave, love is not allowed to betray, but if not, please put mutual trust in the first place, this is the root of any affection).

Let go of your hands first, and also stay away from them to calm down for a while. You won't run away after all. If he can't let go of his ex-girlfriend all the time, then you won't be truly happy even if you're together.

In the face of feelings, many times you still have to be rational and think more long-term, even if it is heartbreaking now. I hope you are happy.

Life is because of this lot of helplessness and pain to become more real and complete, you can not go against your heart, put him in the bottom of your heart, think of him at night will burst into tears, the rest of your life will also be spent in the pain of missing him, but you can't go against the cruelty of reality, love is just a part of life, you still have a family and a career and many good friends, your life has more rich and wonderful places, and it is not a kind of happiness to not be able to be with the person you love the most as a regret, There are too many people like you in this world, but in the end, they are as happy as ever and continue to live, for yourself, and for the people you love the most!

No one is anyone's who, no one will be anyone's only, no matter how love is, there will always be an end one day. At the beginning, the parting will be like this, time is the healing of love, don't think too much, the choice of "leaving" is not up to you, you should let him decide, at present I think both of you are very troubled, the best insight is that you can go out with your friends to travel and play for a few days, and then figure it out, the mood of the two is also calm, then you can communicate with him, ask him what he wants to do! Don't keep a heart that still dwells in another woman's body.

I don't know if the third party is your boyfriend's first love, there are many people who say that the first love is the most memorable.

Let's get out for a while. It's not about breaking up and giving yourself a vacation. Give you all some time to think.

I don't know how to comfort you. In the eyes of men, career seems to be more important than love. Don't think about it so much.

I think it's time to get away and give your boyfriend something to think about. I guess it's also to force him to make some choices. If it were me, I would.

If I were you, give it to that man, and give yourself two choices, let him break up the company and go with you, or break up. There is no time to heal wounds.

Calm down, calm down, let's talk about it! Talk to your boyfriend, I have been in love with my boyfriend for two years, because of my family's opposition, we can't stay together for the rest of our lives! I'm also in pain, I can't help it, life is so helpless. Wishing us all happiness!

Go out for a walk, a man is a man after all, as long as he loves you and is good to you, it is enough, and you also have to learn to make a man dependent on you.

Alas!!! Only bless the landlord.

Treat your ex-boyfriend the same, be generous, don't be so petty, of course, you feel uncomfortable, it's normal for your boyfriend to be in contact with his ex-girlfriend or too intimate, and anyone will be heart-to-heart. You are to your boyfriend what your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is to your boyfriend.

First of all, it must be made clear that there is no doubt about it. Because if your ex-boyfriend and girlfriend still like you after the breakup, it is very likely that they will be entangled all the time. An unhealthy relationship is not good for both parties, and if it is because of some force majeure to break up, I recommend making it clear as well.

Don't let yourself become someone else's disappointment. If you still have a little bit of affection and nostalgia for the other party, then you have to make it clear, because it is very likely that this trace of affection and nostalgia will affect your life later. If you don't want to be pestered by the other party, you should also make it clear, so that at least the other person will die.

Hope mine can help you.