Please help me sort out my marriage! That s the kind of marriage I want!

You are just unwilling to pay to your husband and do not get the return you want, it is difficult to become a family, even if you want to divorce, but you have thought about it, maybe you will meet a second such husband such a family, you yourself are also a problem, you have to be strong, do you know that you have ever thought about changing yourself, and if you want to solve the current life, you can only live separately from your in-laws.

The most important thing in marriage is to be honest and relative, trust each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other. If for some reason the two people are unable to live and the relationship is broken, then I suggest divorce, and there is still a general life to live, and each of them is free to find their own half.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, in fact, I feel that you usually communicate very little, and you also need to pay attention to your ways and methods.

It's better to move out, it's just the two of you who will have an easy day.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and talk calmly with each other.

Truth be told, it's not uncommon for couples to be noisy and quarrelsome, and it can be the case for the rest of their lives. But there is a degree to everything. This degree is to be able to forgive each other no matter how noisy it is.

You've been with him for four years now, and I think you know very well about his personality and his family's attitude towards you, and I don't know if you've thought about changing anything in this environment, such as changing yourself to make yourself more in line with their requirements for you. Because getting along with others is like a product, and you have to meet the customer's requirements in order to be recognized. If you've done all of this and they're still doing it, then maybe you've seen the wrong person in the first place.

You say you want to divorce, if you don't have children, it's very easy, but if you have children, you can't say it casually, it's not a mother who says it easily, no matter what, children are your eternal concern. Originally, he was an only child, the child was very lonely, and if he was a single parent, the child would be hurt a lot, and there was a great chance that this kind of child would have a pathological personality.

Throughout your narrative, you always mention your in-laws, saying that they are sinister, cunning and hypocritical, and I don't know if it's because you don't get along and deliberately scandalize your in-laws or if they are such people themselves. If they do, then leave them for a while, and think about your children and their families during this time. It's best to discuss it with your parents, and if you really don't have any nostalgia, you can leave.

The above is just a personal opinion.

In fact, they are all trivial things in life, but the pro still amplifies its existence! Your husband is a person who is not good at words and can't communicate, this is normal, some men are like this, but if there is force, then you have to think about it, after all, domestic violence cannot be tolerated! As for the in-laws, you don't have to pay attention to them, you really can't get together, you have separated, you can have your little family!

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, if you really don't have communication or feelings with your husband, then it's better to separate it, or you can try to go out alone first! Don't always be so unhappy, I hope you will untie the knot soon!

It's too uncomfortable, let's separate, mother-in-law is playing right and wrong, my husband doesn't know how to feel sorry for you, I don't have any status in this family, of course there is no joy in life, such a marriage is meaningless, let go and find your own happiness.

My mother-in-law is also this kind of person, and I am also very disgusted, and sometimes I hate it in my dreams, and I grit my teeth, and it is much better to live separately, out of sight, out of mind, and out of mind.

Hehe. If you still love your husband. Also cherish this family. It's better to sit down as a family and have a good talk.

Wishing you happiness!

Yes, I never wanted to be lonely until I grew old, and I never thought about never getting married for the rest of my life, I like children, I like the feeling of a family talking and chatting and eating, so I yearn for the love of choosing a person to live old, even if the love becomes family affection in the end, or it fades I can accept it. When I was young, I felt that love was an indispensable thing in life, and at that time, I took love very seriously, and I minded the feeling of heartbeat, and I minded love very much, but it may be that I am getting older, I have seen more and heard more, and I have more and more understanding of what life is, so at this time, I am actually not so much looking forward to love.

But not so much expectation, does not mean that I do not look forward to marriage, many people sometimes, may be the love and marriage mistaken, many people always say, I want to marry the person I love, I want to marry the person I love, but very much time you will find that the person you love may not be suitable for you, and the person who is suitable for you, you may not be so deeply in love, so I think marriage and love, everyone had better not be confused. Marrying a suitable person, I think there will be a lot of contradictions, such as the right door, so that there will be a lot less trouble, and everyone will not have a sense of insecurity, always feel that you take advantage of my family, I want to take advantage of your family, and because of the education that two people have received, the family environment is similar, it is easier to agree on the three views, and it is easier to agree on many small problems in life, and finally small things will reduce a lot of contradictions. Love is love, marriage is marriage, the marriage I have now is what I thought was suitable at the beginning, the right family, the education is comparable, the income is comparable, the personality is suitable, the two people will not have that heart-pounding feeling together in Pizhou, but it will make people feel very comfortable, not tired, will not always want to take and give, maybe in the eyes of many people, this is a marriage that will be settled, but I feel that this is the marriage I want, I like this kind of dull married life.

Manly, big husband, take your own idea.

What is the relationship between husband and wife based on? It is not by loving each other, and it requires mutual understanding, trust and care, with mutual trust and a sense of responsibility for the family, there is also harmony between husband and wife. And your husband and wife have not been married for a long time, there are many contradictions, and the woman adopts an evasive attitude when there are contradictions, which makes each other lose trust, become indifferent, and then lose the harmony that the family should have.

Therefore, it is recommended that you have a serious talk with her, exchange their own ideas, live together, and it is normal for unpleasant things to happen, but you must communicate in time, empathize, understand each other, think more about each other's feelings and positions, and make up for your own shortcomings together, so that two people will naturally live in harmony.

What should I do if I just got married, take a good look at my marriage, and if I really can't get along, I'll leave. If you feel that you can still get along, it's just that there are differences in how you deal with people, and that's another matter.

Now that there are no children, the marriage problem is quite easy to deal with, if there are children, then often quarrel, make awkward trouble, and even divorce is extremely bad for the child's success.

Please think carefully about the cause and effect.